For straight men who have sucked a cock or want to...

I was the same way as are most guys I think. I did chicken out several times before I finally went through with it. Although my first time wasn’t that good I was grateful for the experience.
Was it as good as you thought it would be?
 
And the feeling of his cock pulsing as he squirts his seed all over in your mouth.
I tasted, smelled and swallowed cum my 2nd time. It was awesome. His was thick and creamy like yogurt, tasted kinda sweet and felt so good sliding down my throat. The aroma was damn near intoxicating. I love it. I’ve learned over the years that the taste and smell of a man’s cum depends on his health, diet and whether or not he smokes.
 
Im confused. How can you have sucked a cock or want to suck a cock and still be considered straight ?
Your problem is trying to divide the world in two parts, in black and white, with a clear straight line when the world isnt like that.

Taking your own words it takes just one act just one time and that it: you aren't straight anymore.
A girl tried with another girl. Even if she did on curiosity (or even pressure) and didn't like it and never repeats, baamm, lifeis2short2b says: "you shall not return to straight".
Did she kissed a girl friend before she kissed her first bf, baam, isn't straight. Its just lying to themselves.

Because there isn't curiosity, experiments, pleasure for the sake of pleasure, people DON'T change.

Well, I'm glad I'm not like that. Life is too short to care about what other people do and other people sexuality.

Why people nowadays feel like they are the police of words and good behaviour? This isn't medieval ages anymore.
 
Very well said friend. Thank you. That was refreshing. One needn’t wear a label but should just be themselves and enjoy whatever it is they want to as long as it’s legal, mutual and no one gets hurt. Sexuality is very fluid and likes can change at a moments notice.
 
I think being gay or straight isnt about the acta that give you pleasure but about feelings.

If you were on a relationship with a cis-woman where the only intercourse was pegging and sucking the strap on would you be a gay couple as well? Or even if performing anal sex, isnt that someone that gay couples do?

Are you attracted to man? Do you want to be with them?

There are a lot of people that dont feel romanticaly people from same sex but they want or are willing to try same sex acts or like to perform here and there some same sex acts. Called bi curious others straight-flex.

I think these new words cames from the necessity of people and society putting labels into everything and everyone. Well than we need 8,2 billion labels because there isnt 2 exactly equal.

A woman experiments with a girl: its normal, its sexy. A guys is with a girl (trans), is gay. Both sides of society put labels into people. Well labels are for cans. Stop worrying about it.

Are you happy, is she happy? Than fuck all the rest
I am perfectly happy to wear the label of gay. I used to care but I don't care anymore.
 
Queer for me, please. Queerer than a $3 bill.
Queer is my wife's favourite descriptor. Not bi or lesbian. She's had an LTR with a woman in the past but we're together now and accept each other's position on the sliding scale. Neither of us are completely straight but we have a strong love that transcends binary definitions of sexuality.
 
The rationalizations that people offer up to themselves are often wildly non-logical, but quite common.

Here's an exchange from one of my stories between a wife who's discovered her husband on the side has become cock-buddies (including oral) with a friend.


“It’s not ‘gay’ Barb. It’s fun with a friend. A guy who is married, yes, but this doesn’t affect the marriages of anyone.”

I got a glare back.

“Maybe not your view of marriage, but what about me? Or Carrie? How do you think we feel?”

“I think I know, Barb. You’re angry. I don’t blame you. I’m sorry. You think maybe I’m cheating, but I’m not.”

“But you’re doing sex stuff with someone else, who is not me. Isn’t that cheating?”

I shook my head. “No.”

I then got an even more alarmed look from Barb. “Are you in love, Clay?”

“No. Maybe with his cock, but not with him.”

This at least got a small laugh.
For some it's a defense mechanism— “If I say I'm straight, then it will be true.”

For others, it's that they still— after all these years!— view sexuality as a Cartesian duality: you're straight or you're gay, nothing in between (“But what about bisexuals?” — “Oh, yeah, them. Well, bisexuality is just a form of gaity.”)

They don't understand— or accept— that sexuality exists on a scale, with pure hetero- or pure homo- as the unlikely extremes. In between, an infinitely variable spectrum of things like the bicurious, the bisexual/hetero-romantic, the perfect bisexual, and so on... No. That's too complicated. We want life to be simple.
Being " confuse" was tongue in cheek. I don't need an explanation. I know what straight means. 100%
 
Your problem is trying to divide the world in two parts, in black and white, with a clear straight line when the world isnt like that.

Taking your own words it takes just one act just one time and that it: you aren't straight anymore.
A girl tried with another girl. Even if she did on curiosity (or even pressure) and didn't like it and never repeats, baamm, lifeis2short2b says: "you shall not return to straight".
Did she kissed a girl friend before she kissed her first bf, baam, isn't straight. Its just lying to themselves.

Because there isn't curiosity, experiments, pleasure for the sake of pleasure, people DON'T change.

Well, I'm glad I'm not like that. Life is too short to care about what other people do and other people sexuality.

Why people nowadays feel like they are the police of words and good behaviour? This isn't medieval ages anymore.
You must be a politician. Some things are black and white
 
I consider my straight in so much that I'm Heteroromantic. But I'm clearly BI (2 out 6 on the Kinsey Scale) because I do crave to have some types of M/M sex and have done so. I have no interest in any relationship or attraction to men, but I do love sucking cocks, swallowing cum and things in my ass...
 
Oh no, I have never been attracted to a man. They barely register on my radar lol. I am always on the lookout for a pretty woman.
And I'm the same. However, I fantasize about orally pleasuring a trans woman. I've let go of trying to label any of it.
 
And I'm the same. However, I fantasize about orally pleasuring a trans woman. I've let go of trying to label any of it.
I thought I might freak out when presented with a cock to suck. The owner of the cock was just so feminine, it didn't seem much different than sucking on a woman's clit (in my head anyway - obviously quite different in fact).
 
You must be a politician. Some things are black and white
Nothing is. You are delusional if you think so.
Like trying to define right or wrong, bad guys vs good guys, us vs them, with us or against us. No middle term.

Thats your problem, not mine if you let they tell you that there are only two ways, two sides, two anythings. I don't need validation nor aproove. I can say neither are good. Or I can agree with some parts of someone said and disagree with others. Don't fucking care. Don't fucking care about you think or say that world should be but world isn't black and ain't isnt white.

There is a lot I don't understand, a lot I wouldn't choose for me but if not hurting anyone, I don't care! Neither should you. Its not your business.
The guys defending this is straight this isnt are so affraid. Affraid of what? Are you so fragile?
 
I thought I might freak out when presented with a cock to suck. The owner of the cock was just so feminine, it didn't seem much different than sucking on a woman's clit (in my head anyway - obviously quite different in fact).
I mean it really is. I remember the first time I saw a big clit on a vid and thought it was so hot, but like sucking a tiny cock. I have sucked myself only and I enjoy it, both the feeling on it and also of it in my mouth. I finally opened myself up to the idea of sucking on a beautiful trans woman a couple years ago and now it's one of my go-to fantasies. That being said, still not sexually attracted to guys. Maybe in the right, turned on enough setting I would just say "fuck it" but, I don't go looking for it.
 
Nothing is. You are delusional if you think so.
Like trying to define right or wrong, bad guys vs good guys, us vs them, with us or against us. No middle term.

Thats your problem, not mine if you let they tell you that there are only two ways, two sides, two anythings. I don't need validation nor aproove. I can say neither are good. Or I can agree with some parts of someone said and disagree with others. Don't fucking care. Don't fucking care about you think or say that world should be but world isn't black and ain't isnt white.

There is a lot I don't understand, a lot I wouldn't choose for me but if not hurting anyone, I don't care! Neither should you. Its not your business.
The guys defending this is straight this isnt are so affraid. Affraid of what? Are you so fragile?
True, but not this. I may have used to think so too, but as I got older and more open minded, I've realized that this particular area is not.
A "straight" man, in the context of sexual orientation, refers to a heterosexual man, meaning he is attracted to women. This attraction can be romantic, physical, or both. Essentially, a straight man experiences sexual attraction towards individuals of the opposite gender (females)

It's black and white. Are you straight yes or no. No twistig the words around if you like dick your either Bi or gay your choice but your not straight.

Not beating a dead horse debate amongst yourself.
 
A "straight" man, in the context of sexual orientation, refers to a heterosexual man, meaning he is attracted to women. This attraction can be romantic, physical, or both. Essentially, a straight man experiences sexual attraction towards individuals of the opposite gender (females)

It's black and white. Are you straight yes or no. No twistig the words around if you like dick your either Bi or gay your choice but your not straight.

Not beating a dead horse debate amongst yourself.
I don't claim to be nothing, like I said I don't care.
But I do care when someone thinks he knows everything, especially when its about other people lives.
Well you know shit.

You truths are built on nothing but your own prejudice.
You tell me this is A and B? For decades, almost two centuries real doctors, people that really study to the subject couldn't agree.
They propose different words, different scales (Kinsey scale, Klein grid whatever) but guess what, there is a guy, this anonymous guy that figured it out all by himself. Its one or another. And it is as he says.

You know shit. I might be wrong, I am probably wrong but boy I'm much closer to reality. And peace. Don't need to tell other people do this, dont do this.

And the top on the cherry: the topic clear states: for men that sucked a cock. You know what is about and you did came for what, just to play the priest? To show us the truth? Get a fucking life.
 
My first time was when I was prepubescent with another boy. He had already matured and had a pretty good sized cock. I wasn't nervous since I had instigated things. He also fucked me.
 
I don't claim to be nothing, like I said I don't care.
But I do care when someone thinks he knows everything, especially when its about other people lives.
Well you know shit.

You truths are built on nothing but your own prejudice.
You tell me this is A and B? For decades, almost two centuries real doctors, people that really study to the subject couldn't agree.
They propose different words, different scales (Kinsey scale, Klein grid whatever) but guess what, there is a guy, this anonymous guy that figured it out all by himself. Its one or another. And it is as he says.

You know shit. I might be wrong, I am probably wrong but boy I'm much closer to reality. And peace. Don't need to tell other people do this, dont do this.

And the top on the cherry: the topic clear states: for men that sucked a cock. You know what is about and you did came for what, just to play the priest? To show us the truth? Get a fucking life.
In your profile you state you are a pansexual. I don't care who you are or what you do ! I don't give a crap if your bi, gay, trans or whatever new word pops up for the next sexual preference.

Im not telling you what to do or not to do. You got all angry at me for just stating a fact. Instead of getting so defensive 🤔 and going on the attack. Educate me. Explain to me what being straight means ?
 
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