Exploring Brenda’s Bondage Obsession

[puppett]

This intrigues me, I've seen several similar ties in other threads with the arms free. The idea of wearing something like this under a dress for a night out clubbing could be wild.

club? try grocery shopping

 

[puppett]

Not to mention it takes so long.

just my opinion, so please no one take this personally

for me being bound with rope (the process) is so important.
if you take the example of fore play
between you and the rigger there is an energy connection. it may start as just a simple hello. then intensifies with effort and breath, sometimes the simplest of things like, a whispered does this feel ok? can be so intense.

it is like the slow build up of rope (on skin on over clothes) pressure starting minimally and progressing deeply. breathing changes, feeling changes, the world, the vision narrows.
voices fade and deep in the sub zone, freed from the world (while fully bound) is freedom and release and safety.

i have had orgasms while being bound without that being the intent.

 

[BrendaBear]

just my opinion, so please no one take this personally

for me being bound with rope (the process) is so important.
if you take the example of fore play
between you and the rigger there is an energy connection. it may start as just a simple hello. then intensifies with effort and breath, sometimes the simplest of things like, a whispered does this feel ok? can be so intense.

it is like the slow build up of rope (on skin on over clothes) pressure starting minimally and progressing deeply. breathing changes, feeling changes, the world, the vision narrows.
voices fade and deep in the sub zone, freed from the world (while fully bound) is freedom and release and safety.

i have had orgasms while being bound without that being the intent.

Wow... this is beautiful! Thank you for sharing this.

 

[Bisexguy70]

Great thread @BrendaBear. I like the idea of bed bondage.

I am a huge fan of rope bondage.

I love the look, and the control, but sometimes, what is more impressive, can be invisible bonds. Look at these two subs.

https://cdni.pornpics.com/1280/7/752/68862952/68862952_045_5a82.jpg

https://cdni.pornpics.com/1280/7/315/45214440/45214440_015_7749.jpg

No rope. No leather cuffs. No manacles. Sit and wait.

If you don't think this is discipline, try it, now. For ten minutes. On your knees, hands on your thighs. Collar and nakedness optional.

These are the kind of restraints I put on myself when being submissive

 

[Bisexguy70]

just my opinion, so please no one take this personally

for me being bound with rope (the process) is so important.
if you take the example of fore play
between you and the rigger there is an energy connection. it may start as just a simple hello. then intensifies with effort and breath, sometimes the simplest of things like, a whispered does this feel ok? can be so intense.

it is like the slow build up of rope (on skin on over clothes) pressure starting minimally and progressing deeply. breathing changes, feeling changes, the world, the vision narrows.
voices fade and deep in the sub zone, freed from the world (while fully bound) is freedom and release and safety.

i have had orgasms while being bound without that being the intent.

I can truly see just the act of being tied up and restrained a form of foreplay. Taking the time to properly be tied up, The simple whispers, the heavy breathing and anticipation of whats to come. I might not orgasm from this but my cock will be twitching and throbbing uncontrollably.

 

[puppett]

The anticipation is the thing that a friend of mine said drives her wild. Being restrained and blindfolded, pretty much knowing what you are in for but not 100% sure. How will you be driven wild, how long will they make you last, what methods, who will be doing it........

that seems very different to me, i have to know exactly who and how long and what... safety is the first step to feeling good enough to relax/

 

[puppett]

always in a safe environment!!! As well as respecting limits. Just unbearable pleasure.

unbearable pleasure is painful, and that really is not the intent for me at least in submission.

 

[BrendaBear]

unbearable pleasure is painful, and that really is not the intent for me at least in submission.

Of course - and not what this thread is about. CX was just referring to his wife's desire to be pushed just slightly in her boundaries. It isn't that he's pushing her, he is doing what she is asking of him to do. Not only full consent, but by request (I have a little insider knowledge on this).

 

[puppett]

Of course - and not what this thread is about. CX was just referring to his wife's desire to be pushed just slightly in her boundaries. It isn't that he's pushing her, he is doing what she is asking of him to do. Not only full consent, but by request (I have a little insider knowledge on this).

i understand, i was only answering for myself. some people are into tickling especially after bindings, and that is also a no no for me, more power to them if they enjoy.

 

[BrendaBear]

i understand, i was only answering for myself. some people are into tickling especially after bindings, and that is also a no no for me, more power to them if they enjoy.

Yeah - I hear you. I'm kind of of the mindset, if they do something to me when I am restrained that we haven't already agreed upon before hand, I will make sure they sorely regret it once I am free again. And I won't engage with them again, ever.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Then you need tight bondage. You have to be tamed, like the Brat you are.

https://cdni.pornpics.com/1280/1/336/98615707/98615707_013_a18e.jpg

A bondage situation should always involve the vulnerability of nudity, and inviting sexual penetration that cannot be resisted...

 

[BrendaBear]

A bondage situation should always involve the vulnerability of nudity, and inviting sexual penetration that cannot be resisted...

Perhaps for you.... not for me.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Perhaps for you.... not for me.

But we enjoy the playful game-element.
And always with mutual consensual pleasures.

 

[Dashabout]

club? try grocery shopping

Shopping is an idea too, clothing or shoes comes to mind too.

I can only think dancing with strangers in a club would cause some curiosity with partners as the noticed the ropes.

 

[puppett]

Shopping is an idea too, clothing or shoes comes to mind too.

I can only think dancing with strangers in a club would cause some curiosity with partners as the noticed the ropes.

yes shopping, going to the park, movies, in the olden school days to the library

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Some interesting thoughts. You pervs make ME think too.

Take nudity. It is necessary if the sub dislikes nudity AND craves humiliation. But if not, starting off clothed presents some possibilities.

https://cdni.pornpics.com/460/7/119/64436416/64436416_010_d5e2.jpg

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

That sub WILL end up naked and will end up having sex in some form. Spoiler altert. the final pic in the set is
here.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Oh, and remember: CFNM and CMNF are very popular kinks. How that plays out n D/s relationships can be interesting Clothing can represent protection to a sub, but nudity can demonstrate power in a Dominant.

 

[cascadiabound]

just my opinion, so please no one take this personally

for me being bound with rope (the process) is so important.
if you take the example of fore play
between you and the rigger there is an energy connection. it may start as just a simple hello. then intensifies with effort and breath, sometimes the simplest of things like, a whispered does this feel ok? can be so intense.

it is like the slow build up of rope (on skin on over clothes) pressure starting minimally and progressing deeply. breathing changes, feeling changes, the world, the vision narrows.
voices fade and deep in the sub zone, freed from the world (while fully bound) is freedom and release and safety.

i have had orgasms while being bound without that being the intent.

Yes. Exactly.

 

[cascadiabound]

Oh, and remember: CFNM and CMNF are very popular kinks. How that plays out n D/s relationships can be interesting Clothing can represent protection to a sub, but nudity can demonstrate power in a Dominant.

Clothing can also represent/be a tease/barrier which allows the D to control how much sensation the sub is allowed to have. Being kept in clothes when all I want is skin contact and full exposure is a form of bandage- especially when restraints mean that exposure is entirely at the discretion of the D.

 

[puppett]

Clothing can also represent/be a tease/barrier which allows the D to control how much sensation the sub is allowed to have. Being kept in clothes when all I want is skin contact and full exposure is a form of bandage- especially when restraints mean that exposure is entirely at the discretion of the D.

exactly, especially with bindings it can be just a brief exposure or appearance

 

[tristantrotsky]

Shopping is an idea too, clothing or shoes comes to mind too.
I can only think dancing with strangers in a club would cause some curiosity with partners as the noticed the ropes.

Not in the places where I do my shopping.
Ropes are considered quite de rigueur...

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

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Good to see so many environmentalists.

 

[Sammysub07]

just my opinion, so please no one take this personally

for me being bound with rope (the process) is so important.
if you take the example of fore play
between you and the rigger there is an energy connection. it may start as just a simple hello. then intensifies with effort and breath, sometimes the simplest of things like, a whispered does this feel ok? can be so intense.

it is like the slow build up of rope (on skin on over clothes) pressure starting minimally and progressing deeply. breathing changes, feeling changes, the world, the vision narrows.
voices fade and deep in the sub zone, freed from the world (while fully bound) is freedom and release and safety.

i have had orgasms while being bound without that being the intent.

This is my absolute favorite part of rope! It’s the preparation, the dance, the proximity yet distance, the talk, the feeling of his fingers on my skin preparing his vision on me as his masterpiece.

The way, as he gets closer to finish that my mind starts to shift in preparation for the play to soon start.

The process of getting to the final product is absolutely some of the most erotic foreplay!

 

[dawn_of_night]

I saw this while looking for something else and felt compelled to share....

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