My Dilemma (Kind Of)

[JenniZinc]

My winery in Victoria, Australia is 'clothing optional'. Nothing official, it's just that I let my (mostly migrant) workers know that they can expect to see me working naked, and they are welcome to wear anything they like.

Most workers are Filipino, and of religious backgrounds. Rarely is my offer taken up, most just get on with their tasks of harvesting or maintaining vines. Some choose not to work for me, and I have been subject to some complaints - one recently lead to a settlement of just under $6,000 for 'wilful exposure'.

So, I tread a fine line. I make sure that any nudity is strictly non sexual, but for the most part my work is away from the vines in order to keep a safe distance.

There is currently one young married couple (both 23) that are staying on my property, rather than in town. Neither speak a word of English. Both are stick thin, unlike me. She is gorgeous, with a bob haircut, practically no boobs, and could be a model is circumstances were different for her. He is also short and slim, nothing exceptional but a nice guy all round.

They are welcome to use my hot tub (running cool as it's still our summer) and she uses it topless, but her bikini top comes straight back on. He, on the the other hand has embraced nudity to the next level. In fact, in the past few weeks I have barely seen him with clothes. His penis is small, I mean really small, and he has a mass of pubic hair on top and shaved underneath. And he's penis is more often than not erect.

Here's the problem. I am getting turned on by him. Having an almost sexless marriage could be contributing to this, but seeing him appear to almost always be ready for action is making me want some of that action. I know that he is fixated with my body, that is nothing like his wife's.

I have no interest in a threesome, and don't believe she would either. I would also hate to cause any damage to their marriage. I also don't want to break my unspoken rule of keeping things non sexual. But I can't stop thinking about taking advantage of him when his wife's not around. I fantasise about his penis constantly.

My feeling is that I will bite my tongue and keep my legs together. It's simply not worth it.

 

[Saint_Ann]

My winery in Victoria, Australia is 'clothing optional'. Nothing official, it's just that I let my (mostly migrant) workers know that they can expect to see me working naked, and they are welcome to wear anything they like.

Most workers are Filipino, and of religious backgrounds. Rarely is my offer taken up, most just get on with their tasks of harvesting or maintaining vines. Some choose not to work for me, and I have been subject to some complaints - one recently lead to a settlement of just under $6,000 for 'wilful exposure'.

So, I tread a fine line. I make sure that any nudity is strictly non sexual, but for the most part my work is away from the vines in order to keep a safe distance.

There is currently one young married couple (both 23) that are staying on my property, rather than in town. Neither speak a word of English. Both are stick thin, unlike me. She is gorgeous, with a bob haircut, practically no boobs, and could be a model is circumstances were different for her. He is also short and slim, nothing exceptional but a nice guy all round.

They are welcome to use my hot tub (running cool as it's still our summer) and she uses it topless, but her bikini top comes straight back on. He, on the the other hand has embraced nudity to the next level. In fact, in the past few weeks I have barely seen him with clothes. His penis is small, I mean really small, and he has a mass of pubic hair on top and shaved underneath. And he's penis is more often than not erect.

Here's the problem. I am getting turned on by him. Having an almost sexless marriage could be contributing to this, but seeing him appear to almost always be ready for action is making me want some of that action. I know that he is fixated with my body, that is nothing like his wife's.

I have no interest in a threesome, and don't believe she would either. I would also hate to cause any damage to their marriage. I also don't want to break my unspoken rule of keeping things non sexual. But I can't stop thinking about taking advantage of him when his wife's not around. I fantasise about his penis constantly.

My feeling is that I will bite my tongue and keep my legs together. It's simply not worth it.

You are assuming he is interested in you.

 

[JenniZinc]

You are assuming he is interested in you.

Yes I am and could totally be wrong. His wife is a stunner and I'm a chubbyish woman close to 60. Were something to happen he would be doing it just to satisfy a curiosity. If he wasn't erect all the time I would probably treat it like any other time in front of naked people!

 

[ericrodman101]

So they're not religious people then if they're hot tubbing in scanties or nothing. If she's model material maybe you could help her get some work in that field. There must be a local technical or art college who need volunteers to pose. As for him, you're probably going to have to ask, maybe while she's off being photographed.

 

[Robbo694u]

Yes I am and could totally be wrong. His wife is a stunner and I'm a chubbyish woman close to 60. Were something to happen he would be doing it just to satisfy a curiosity. If he wasn't erect all the time I would probably treat it like any other time in front of naked people!

I think you mean you're a curvaceous or voluptuous woman in her 50s, with natural urges, and so seeing an erect cock obviously gets the mind wandering

 

[Walkabout33]

Hi, I agree it’s not worth it for many reasons. However no one gets hurt if you let your imagination run riot and I’m sure you will find many safer opportunities to release all that tension.

 

[Gator66]

I am in a near sexless marriage. Sex is sporadic and happens at the oddest times, often when I am absolutely not in the mood, but I never turn down and opportunity once it is available. When I do embrace my wife at times, I can't believe how desperate I am for her touch and for physical intimacy. I've tried to discuss this with her but to no avail. I have finally come to accept that my love language is physical touch. I do love and adore my wife, and I know if our discussions on this topic go nowhere, I am panicked about what it might mean for our relationship. So, all of this is a long way of saying, that the problem you have with your husband won't be helped by physical intimacy with this married guy. I hope that you can make progress with your husband. Maybe his testosterone levels are low, which is very common. Low testosterone kills libido. Has he been to a doc to have his levels checked? BTW, if he does go for blood work, he needs to go very soon after waking up in the morning otherwise the reading isn't very meaningful.

 

[Gecko1961]

IDK, I'm going to go the other direction. If the opportunity arises (no pun), talk to him up close, allowing some skin to skin contact, and see if he reacts the way you hope.
You never know what's going on in their marriage. Maybe he's horny as hell. Maybe he's fantasizing about you as much as you are him.

Let us know how this story ends (or begins).

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Super sexy.

 

[boogiefever]

Yes I am and could totally be wrong. His wife is a stunner and I'm a chubbyish woman close to 60. Were something to happen he would be doing it just to satisfy a curiosity. If he wasn't erect all the time I would probably treat it like any other time in front of naked people!

So what ended up happening here, Jenni? Inquiring minds want to know…

 

[JenniZinc]

So what ended up happening here, Jenni? Inquiring minds want to know…

It fizzled into nothing, as they were posted to another vineyard a couple of hours away. In retrospect it's good that nothing eventuated as it could have put my business into a sensitive place, in terms of having relationships with itinerant workers.

 

[boogiefever]

It fizzled into nothing, as they were posted to another vineyard a couple of hours away. In retrospect it's good that nothing eventuated as it could have put my business into a sensitive place, in terms of having relationships with itinerant workers.

I wonder if he is still walking around with an erect cock

 

[Whynotyeahwhynot]

Well Jenni the one thing you be proud of, it was your sexy body making his cock hard and not his model girlfriend. I mean he was having her maybe every night but probably thinking about you and your charms. He might have been imagining having his cock between your wonderful big tits while he was in her bony pussy, and he wanted it to be your lips round his cock when she sucked him off.

 

[Fillingthevoid]

So they're not religious people then if they're hot tubbing in scanties or nothing. If she's model material maybe you could help her get some work in that field. There must be a local technical or art college who need volunteers to pose. As for him, you're probably going to have to ask, maybe while she's off being photographed.

What didn’t Jesus have the first documented foot fetish?? Going washing people’s feet even had prostitute doing it?

 

[MaturemanAJ]

My winery in Victoria, Australia is 'clothing optional'. Nothing official, it's just that I let my (mostly migrant) workers know that they can expect to see me working naked, and they are welcome to wear anything they like.

Most workers are Filipino, and of religious backgrounds. Rarely is my offer taken up, most just get on with their tasks of harvesting or maintaining vines. Some choose not to work for me, and I have been subject to some complaints - one recently lead to a settlement of just under $6,000 for 'wilful exposure'.

So, I tread a fine line. I make sure that any nudity is strictly non sexual, but for the most part my work is away from the vines in order to keep a safe distance.

There is currently one young married couple (both 23) that are staying on my property, rather than in town. Neither speak a word of English. Both are stick thin, unlike me. She is gorgeous, with a bob haircut, practically no boobs, and could be a model is circumstances were different for her. He is also short and slim, nothing exceptional but a nice guy all round.

They are welcome to use my hot tub (running cool as it's still our summer) and she uses it topless, but her bikini top comes straight back on. He, on the the other hand has embraced nudity to the next level. In fact, in the past few weeks I have barely seen him with clothes. His penis is small, I mean really small, and he has a mass of pubic hair on top and shaved underneath. And he's penis is more often than not erect.

Here's the problem. I am getting turned on by him. Having an almost sexless marriage could be contributing to this, but seeing him appear to almost always be ready for action is making me want some of that action. I know that he is fixated with my body, that is nothing like his wife's.

I have no interest in a threesome, and don't believe she would either. I would also hate to cause any damage to their marriage. I also don't want to break my unspoken rule of keeping things non sexual. But I can't stop thinking about taking advantage of him when his wife's not around. I fantasise about his penis constantly.

My feeling is that I will bite my tongue and keep my legs together. It's simply not worth it.

I don't have an answer to your desires for a micro penis man other than it sounds like he is nice and you appear to be lacking that in your relationship.
Isn't it funny how even though you don't speak the same language you have found him sexually appealing?

I do have to inquire with you about working there however.
I am nearing retirement age and have some friends in Australia. I understand how huge of a land mass Australiia is and don't know where you live in comparison. I prefer not to come and see them for a short period of time due to the expense of flying there.
I live being naked outdoors so if you consider seasonal workers I might be interested in helping out.
I see you don't alliw pm's so hit me up here fir a response

 

[JenniZinc]

Well Jenni the one thing you be proud of, it was your sexy body making his cock hard and not his model girlfriend. I mean he was having her maybe every night but probably thinking about you and your charms. He might have been imagining having his cock between your wonderful big tits while he was in her bony pussy, and he wanted it to be your lips round his cock when she sucked him off.

You have an active imagination No idea what he was thinking about, but yes there was a difference in our body types - chubby mature vs. stick thin hottie (and she was hot, believe me)

 

[JenniZinc]

I don't have an answer to your desires for a micro penis man other than it sounds like he is nice and you appear to be lacking that in your relationship.
Isn't it funny how even though you don't speak the same language you have found him sexually appealing?

I do have to inquire with you about working there however.
I am nearing retirement age and have some friends in Australia. I understand how huge of a land mass Australiia is and don't know where you live in comparison. I prefer not to come and see them for a short period of time due to the expense of flying there.
I live being naked outdoors so if you consider seasonal workers I might be interested in helping out.
I see you don't alliw pm's so hit me up here fir a response

Hi, my location is in the Yarra Valley wine region, which is in Australia's south east. I generally only hire workers during harvesting and these are usually teams managed by a labour hire company that specialises in the wine industry. Aside from that I mostly manage the vineyards on my own - it can be quite a dull life, but I enjoy the calm and relaxation. Tourism in our area is mostly domestic, so if you are visiting from the US (I assume) I'd suggest that wine regions shouldn't possibly be high on your list as you have plenty of these in your own country

 

[JenniZinc]

I am in a near sexless marriage. Sex is sporadic and happens at the oddest times, often when I am absolutely not in the mood, but I never turn down and opportunity once it is available. When I do embrace my wife at times, I can't believe how desperate I am for her touch and for physical intimacy. I've tried to discuss this with her but to no avail. I have finally come to accept that my love language is physical touch. I do love and adore my wife, and I know if our discussions on this topic go nowhere, I am panicked about what it might mean for our relationship. So, all of this is a long way of saying, that the problem you have with your husband won't be helped by physical intimacy with this married guy. I hope that you can make progress with your husband. Maybe his testosterone levels are low, which is very common. Low testosterone kills libido. Has he been to a doc to have his levels checked? BTW, if he does go for blood work, he needs to go very soon after waking up in the morning otherwise the reading isn't very meaningful.

Ha ha, none of the above My husband introduced same sex (male on male) fantasies into our sex life, which then lead to a lot of threesome activities. He has since drifter further towards men, sexually, although will never go one on one with them, therefore I'm always involved. I honestly don't mind this, as I do enjoy MMF activities, even though I'm rarely the focus. What it does mean though is that our personal sex life has dropped to an all time low.

I will never feel guilty about having an affair, but the circumstances need to be right. The one I described above could have been a disaster.

 

[lets_roll_12]

Well, you definitely present an interesting aspect to wine making by doing it naked! Good for you!

Here’s (possibly obvious) a question: private wine tasting - clothes optional? By invitation only perhaps. Not insinuating anything crude, just curious on your thoughts or experiences @JenniZinc

 

[Gator66]

Ha ha, none of the above My husband introduced same sex (male on male) fantasies into our sex life, which then lead to a lot of threesome activities. He has since drifter further towards men, sexually, although will never go one on one with them, therefore I'm always involved. I honestly don't mind this, as I do enjoy MMF activities, even though I'm rarely the focus. What it does mean though is that our personal sex life has dropped to an all time low.

I will never feel guilty about having an affair, but the circumstances need to be right. The one I described above could have been a disaster.

Jenni, I appreciate that you shared your story and your response to my message. I certainly hope that you are loved the way that you desire to be loved.

 

[JenniZinc]

Well, you definitely present an interesting aspect to wine making by doing it naked! Good for you!

Here’s (possibly obvious) a question: private wine tasting - clothes optional? By invitation only perhaps. Not insinuating anything crude, just curious on your thoughts or experiences @JenniZinc

I should probably correct some perceptions as I don't always work naked. I spend a lot of time inspecting vines and this I rarely wear any clothes (spring and summer) however any of the dirty work strong work wear is essential including heavy boots. We have a lot of snakes in our area, so it could be bad without protection.

Also re wine tastings, a nice thought but I'm a wine grape grower and supplier to the Australian and overseas markets. I don't have my own label, so there's never anything to taste. People think of viticulture as a sexy industry but it's really just farming in most cases

 

[Treeview]

Interesting story arc. One of many possibilities

Are you still looking

 

[JenniZinc]

Interesting story arc. One of many possibilities

Are you still looking

No, not actively looking. I did mention affair above, but would really only be interested in encounters

 

[Treeview]

Hi Jenni

It’s good to be clear from the beginning about expectations. B very clear

That was a a hard lesson to learn. In my my mind I thought that she was clear that I was interested in finding a playmate. Shet wanted much more.

After her I, like you, keep things clear


Have fun

Tom

 

[lets_roll_12]

I should probably correct some perceptions as I don't always work naked. I spend a lot of time inspecting vines and this I rarely wear any clothes (spring and summer) however any of the dirty work strong work wear is essential including heavy boots. We have a lot of snakes in our area, so it could be bad without protection.

Also re wine tastings, a nice thought but I'm a wine grape grower and supplier to the Australian and overseas markets. I don't have my own label, so there's never anything to taste. People think of viticulture as a sexy industry but it's really just farming in most cases

Ahh… apologies for the presumption! I was thinking you were perhaps fermenting, bottling and cellaring your own boutique label. Yep - that is farming, for sure! Critical work, nonetheless!

Oh yeah - danger noodles and nudity sans work wear and boots would be an uncomfortable occurrence I spend plenty of time wandering around in the bush up here for work and anything less than boots and pants.. it ain’t happening! So, tipping my hat to you there