🎧 Parlay with PG-an audio thread for the aural

[PrettyLilPussy19]

An audio where PG is open and vulnerable about sexual mismatches and how to navigate them.

an attempt at an answer

 

[EvaLane]

Such an actual ramble (8:29) string of sort of (?) related thoughts. Sorry, I really do wish I had some answers and not just… nonsense

 

[ShaneoD]

Such an actual ramble (8:29) string of sort of (?) related thoughts. Sorry, I really do wish I had some answers and not just… nonsense

Of all places I listened to this on the bus, but I really enjoyed it and your thoughts behind what you were saying. You've got to know what makes you whole before you can try to make someone else's life better or ask them to add to yours. And there's a lot to be said for seeing someones boundaries and what they're comfortable with and respecting that too, so glad I brought my headphones for this trip

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Such an actual ramble (8:29) string of sort of (?) related thoughts. Sorry, I really do wish I had some answers and not just… nonsense

I think this was spot on. And of course the answer is "compromise" but what if you're tired of compromising those things? I don't know the answer. But I may ramble again tomorrow.
Thanks, as always, Eva.

 

[AlpineFresco]

And off he goes, on a marathon of a monologue
https://voca.ro/1c87bkXi3ZBp

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

And off he goes, on a marathon of a monologue
https://voca.ro/1c87bkXi3ZBp

I feel like you're insinuating I'm not as brilliant as I think I am

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I'm so sorry.
I had notes and it's still 11 minutes.

takes a time out

 

[velona]

https://voca.ro/19Wb3vKpVwm2

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

https://voca.ro/19Wb3vKpVwm2

It's so lovely to hear your voice and I totally agree with you about community being more difficult these days. Not romanticizing at all.

 

[AlpineFresco]

https://voca.ro/19Wb3vKpVwm2

It's past midnight here so I can play my Tuesday Ramble Card, on the topic of there being a better way
https://voca.ro/19C7NUpqwVJE

 

[velona]

https://voca.ro/14fk0Tf4zCkP

 

[Photog1rl]

Such an actual ramble (8:29) string of sort of (?) related thoughts. Sorry, I really do wish I had some answers and not just… nonsense

https://voca.ro/167tKkViFzwc

 

[Photog1rl]

an attempt at an answer

https://voca.ro/1oGyjMANyqYa

 

[Photog1rl]

And off he goes, on a marathon of a monologue
https://voca.ro/1c87bkXi3ZBp

https://voca.ro/1UGunVkXJ2hU

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

an attempt at an answer

It's as close to an answer to a Q like that as I think any of us can have. And you're always just so darn thoughtful.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

https://voca.ro/1oGyjMANyqYa

"Big holes" made me snort

I'm going to wrote a response bc I've talked way too much but I had two points.

1. From on Asker to another - your question was clear but everyone will bring their own experiences and perspectives which often takes the question in totally different places than you expect. Which is always interesting to hear. It may not be the answer you expected but it might turn out to resonate for someone else. Don't sweat it!

2. Opening up or bringing in others. I don't have a ton of advice but I'll say I started this conversation by offering what I wanted to him. "If you ever wanted xyz, I'd be open to it" type of talks. It may seem less scary if they don't sense its a personal attack and things go both ways.

 

[AlpineFresco]

Things I have no right to speak on 'cause I'm not experienced there, but also talking to your people:
https://voca.ro/12iU6xfmYExs

 

[Photog1rl]

@EvaLane @PrettyLilPussy19 @AlpineFresco @AngelicaS1780 @LustfulIntentions2 and anyone else that listens to me ramble.
Thank you and I’m know I got a little defensive

 

[Photog1rl]

I'm so sorry.
I had notes and it's still 11 minutes.

takes a time out

First off-
AMEN
AMEN
AMEN
A-fucking-men
there is so much that is the same for us. Like a mind blowing amount of sameness
Being someone’s 100% is not what it’s made out to be!
Needing your heart, mind, and cunt to be in alignment resonates so hard.

 

[EvaLane]

https://voca.ro/1eWYOGNxJxZs

 

[Photog1rl]

Let’s talk PDA.
https://voca.ro/1bXyiWdvntUf

 

[Photog1rl]

A PG blather about PDA

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Pre-coffee PDA chatter

 

[EvaLane]

Pre-coffee PDA chatter

Lmao “let’s take it back to my childhood”

(me too)

 

[EvaLane]

In which I never answer anything ever and still talk for 8 minutes