Men, would you rather suck a guy's cock or kiss him on the lips??

How would you feel if he were to kiss your neck and shoulders while you were spooning, would you submit to that or would that cross a boundary… I personally am a very sensual top and my lips and hands would be all over you.
His lips were all over my cock and I didn’t have an issue at all so I don’t think lip and tongue attention by and of itself is an issue. I just have a problem with man lips on my lips. I think feeling his stubble touching me would make me nauseous.

As far as your hands and lips being “all over me”, can’t wait🤪
 
It seems like's a challenge to find a sensual top. But what you describe would likely make me submit to you entirely. Sounds romantic as well as sensual, especially if you gently touched my nipples.
Let’s get together in a darkened room and explore some boundaries… I’ll lightly kiss your neck and gently twist and pull your nipples while you reach behind, seeking what you need…
 
Until about 5 years ago most of the guys I had sex with (and there weren’t many) were bi. Very rarely would would we kiss. It was very much knickers down, stoking then sucking. Sometimes I bottomed. After cuming it was pants on and out the door. A few years ago I started having sex with mostly gay men (aside from my wife). And I’d have to say that’s much more sensual. We generally take the time to kiss before undressing. And even then, it’s a decent while before cock meets lips and more before I’m getting fucked. Don’t get me wrong, there are times when all I want is a cock in my mouth and I go straight for it. But when we have time, it’s a more sensual gay experience and kissing is a big part of that.
 
How would you feel if he were to kiss your neck and shoulders while you were spooning, would you submit to that or would that cross a boundary… I personally am a very sensual top and my lips and hands would be all over you.
You seen to be my dream top 😈
 
To me the original question, made in the title of it and not so much in the first thread-starter, is not really a great question because it pits an act that culminates with orgasm against a seductive act. From the way it is phrased, of course most people are going to say they would rather suck cock then kiss because most people want to make the guy they are with, have immense sexual gratification. Kissing can help with that, but it is not a means to an end like giving him a blowjob.

I would rather give a man a blowjob than just kiss, but when I started down this path, I told myself that I would not let my preconceived ideas hold me back. Sometimes there is chemistry, and sometimes not, but I am glad I was seduced into kissing. With the right guy, and it just happens, it is really hot for me.
 
To me the original question, made in the title of it and not so much in the first thread-starter, is not really a great question because it pits an act that culminates with orgasm against a seductive act. From the way it is phrased, of course most people are going to say they would rather suck cock then kiss because most people want to make the guy they are with, have immense sexual gratification. Kissing can help with that, but it is not a means to an end like giving him a blowjob.

I would rather give a man a blowjob than just kiss, but when I started down this path, I told myself that I would not let my preconceived ideas hold me back. Sometimes there is chemistry, and sometimes not, but I am glad I was seduced into kissing. With the right guy, and it just happens, it is really hot for me.
I agree. Why only one or the other? Encounters that I've had without kissing resulted in orgasms for him or me or both of us, to be sure. But when kissing is involved, the whole experience is heightened. Both of us get more and more aroused while kissing (of course, there's a lot of body contact and groping hands), even before the clothes come off. By the time one or the other of us is sucking cock, the sexual temperature has risen to a level that heightens the orgasms. While is Have great oral skills and can give a man a great blowjob, if we have been kissing, I can expect and even bigger orgasm for him. I've sucked enough dicks to tell the difference in the passion and satisfaction. Even if only he cums, my level of horniness has been ratcheted up by the kissing to a level that leaves me longing for more and more. So, men who aren't interested in kissing, if a man tried to kiss you, try letting yourself go and give in. You may be surprised as what is does for you. One time, in a hot threeway with other married men, I tried to kiss one guy. At first, he resisted, but once he gave in and kissed me back, he got so much more aroused and involved in the whole scenario. He fed me an explosive load of delicious cum.
 
over the past several years, I have enjoyed kissing very much. I never thought I would, but now I look forward to kissing a nice clean man. It is often incredibly sensual and definitely increases the pleasure for both of us. I have been in a threesome one time and that was amazing. I gave both men blowjobs, swallowed the cum of one man while the other man finished on my face. It was the wildest time I had ever had with a man/men. Twice, I have men kiss me after they have cum in my mouth. That is certainly an incredible experience.
 
over the past several years, I have enjoyed kissing very much. I never thought I would, but now I look forward to kissing a nice clean man. It is often incredibly sensual and definitely increases the pleasure for both of us. I have been in a threesome one time and that was amazing. I gave both men blowjobs, swallowed the cum of one man while the other man finished on my face. It was the wildest time I had ever had with a man/men. Twice, I have men kiss me after they have cum in my mouth. That is certainly an incredible experience.
I love sharing a cum kiss (snowballing). I remember the first time it happened to me. It was unexpected, but once I realized what was happening when he kissed me, feeding me my own semen, it was incredibly hot and enough to trigger another round of sex. In one of my stories, the two main characters always share their cum with each other when they suck each other's cocks.
 
Juat a few days ago I had an encounter with a man at an ABS. We had connected once before. this time was a bit different and we could sense it. We started slowly and undressed each other. Once naked, we started to touch and caress each other until we started kissing. Our cock were rubbing against each other while our hands roamed. We sucked each other and took our time. I should mention that the booth was rather large so we had plenty of room. I went down to suck him again and he moved my head under his balls. I knew what he wanted. He turned around and I began to rim him. I sucked, kissed and drove my tongue into his asshole. He. was stroking his cock and was so close to humming. Finally he turned around, held my head and fed me his cock. He came in my mouth while we made eye contact. It was so intense. After he came, he leaned down and kissed me. We shared what remained from his cum that was in my mouth. Damn that was a fun afternoon.
 
I guess it all depends on how comfortable you are with male/male sex. It would seem being comfortable would lead to seduction, kissing, caressing, stroking, sucking, and eventually fucking. I can't speak to those that like ABS sex, car sex, park sex, bathroom sex, and public sex, because those aren't my thing. I just know that whenever I go see my male FWB the first thing he does is greet me with a kiss. It makes me feel welcome and I like it.
 
I have never kissed with a guy but I absolutely love kissing with a woman. So if I ever was in a situation where kissing with another guy was a thing I have a feeling that I would enjoy it.
 
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