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FreckledSprite said:
Explain? Iā€™ve played Daddy-Daughter scenes with soooo many men but only once thought of someone as ā€œDaddyā€ outside of playtime.

Are you saying it developed from that play but wasnā€™t an official DDlg.
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It developed from that play but definitely official DDlg dynamic. Long distance but very very real.
 
FreckledSprite said:
What was that timeline? You met onlineā€¦just friends at first?
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We did meet online. We were friends and the chat got more and more heated. More flirty and innuendo. And it developed into DDlg. I knew that she IDā€™as a little. We got super comfortable with each other and one day she started calling me Daddy b
 
Utmale48 said:
We did meet online. We were friends and the chat got more and more heated. More flirty and innuendo. And it developed into DDlg. I knew that she IDā€™as a little. We got super comfortable with each other and one day she started calling me Daddy b
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Rightā€¦butā€¦what was the DDlg arrangement?
 
FreckledSprite said:
Rightā€¦butā€¦what was the DDlg arrangement?
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Iā€™m sorry. Iā€™m not sure I understand your question. She was always little one and I was always Daddy. Not just during sexy time if thatā€™s what youā€™re asking.
 
FreckledSprite said:
Was there anything beyond titles? Actual BDSM contract type of a thing?
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She likes spankings. And she was a fan of pain. Nipple clamps. Clit clamp. No contract though. Kitty spanks. Stuff like that. Does that help at all?
 
Utmale48 said:
Ok now Iā€™m tracking with you. There was no official agreement. We set any rules and boundaries as we went. If something was getting close to a limit we talked about it.
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More and more I think I was in a loose DDlg. I wish I had submitted to more and I feel he wanted that too but he knew not to press too hard about it.

I give myself some grace because I didnā€™t know anything about it until he pointed it out and asked me if I would want to try.

I think in the future I would enjoy a more structured, well defined arrangement.
 
FreckledSprite said:
More and more I think I was in a loose DDlg. I wish I had submitted to more and I feel he wanted that too but he knew not to press too hard about it.

I give myself some grace because I didnā€™t know anything about it until he pointed it out and asked me if I would want to try.

I think in the future I would enjoy a more structured, well defined arrangement.
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There is definitely something to be said for structure and agreements in relationship like that. I know some Domā€™s and subs wonā€™t enter into that dynamic without one. Well thatā€™s what Iā€™ve been told at any rate.
 
Utmale48 said:
There is definitely something to be said for structure and agreements in relationship like that. I know some Domā€™s and subs wonā€™t enter into that dynamic without one. Well thatā€™s what Iā€™ve been told at any rate.
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Let me revise what I said to say I donā€™t do well at all with things being undefined. To submit control I would definitely need a very specific arrangement. It doesnā€™t have to be signed but it does have to be outlined and defined.
 
FreckledSprite said:
Let me revise what I said to say I donā€™t do well at all with things being undefined. To submit control I would definitely need a very specific arrangement. It doesnā€™t have to be signed but it does have to be outlined and defined.
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I definitely understand that. Structure is a good thing for most subs. Actually from the way I understand it a must.
 
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