Cuckolds: let’s talk about it.

I’m a white woman happily married to a loving white guy.

I have been having an affair with a black man on the side and my husband has no idea. The sex is just too intense for me to give up, and it’s made me realize I’m kinkier than I had originally thought. It’s also made me fantasize about my husband doing all the things cuckold porn shows like creampie cleanup, licking my feet after sex, and licking my armpits after sex.

The goal of this thread is to really understand the cuckold mindset so I can get my husband into it without messing up my marriage.

What is it about cuckolding that turns you on? Do you watch your wife or does she just come home freshly fucked? What does sex between you and your wife look like in your fantasies, or are you fully pussy free?

Is smell a really big part of it for you? that’s a big thing for my bull and I’m never going to wear armpit deodorant ever again!
That's hot well I'm pretty sure ur husband knows you are cheating , cause I knew and I got so turned on that I didn't mind and I played dumb lol that's how I started my cuckold journey 😍
 
I’m a white woman happily married to a loving white guy.

I have been having an affair with a black man on the side and my husband has no idea. The sex is just too intense for me to give up, and it’s made me realize I’m kinkier than I had originally thought. It’s also made me fantasize about my husband doing all the things cuckold porn shows like creampie cleanup, licking my feet after sex, and licking my armpits after sex.

The goal of this thread is to really understand the cuckold mindset so I can get my husband into it without messing up my marriage.

What is it about cuckolding that turns you on? Do you watch your wife or does she just come home freshly fucked? What does sex between you and your wife look like in your fantasies, or are you fully pussy free?

Is smell a really big part of it for you? that’s a big thing for my bull and I’m never going to wear armpit deodorant ever again!
First of all, I think of a "cuckold." as defined by Webster's dictionary, ": a man whose wife is unfaithful." (https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/cuckold).
Any of the other 'options' are not necessary to make your husband a cuckold. Now, if you want him to participate in creampie eating, foot licking, armpit smelling, you will need to know, he accepts your unfaithfulness first.

Have you ever discussed your previous sexual encounters before you were married? Did he get aroused listening? If so, he might be willing to listen to your confession of fucking another man now. Start slowly, with a fictional story about someone you know at work, who is fucking a black man, behind her husband's back. See how it goes. Keep expanding the story, to see how it affects him. If he likes it, you will know for sure, 100% by how he reacts in bed.

I can only say that if you were my wife, I would LOVE to hear of your infidelity, eat your creampie pussy, lick your feet, anything else you wished for me to do. I can't really pinpoint one thing, or a specific time, that made me want to become a cuckold, but I know it has become the driving sexual force in 'our' lives.

By the way, there is no need to deny him sex, unless the two of you want it that way. I love hearing the details, ALL of them.
 
My wife wasn't into this but on occasion, very seldom she would role play that she came home to me after being fucked at work..I always thought that she could have made it so much more interesting if she had something like egg white (or whatever works) dripping out of her for me to clean up, and in effect, I wouldn't know if she really had had sex or not. I think we could have tried that and worked up to cuckolding had she been willing.
 
It has varied over the years. She has almost always had a Bull or more since we accepted our lifestyle. We are currently looking for her new Bull now. Her last Bull was here 3 or 4 times a week.
Mmmm, that sounds lovely and quite a lot. Are you always there with her?
 
It has varied over the years. She has almost always had a Bull or more since we accepted our lifestyle. We are currently looking for her new Bull now. Her last Bull was here 3 or 4 times a week.
Thanks. Calibrating myself to see if I'm doing it too much or not enough. personal preference of course.
 
No, not always. There have been many times I waited at home. I enjoy both, but for different reasons. Looking into the woman you loves eyes as she is being truly satisfied is amazing. Waiting and thinking about what she is doing can be asexy night.
I agree they would both be very sexy. Love the thought of my wife spending the night with another man, then coming home to me in the morning.
 
I’m a white woman happily married to a loving white guy.

I have been having an affair with a black man on the side and my husband has no idea. The sex is just too intense for me to give up, and it’s made me realize I’m kinkier than I had originally thought. It’s also made me fantasize about my husband doing all the things cuckold porn shows like creampie cleanup, licking my feet after sex, and licking my armpits after sex.

The goal of this thread is to really understand the cuckold mindset so I can get my husband into it without messing up my marriage.

What is it about cuckolding that turns you on? Do you watch your wife or does she just come home freshly fucked? What does sex between you and your wife look like in your fantasies, or are you fully pussy free?

Is smell a really big part of it for you? that’s a big thing for my bull and I’m never going to wear armpit deodorant ever again!
How i started was my gf had me use toys on her that were bigger than me and she woukd ask if i like watching and at first i felt awkward but as it went on i got more curious
 
I have often wondered over the years if it was truly my idea for her to have lovers... or hers, just making me think it was my idea. Lol
A thought provoking idea. For many years, I thought it was me, that got my wife thinking that way too. Now I know that she was the driving force all along.
 
We have been swinging since our early twenties. Lot older now and still do it. Now more of this since I am not as potent. We both like it though and have a couple of regulars and and an occasional extra.
 
I’m a white woman happily married to a loving white guy.

I have been having an affair with a black man on the side and my husband has no idea. The sex is just too intense for me to give up, and it’s made me realize I’m kinkier than I had originally thought. It’s also made me fantasize about my husband doing all the things cuckold porn shows like creampie cleanup, licking my feet after sex, and licking my armpits after sex.

The goal of this thread is to really understand the cuckold mindset so I can get my husband into it without messing up my marriage.

What is it about cuckolding that turns you on? Do you watch your wife or does she just come home freshly fucked? What does sex between you and your wife look like in your fantasies, or are you fully pussy free?

Is smell a really big part of it for you? that’s a big thing for my bull and I’m never going to wear armpit deodorant ever again!
Well, first of all, appreciate the risk you are taking even mentioning to your husband that you have been having this affair. Never mind big black dicks and all that, depending on who your husband is, his understandable feeling of betrayal may be all it takes for him to file for divorce.

I'm going to skip past lots of other things and imagine a scenario in which your husband turns out to be excited by not simply you getting fucked by the black man but--and this is where all such porn, professional or homemade, in this genre seems to miss what I consider to be the hottest version of it--your husband, upon seeing that big black dick, unexpectedly, and so quick and complete he's not aware of it happening before it's done, actually loses his masculinity and heterosexuality, now a distant memory, craving
and surrendering his now limp body to it just like any woman would.
In other words, we have left behind the usual cuckold stuff involving the husband watching and being humiliated, this husband yearns for his mouth and throat and anus to be used by that superior sexual force as much as you do.
You have feminized him. Made him a servant to that cock like to many white women before him.
 
I can understand how the Oxford dictionary has ridged definitions as that is what a dictionary establishes, but yet I am not so sure they can morph as quickly as society does and especially so in a sexual context. I think the Oxford dictionary should tweak its definition because to me a “Cuckold” is not merely a husband being cheated on but rather one that knows his wife is with another and consents to it.

I seldom talk about our foray into cuckolding because reality was not quite as exciting to some as they think of it. My wife had my permission, and I knew where she was and what she was doing, but I was never with her when she was with another man sexually. Some men I knew, and some I did not, but it was still exciting for me to be alone and yet know my wife was being sexually pleased by another man, and sexually pleasing a stranger that she was quickly become intimate with.

In those years, she did it quite frequently, but I never was able to get what I truly wanted, to be right there with her as she took him. It was just something that never quite worked out, although she was not opposed to it.

Still I found the emotional rollercoaster intriguing. Being alone and curious, jealous at moments and other times excited, then in her coming home the next morning, her being reclaimed and knowing someone had been in her just hours before. It is hard to put into words because it was not a single emotion that was felt, but a range of contrasting ones.

But there was surprises too. As a couple we had tried anal sex but she did not care for it, but having been seduced into it by a bull, she later told me his technique, why it worked, and so we tried it ourselves and from her love of it afterwards was something we included in our marriage often. That takes having an open-mind, but yet that is required too of cuckolding from the start.
 
Well, first of all, appreciate the risk you are taking even mentioning to your husband that you have been having this affair. Never mind big black dicks and all that, depending on who your husband is, his understandable feeling of betrayal may be all it takes for him to file for divorce.

I'm going to skip past lots of other things and imagine a scenario in which your husband turns out to be excited by not simply you getting fucked by the black man but--and this is where all such porn, professional or homemade, in this genre seems to miss what I consider to be the hottest version of it--your husband, upon seeing that big black dick, unexpectedly, and so quick and complete he's not aware of it happening before it's done, actually loses his masculinity and heterosexuality, now a distant memory, craving
and surrendering his now limp body to it just like any woman would.
In other words, we have left behind the usual cuckold stuff involving the husband watching and being humiliated, this husband yearns for his mouth and throat and anus to be used by that superior sexual force as much as you do.
You have feminized him. Made him a servant to that cock like to many white women before him.
When we started out in our early twenties this one bull that was a little older than us had me on my back and grabbed my legs and put them over his shoulders and told my wife it was my turn and told her to lube us up. She did and he told her to guide it. I felt him opening me up but in that position there was nothing I could do but take it. She told me to relax and take it. She actually helped him pop my cherry. It did feel good once he was in. He fucked me hard and I felt the warmth of his cum inside me. He kissed my wife and told her he had two girls now. He told us I needed to dress appropriately next time. Since I had to my wife helped me. We was about twenty three and she made me look very nice. He would chat with her and tell her things to make me do like wear a dress and go driving with her and have me gas the car. Then he wanted us to go into a store together. He said I needed to get used to it. It was always just a little more. One day our neighbors boy who had graduated a year or so earlier popped up as we were going to the car. I was caught. He didn't even realize it was me at first. My wife told him she was making me see what she had to go through in a day. He said well cool. But now he knew. A little later a friend of his asked me how I liked wearing a dress. I knew he had told him. He asked if we was into sharing. So we did. Soon we was sharing with two other men around there. I was well into being feminized. We was heavy into it for the next twenty years or so. One guy moved off
Well, first of all, appreciate the risk you are taking even mentioning to your husband that you have been having this affair. Never mind big black dicks and all that, depending on who your husband is, his understandable feeling of betrayal may be all it takes for him to file for divorce.

I'm going to skip past lots of other things and imagine a scenario in which your husband turns out to be excited by not simply you getting fucked by the black man but--and this is where all such porn, professional or homemade, in this genre seems to miss what I consider to be the hottest version of it--your husband, upon seeing that big black dick, unexpectedly, and so quick and complete he's not aware of it happening before it's done, actually loses his masculinity and heterosexuality, now a distant memory, craving
and surrendering his now limp body to it just like any woman would.
In other words, we have left behind the usual cuckold stuff involving the husband watching and being humiliated, this husband yearns for his mouth and throat and anus to be used by that superior sexual force as much as you do.
You have feminized him. Made him a servant to that cock like to many white women before him.
One day our neighbors boy who had graduated a year or so earlier popped up as we were going to the car. I was caught. He didn't even realize it was me at first. My wife told him she was making me see what she had to go through in a day. He said well cool. But now he knew. A little later a friend of his asked me how I liked wearing a dress. I knew he had told him. He asked if we was into sharing. So we did. Soon we was sharing with two other men around there. I was well into being feminized. We was heavy into it for the next twenty years or so. One guy moved off and still wanted to fuck her but our schedules never worked out. I knew she loved fucking him so I told her she ought to go meet him sometime. One day I was at work and she called and said Buddy had called and she said she was going to go meet him at a town about fifty miles away. I had just become a cuckold. And I love it still.
 
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