Who took your wife’s “marital cherry”?

17 years ago, my wife re-connected on Facebook with a college friend. They began texting and talking on the phone. She told me how the guy was going through marital problems and she just wanted to be a friend for him. At one point, she even sent him some money. One afternoon, I opened the Sprint bill and found that there were 47 calls over one billing period. A few months later she went to visit a friend in Indianapolis, where is where he lived. I was all but certain she was also going to see him. 6 months later, the guilt must have gotten to her, because she finally told me they fucked in the Hampton Hotel. She swore, and still swears, that was the only time, but there have been too many suspicious things that occurred in the aftermath. I think they continued for a few years after that.

We still had a child in middle school. I should have left. I didn't. One of the biggest regrets of my life.
 
First one would be a mate I’d been in the army reserve with in 1972 we’d had a big party and I’d had a bit too much to drink by the end of the night so had gone to bed and crashed, leaving Anne to say goodbye to the last of the guests and clean up. In the early hours I woke up to no Anne I figured she’d probably fallen asleep on the couch. I stirred myself and went down to the lounge room approaching I could hear whispering and moaning I was curious to see what was going on the lighting was really dim courtesy of low wattage bulbs. I crept up until I could just peek in in the dim light I could see Dave was kneeling in front of Anne as she lay back on the couch her legs spread wide as he slowly slid his cock into her then slowly withdrew until just the head was in before repeating the process, her blouse was open and he was also sucking on her breasts. I was about to burst in and create big trouble but I suddenly realised I wasn’t mad just turned on watching my wife being fucked by another guy, so instead of starting an argument I silently watched them for nearly fifteen minutes until Dave said he was going to shoot his load that’s when I headed back to bed.
 
First one would be a mate I’d been in the army reserve with in 1972 we’d had a big party and I’d had a bit too much to drink by the end of the night so had gone to bed and crashed, leaving Anne to say goodbye to the last of the guests and clean up. In the early hours I woke up to no Anne I figured she’d probably fallen asleep on the couch. I stirred myself and went down to the lounge room approaching I could hear whispering and moaning I was curious to see what was going on the lighting was really dim courtesy of low wattage bulbs. I crept up until I could just peek in in the dim light I could see Dave was kneeling in front of Anne as she lay back on the couch her legs spread wide as he slowly slid his cock into her then slowly withdrew until just the head was in before repeating the process, her blouse was open and he was also sucking on her breasts. I was about to burst in and create big trouble but I suddenly realised I wasn’t mad just turned on watching my wife being fucked by another guy, so instead of starting an argument I silently watched them for nearly fifteen minutes until Dave said he was going to shoot his load that’s when I headed back to bed.
Was that the end of it?? Have you all played around since?
 
My wife dropped out of contact on a business trip with a male coworker less than two years into our marriage. Pretty sure he took it. Of course, she only admits to making out, but what adults only make out? I was not willing to share here, was shocked. Practically newly weds.
 
Thanks to Tom Brown from another thread for the inspiration. He introduced me to the expression “marital cherry”, as in the first time your wife had Sex with another man during your relationship.

So who took your wife’s “marital cherry”? I’d love to hear whatever details you may have: his name, how he knows or met your wife. And where they did the deed.
was in my mothers house my old bedroom and my old boyfriend i was out with the ladies and he showed up i was recited and after a few drinks he wanted head and then we went at most of the night until he had to leave me
 
It was in the fall of 1972, Billie, my wife, was in her second year of college, when Lynn, one of her classmates, asked her if she’d go out to dinner with her, her fiancée Alex and his brother, David. David had recently returned from Vietnam and was in the process of being discharged from the Army and no one wanted to go out with him.

Lynn knew I was in the Navy, and felt Billie would be more understanding toward her fiancée’s brother than the disdain he’d been shown by some of the other women since his return from Vietnam. She, also, assured her it would only be for dinner.

I was stationed in Norfolk, Va., and had called her on Wednesday to let her know I wouldn’t be able to make down for the weekend but would be able to the following weekend. She told me what Lynn wanted and I told her I thought it would be a thoughtful jester for her to have dinner with him and to show him a good time.

When I called her the Wednesday after her date, her voice was warm and loving, but subdued. I asked about her ‘date' and she'd said she’d tell me about it Friday and hoped I’d forgive her.

That Friday, we were cut loose at noon and eight hours later, I had her in my arms. I softly asked her if she’d slept with him and she softly said, “yes” and, “can you forgive me?" I kissed the top of her head and told her she didn’t need to be forgiven as I had told her to show him a good time. We went to a cheap motel, got a room and made love.

Afterward, she told me; “We were going to a seafood place on the lake, nothing fancy. I had on a pair of jeans and a chambray shirt. I was watching for them from my dorm window when they pulled up. David got out of the back. He was nice looking with a nice build. But, sweetheart, he looked so down it almost broke my heart.

“I decided to make his evening. I took off the jeans and shirt and put on my dark blue, transparent blouse with the patch pockets and my denim wrap-around mini-skirt. Slipped on my tennis shoes, picked up my purse, dropped in my birth control pills, toothpaste and my toothbrush."

“No bra or panties?"

“No"

“You'd decided to fuck him."

“Yeah. We went to dinner and then to their motel room. David and I started making out; it wasn’t long before we were naked and…and I stared sucking his cock. Then, we…well, honey we started fucking. We… we fucked off and, on all night long…Can, can you forgive me?”

I rolled her onto her back, got between her legs and entered her. Smiling down at her I whispered, “You’ve done nothing wrong that requires my forgiveness.” And we made love again and again.
That is how it should be.
 
To my husband, we first explore a couple of years ago. But he didn't know right before and after our wedding, I was with one of his friends (my ex). When we were young we hangout in a small tight group and I dated his friends. Hubby was the good boy in the group (basically the only one who didn't get in trouble/go to jail, etc). My Ex had gotten in trouble and send away for a while. I end up getting together with Hubby. We dated a while and decide to get married. My Ex found out we were getting married and came to visit me a few days before the wedding and after the wedding (before we head to Hawaii for our Honeymoon).
The Perfect Hot Wife.
 
My wife came home one day and showed me a pic of her ass that her boss took. He sent it to another guy they know but he accidentally sent it to her as well. She later found out that he had he taken pics of her tits as well. I asked her how she felt and she admitted it turned her on, so I told her to explore it. About 2 weeks later they went out of town for work and when she came home she told me they were drinking and flirting. She got very horny and they ending up having sex. To this day whenever they go out of town they share a room then she comes home and tells me all about it and we have the best sex
That is so Hot!
 
My husband took my cherry before he became my cuckold.(I really was a virgin bride!) We joined a swinger group after about 2 years of marriage. My first lover was a surgeon called Charles. He was a bit older than my husband and a lot, lot bigger! It was probably Charles who turned me on to considering becoming a Hot Wife. He was a great lover. He made me cum every time he fucked me. Eventually our invitations to the swinging meets dried up, mainly because Richard (my husband, and by now also my cuckold) is so pathetically small and suffers from prem ej. But I continued to see (and fuck) Charles for about a year after that.
And what is your status now? Do you still take/have lovers?
 
Not once. I waited until he left and fucked her for about 30 seconds…I was so turned on there was no chance I would last long.
One of my problems was I couldn't help but cum as my wife was doing it and then when she wanted me in her after he finished I was drained and unable to get hard. She grew tired of my limp penis and told me I was not a man. She told me to just rub myself and cum when I needed.
 
For us I reckon it happened 3 times!!!

First was after we were together over 5 years and I found out she slept with a few guys while I was overseas working - first was with a coworker on a work night out.

Second was two years into our marriage in our early 30s and at another work party at Xmas she slept with another coworker - different guy and different company. Late night and lots of drink and he loved that she was married.

Third was 3 years ago after a long time busy at home after 3 kids and a new job as a teacher in a small town, very quiet social life for us. We talked about spicing things up looking for someone for a 3sum.
 
For us I reckon it happened 3 times!!!

First was after we were together over 5 years and I found out she slept with a few guys while I was overseas working - first was with a coworker on a work night out.

Second was two years into our marriage in our early 30s and at another work party at Xmas she slept with another coworker - different guy and different company. Late night and lots of drink and he loved that she was married.

Third was 3 years ago after a long time busy at home after 3 kids and a new job as a teacher in a small town, very quiet social life for us. We talked about spicing things up looking for someone for a 3sum. In short we meet a bunch of lads out in a bar in Dublin, one of them gets her number and he chased her for weeks and she eventually slept with him. That was 3 years ago and she's still seeing him. He was 26 when they first met!!!
 
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depends on which of our marriages you’re talking about. If it was before I came out then it was her ex manager from work. The first man she let bed her at the company she worked for. If it was after I started transitioning and came out, our vow renewal was almost a second wedding and her marital cherry then was taken by my long term boyfriend on the night of the ceremony in bed with us in the bridal suite.
 
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