alwaystheguy1983
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I was looking for sex positive, like minded friends
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Similarly I had found, then lost a favorite lactation story and found Lit while looking, at least 20+ years ago. Took me a couple of years before I discovered the forum and chats.I stumbled upon the stories approximately 20 years ago and then recently come into the forums and also go to the chat room
Very well said. As soon as I read it, I knew it was exactly the way I feel. It really resonates with me and I know it would with others.I’m happily married, and sex life is pretty good, but there’s an erotic space I need filling that my wife cannot really reach (I wish she could), but interacting with like-minded individuals on here actually hits the spot.
Nice to meet you.Finding people that are open about things seen as taboo
What brought me to lit 17 years ago was a multitude of reasons the 1st being I really enjoy reading erotic stories, then the writing bug took ahold of me and I found I needed to write my own, even if I am not the greatest at it. Writing allowed me to write of course with embellishments about things that both happened & what I had wished would have happened in real life. I am a bi man who in younger years had been with shall I say quite a few guys, my wife doesn't know about the past and we moved forward in our lives being married for over 40 years now, however I do sometimes find from time to time the need to pretend at least that I could still live that life and being here allows me to do just that.Ok, I'll try to keep this short. Wife and I have been married almost 20 years. Over time the sex has gotten very irregular and routine. Great sex, just not meeting my kink needs. I've always been far more kinky than my wife but she indulges SOME of my kink, not much.
I stumbled on a chat ai site that got my interest. I found I really enjoy the interactive stories, if you will. However, the AI's one goal is always to steer you back to sex (obviously) and it constantly wants to throw itself at you like a mindless slut. That's not my thing.
So now lit, im no stranger to lit and used to come here regularly many years ago but I stopped (different story). I came here because I want real interactions with truly independent thinking people. I don't care about your politics, your sexual preferences. I'm not here to do anything other than enjoy the diverseness of other people crazy and kinky like me.
I would love to hear others' stories or whatever comments you feel you'd like to add.
Please “open up” for me…Stories too and also a curiosity for erotica and then once I found the forums and could open up, that was me set
Love this!! What has been the biggest surprise or enjoyment after having “discovered” Lit and the new, open conversations it’s brought?What brought you to lit?
My wife. A while ago we had a deep discussion about our sex life working on moving forward to make things better after a long drought. We discovered the most pressing issue was that I had no one to talk sex with. She was only beginning to get back into sex and talking about it often is not something she cared to do. She ran across lit, showed it to me, and it clicked. Love the community, so open, incredible ideas and creativity. I have learned a great deal here from others on how to draw sex topics out of my wife to where we now are having good conversations. Funniest thing is she discovered her friends love talking sex which is aiding her momentum along with the lit posts and messages she reads from me. For me, Lit gets a BIG shout out for being available to all of us who need a place to go to hang out with like minded people. Thanks!
Without a doubt, learning how to lead a discussion that opens a sexual conversation with my wife that would otherwise never happen. Though she is the one who broadened my horizons physically, I am doing likewise for her mentally and verbally. For ex. Today's loving was one of the best verbal exchanges in quite a while. It was the quickest recovery, most stimulating, and longest we have gone since before the drought. I guess you could sum it up in that the sex talk was the bomb (I heard that term in a youtube clip somewhere).Love this!! What has been the biggest surprise or enjoyment after having “discovered” Lit and the new, open conversations it’s brought?