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@Missk_2022 you have to do what you feel you can cope with. I Chair our Community Association so like the local Council. I just accept that I ain’t going to keep even a majority happy. They turn up at meetings and I let them bitch before saying ..okay I am closing this down and this is what we are going to do. The ones who say thank you make up for the majority who don’t. But, do you know what, without people like us nothing gets done and I am gonna leave this place one day. By then I am determined this community will be better for my footprints so I am going to do it anyway!

I also chair other things and they are all the same by the way… it’s why I have more time for dogs than most people!

Smile and wave… smile and wave MissK
I am feeling overwhelmed by it.... I will pull up the big girl panties...put boundaries in place.... and keep it moving....
 
Love you all.

Today will be better.

There is a woman on council that laughs at me and poo poor my responses reactions or when I make a statement tries to explain "what i really mean" like she has to temper what I say....or my feelings and she laughs at me in a public setting....

Miss potassium is done with her.... so there won't be a next time.....

I am tired of busting my ass and emptying my pocketbook both financially emotionally and physically for things that help this poor ass community...and all people do is sit back and take and then fucking bitch about it..like a bunch of entitled white trash scum bags... so the pocketbook is now a coin purse...a small one.

You don't give with the intention of receiving anything including a thank you... but I am going bankrupt so the coin purse it is.


I am ready to groom pasture poodles..grow food...travel to visit friends... play/pet/brush any cat who wants to be my friend... bake cookies....watch the stars with a bonfire...plant flowers....etc.....
I forgot to say...play in a puppy pile with groups of sweet smart yellow/golden colored pup dogs
 
For me personally it's decision time.
Make a pro con chart and compare
I love a good Pro-Con chart!
Best of luck moving forward, @Khadaji2002
She is saying love me love me...YOU WILL LOVE ME...hahahaha

Yeah... it is going that way.... why do people do that.... i say what I mean and I say it like I meant too... I don't need people to translate my English to their english.... to try to help me....did I ask for her help....NOPE

And she laughs the whole time like I am her fucking child..... it is maddening
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I am feeling overwhelmed by it.... I will pull up the big girl panties...put boundaries in place.... and keep it moving....
You are far more grown-up about it than I.
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Doubtful I'd have the stones to use this during said meeting... but I sure would like to :ROFLMAO:
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I forgot to say...play in a puppy pile with groups of sweet smart yellow/golden colored pup dogs
 
Love you all.

Today will be better.

There is a woman on council that laughs at me and poo poor my responses reactions or when I make a statement tries to explain "what i really mean" like she has to temper what I say....or my feelings and she laughs at me in a public setting....

Miss potassium is done with her.... so there won't be a next time.....

I am tired of busting my ass and emptying my pocketbook both financially emotionally and physically for things that help this poor ass community...and all people do is sit back and take and then fucking bitch about it..like a bunch of entitled white trash scum bags... so the pocketbook is now a coin purse...a small one.

You don't give with the intention of receiving anything including a thank you... but I am going bankrupt so the coin purse it is.


I am ready to groom pasture poodles..grow food...travel to visit friends... play/pet/brush any cat who wants to be my friend... bake cookies....watch the stars with a bonfire...plant flowers....etc.....
Number one, fuck that twat on the council.

Being in local government can be a pain in the ass and require very thick skin. I’m a vindictive prick, so I might just stay on the council just to be a pain in her ass and treat her extra special.

But I also wouldn’t blame you for not being on the council, because it is thankless work (two of my neighbor neighbors from the township council). No matter what decision you make, I’m sure it will be the best one for you.
 
Love you all.

Today will be better.

There is a woman on council that laughs at me and poo poor my responses reactions or when I make a statement tries to explain "what i really mean" like she has to temper what I say....or my feelings and she laughs at me in a public setting....

Miss potassium is done with her.... so there won't be a next time.....

I am tired of busting my ass and emptying my pocketbook both financially emotionally and physically for things that help this poor ass community...and all people do is sit back and take and then fucking bitch about it..like a bunch of entitled white trash scum bags... so the pocketbook is now a coin purse...a small one.

You don't give with the intention of receiving anything including a thank you... but I am going bankrupt so the coin purse it is.


I am ready to groom pasture poodles..grow food...travel to visit friends... play/pet/brush any cat who wants to be my friend... bake cookies....watch the stars with a bonfire...plant flowers....etc.....
Tell her !images-8.jpeg
 
@Missk_2022 you have to do what you feel you can cope with. I Chair our Community Association so like the local Council. I just accept that I ain’t going to keep even a majority happy. They turn up at meetings and I let them bitch before saying ..okay I am closing this down and this is what we are going to do. The ones who say thank you make up for the majority who don’t. But, do you know what, without people like us nothing gets done and I am gonna leave this place one day. By then I am determined this community will be better for my footprints so I am going to do it anyway!

I also chair other things and they are all the same by the way… it’s why I have more time for dogs than most people!

Smile and wave… smile and wave MissK
This is a very pragmatic approach.

But I tend to be a bit like my dad, and un-pragmatic.

“I don’t hate people, but I sure as hell feel better when you’re not around me most of the time.”
 
Here ya go K. The answer to your whole year and going forward as well.


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Yes, it was a fun day in the office when a co-worker was reading the fine print on the retirement policy.

Blah-blah-blah... "will immediately suspend any survivor option or survivor benefit otherwise due an individual if that person is charged with causing the death of a member. Any person who would normally qualify for a benefit who is found guilty of causing the death of a member will have his or her benefit permanently revoked."
And yes hoping to add another to the pile in the next month…. Too young to leave mum yet
PUPPY!!!!!
 
So sorry you're dealing with that, Miss Potassium. To me the worst part about a personality like that is they drive good people away then look around in confusion when only the dregs are left working on the project and things are going south. *sigh*

For me personally it's decision time. In early February I had a mini-meltdown and quit the job I'd had. I threw a ton of applications at Indeed. Then I heard from a security guard company, and interviewed. They do a lot of training before putting someone in the field (a major plus) and I've seen in the last week just how much they see themselves as a team. Someone calls out sick, or has a schedule conflict and the others try to figure out covering the shift before the supervisors step in. Very cool. To advance very far I'd need to get certified in firearms (training that's valuable for more than the job, mind) and take an armed position. I don't want to be in a situation where I might need to shoot someone as part of my job (I know, I know the odds are very against that happening, but you strap on a gun for your job you accept the risk that you might have to do that). So it'll be two months or more of very part-time work to get my company badge while I train. On the other hand, I was contacted this week (before my security card came in) by a company I thought had passed me up. It's a utility-locating company and their training is 2.5 weeks, paid at my starting rate starting on the 24th. They pay 10% less and don't have as clear a path of advancement. On the other hand it's shift work, forty hours a week, and wouldn't interfere as much with seeing my kiddos. I know which way I'm leaning, just putting this here to get it out of my head.

Apologies for the wall o' text. Hope you all have a wonderful Friday.
I wish you luck on the job search and opportunities!!

Good luck however you choose!
 
Yes, it was a fun day in the office when a co-worker was reading the fine print on the retirement policy.

Blah-blah-blah... "will immediately suspend any survivor option or survivor benefit otherwise due an individual if that person is charged with causing the death of a member. Any person who would normally qualify for a benefit who is found guilty of causing the death of a member will have his or her benefit permanently revoked."

PUPPY!!!!!
So you're saying your significant other or husband or wife can't kill you and collect, what phone is that?
 
Number one, fuck that twat on the council.

Being in local government can be a pain in the ass and require very thick skin. I’m a vindictive prick, so I might just stay on the council just to be a pain in her ass and treat her extra special.

But I also wouldn’t blame you for not being on the council, because it is thankless work (two of my neighbor neighbors from the township council). No matter what decision you make, I’m sure it will be the best one for you.
I am not letting her run me off.... I am ready for her.....
She didn't respect nice sweet k

She is gonna despise the next iteration of miss k she is gonna get.....
 
Heh, the decision got made for me, or nearly so. The guard company contacted me to ask if I could work tomorrow (post site, no serious training needed) from 6pm to 6am. I could do that, though not easily. Then they had me scheduled for four 12-hour shifts next week during the day. Apparently I hadn't stated clearly that I was looking to stay on one shift so my sleep schedule doesn't drop out. So utility location it is. Just need to find someone to check on my cat while I'm training out of town. The guard company's scheduler was surprisingly understanding and took me off the schedule right away after clearly stating that if I have time and want a shift to reach out to them.
 
@HumpDayHoratio

How is the Mrs?

Pain controlled?

Moving around?

Super important to have that pain controlled so that whatever therapy is prescribed can be done and range of movement preserved.

Also moving around prevents surgery related complications...
We were home by 2 and other than some initial pain, she kept up with her meds and did walk some. Today she’s supposed to be walking 10mins out of every hour but she’s backsliding already. I’ve gotten on her but we were both worn out from sleeping on the couch last night and all the interruptions. So I gave her some slack…I’ll crack down as the days move forward! 😂

Thanks for checking up on us and for the info! Sitting around today, I found this…I hope it posts….

 
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