For people who like to be degraded and humiliated

[Silvergrizzly31]

I'd love to reopen getting dm's about degrading you and such Pretty simple message I know, forgive me I'm coming off a brutal illness this past week

 

[Bisexguy70]

I dont know if this applies but I love being called degrading names when sucking a mans dick. Some offensive to others makes my cock throb. I like being forced to submit and to lick ass on occasion. I discovered this by accident when meeting a guy in my hotel room for NSA fun. I mean i invited him yet he spoke to me like I was just some object for him to use. He was very clean but he demanded I lick his ass after giving him a hot bj. I must admit it made my cock throb hearing him degrade me. Would have been hotter with an audience and being humiliated. Here I considered myself a masc guy but find myself being used like a sissy. Any man is welcome and im open to DMs calling me every dirty name in the book and telling me filthy things that dont involve blood or scat. Piss isnt my thing but in fantasy i would be open to it

 

[Silvergrizzly31]

Trying not to bump too much, yet here we are Need some intense release due to some stresses in the real world lol

 

[33coco33]

What kind of degradation and humiliation do you enjoy? How do you enjoy getting stress relief?

 

[Silvergrizzly31]

What kind of degradation and humiliation do you enjoy? How do you enjoy getting stress relief?

Great question! I think for me, honestly, it is about the power differential. Coming to an agreement and having someone truly submit within those agreements. How about you?

 

[33coco33]

I agree that it has a lot to do with a good power differential, and finding an adequate balance of degradation and humiliation mixed with praise. If done well it is SO sexy.

 

[Silvergrizzly31]

the "I'm in need of some stimulation" bump

 

[Hrdnhrnyhubbie]

64 bi curious married male. Small cock. Luv wearing panties when i can. Like CBT. Luv to be humiliated via your messages.

 

[liqueur]

Are you interested in (ostensibly) male-esque type people? Because I need some good degradation from time to time. Open to most kinks, but nothing to do with scat. Feel free to message me if you like.

 

[liqueur]

@Silvergrizzly31 Bumping you back

 

[LFM90]

hey Im a 35yo white male tall average build.
I’ve always had a little kink for being on the submissive side to an older female. Such as forced sex spanked punished and even possibly pissed on by a Dom older female

 

[jim28]

My ex was dominant and humiliated and degraded and abused me in many ways, some more than I should talk about. I begged Her to do more and more. She also made sure Her family knew most of what went on here. Getting pissed on was on the mild end of the spectrum.

 

[liqueur]

possibly pissed on by a Dom older female

Getting pissed on was on the mild end of the spectrum.

Ah, piss, piss,
glorious piss!
Nothing quite soothes
like the sound of its hiss....

 

[CliimaxForYou]

Respectfully, I never understood the turn on for degradation and humiliation. To each their own, and it’s good to know what turns you on. Can anyone here respectfully educate mw on what the turn on is bout this? I’d really like to understand this.

 

[liqueur]

Can anyone here respectfully educate mw on what the turn on is bout this? I’d really like to understand this.

That's kind of like asking “why do blondes turns you on? Why not brunettes?”

For me, as near as I can tell, my humiliation kink is connected to things that happened in childhood, and as nearly as I can trace it back, it started before I even had any conscious understanding of what sex was.

But that's just me. I'm sure not going make any broad statements about why other people have a humiliation kink.

 

[Dearelliot]

My ex was dominant and humiliated and degraded and abused me in many ways, some more than I should talk about. I begged Her to do more and more. She also made sure Her family knew most of what went on here. Getting pissed on was on the mild end of the spectrum.

Love to hear more.

 

[CliimaxForYou]

That's kind of like asking “why do blondes turns you on? Why not brunettes?”

For me, as near as I can tell, my humiliation kink is connected to things that happened in childhood, and as nearly as I can trace it back, it started before I even had any conscious understanding of what sex was.

But that's just me. I'm sure not going make any broad statements about why other people have a humiliation kink.

Thanks for the reply.

 

[CliimaxForYou]

It's different for everyone, like @liqueur above put ever so elegantly.

For me, as I started to explore BDSM and kink, I learnt that (especially humiliation) gave me more of a thrill than almost anything physical. I enjoyed being pushed out of my boundaries and doing things that, if I wasn't burning with sexual arousal, I'd never even think of doing. It almost felt like an unravelling of the mask I wear everyday into my deeper desires. A lot of the various methods of sexual humiliation I've tried heighten my arousal and sexual desires.

Thank you

 

[liqueur]

Thanks for the reply.

Actually, I think I could have answered you better. It's true, as I said above, that the origins and the MO of any one person's humiliation kink will be their own, and unique to them.

But at it's core, if you can understand masochism, you can understand humiliation kink. Humiliation is just a subset of masochism; a form that happens in the mind rather than on the body.

 

[CliimaxForYou]

Actually, I think I could have answered you better. It's true, as I said above, that the origins and the MO of any one person's humiliation kink will be their own, and unique to them.

But at it's core, if you can understand masochism, you can understand humiliation kink. Humiliation is just a subset of masochism; a form that happens in the mind rather than on the body.

I absolutely understand the importance the mind plays…in so many kinks. Im
Extremely kink friendly, and it all starts in the mind for me. Same
For the majority of the partners I’ve had. The physical is just a compliment to what happens in the mind.

I have enjoyed sharing my
Partner with others (obviously with their full consent and enjoyment too). And watching others pleasure them. But I’d say it’s more of a stag and vixen approach. It’s very hot for me, but I have no desire for the cuckhold humiliation aspect of it. And because it is so much a mental thing, I’m really trying to understand that dimension of it…the stag & vixen versus cuckold.

 

[liqueur]

. And because it is so much a mental thing, I’m really trying to understand that dimension of it…the stag & vixen versus cuckold.

If you understand masochism, then it's as simple as that— just a different form of masochism.

 

[CliimaxForYou]

If you understand masochism, then it's as simple as that— just a different form of masochism.

This makes sense to me. Thank you

 

[CliimaxForYou]

Enjoying sharing your partner or the swinging/hotwife scene doesn't inherently make you a cuckold. There's lots of reasons why you might enjoy that dynamic outside of being a cuck. Voyeurism being one, or getting off on people desiring your partner being another. For some it's just a way to spice up their bedroom life and it makes their own sex hotter as a consequence. It's not one shoe fits all.

Agreed 100

 

[liqueur]

I can hear the Ramones singing ♪“I wannawannawanna be degraded!” ♪♪

 

[PleasureDaddy]

I like to give light name calling. Sometimes your slut likes to called a whore and told what to do…