Sharing My Girlfriend (not by choice)

[Justfantasies]

I am a 21 year old American sailor stationed in Japan. I have been looking for a place to express myself and my feelings - I hope I've found the right forum.

I met my GF, Akiko, at a concert in Tokyo. For me, it was love at first site. Akiko is a 20 year old college student attending Chiba University. She is beautiful - and dresses very conservatively because of her major and status in school. I live about an hour away from her college, so most of our meetings are planned well ahead of time. Akiko is very sensual - built perfectly - and with the most beautiful skin and dark silky hair you can imagine.

In the past, we've had outstanding nights together. We party, we come home, we fuck. Her body is extremely tight - in every way imaginable. Her conservative demeanor in public really covers her "behind the door" animal behavior. She enjoys getting fucked - plain and simple. I was her second boyfriend that she had sex with - the first was a Japanese guy she was dating when we met. We had a wonderful thing going for about six months - then I made my mistake.

I invited her to a party where many other Americans, many of my coworkers, would be present at a military hotel in Tokyo. I wanted to show her off, because I truly was over my head with this sexual doll. The party is where I made a mistake. I noticed Akiko was getting a LOT of attention by a couple of guys - older men. I wasn't worried too much about it because of their age - as a matter of fact, I laughed it off. Later, I would see her dancing with these guys and even going outside to smoke with them - something I had never seen her do.

I drank too heavily and passed out. When I woke up - I couldn't find her. I kept getting "looks" from my coworkers - smirks even. I later found out from a friend that he saw her get into the elevator with one of the men. At that point - I lost my mind - I was going door to door trying to find her. We were all staying on one floor.

The man she left with had a roommate - the roommate found me in the hallway looking for her. He was brutally honest - he said "Tim - I am sorry, but your girl is with "him" in our room". I went to the door and started banging. Hotel security came and removed me - told me to get in my room or they would call the MP. I went to our room - alone. Around 9am the next day - Akiko made her way back to me.

To say I was heart broken is an understatement. I was crushed - I am in love with her - deeply. The thought of her with another man is more than I could bear. I broke down. To my surprise, she was rather cold hearted about the whole situation. Her response to me was "I am young - I want to enjoy being young". I asked her what this meant for us - she told me that we could remain "friends" and see each other but she also wanted this older man in her life. In other words - she wanted to date both of us.

Currently, I am playing along. I want her to remain in my life and maybe she will come to her senses and understand there is no future for a 20 year old and an almost 50 year old man. Now, when she comes down for the weekend or to visit - she always goes to his apartment first - and if there is time she will drop by and see me. He and I live in the same apartment complex.

There are days when I see them together - coming back to his apartment after he picks her up at the train station. As they disappear into his apartment, I know what he is getting and it hurts. I wait for her to drop by and say hello to me - but we haven't had sex since that night. I lone for her - I want her back. I love and miss her.View attachment 2420742

She is hot, she is 20 and she likes being fucked by more experienced men. Enjoy it all vicariously. Think of it with a giggle

 

[SPARTAN047]

Sorry to hear that. If she really is such a slut and this is true, and you don't want to be a cuckold, make sure you fuck all her friends. And she was never true to you to begin with, you're very young and this isn't the time for love anyway.

Women are shown as more romantic and needing commitment, but it's mostly lies. They can be as casual, hypergamous and uncaring about relationships and others' feelings as men are shown to be. You know how you're shown to be isn't true if this is real.

 

[markchamberlain]

Just saw this thread....I had a fiancee for 2 years who regularly banged another guy.

I feel for you, it is complicated. I never felt as devastated -- or as turned on -- as I did back then. Both feelings were overwhelmingly intense.

(Eventually we parted ways, but for unrelated reasons. She also didn't end up with the other guy)

 

[SweetSweetLovin]

And now that birth control exists females can answer the call of the wild without fear of having a baby with no man to care for them. It levels the playing field. Without birth control women need to be sexual conservative. Men can just go about and share their seed anywhere that it is open to them. But the urge for sex is just as great for a female human as for a male. Guys need to understand that. If guys would stop fighting nature and instead nurture female sex instincts they would all be getting a lot more pussy. Don't shame us for wanting to fuck.

Right on!

 

[SweetSweetLovin]

Not every guy wants to be with a slut. Don't shame US for wanting someone who can be faithful.

Can I interject to point out that wanting to fuck doesn't make a woman a slut? Nothing wrong with wanting monogamy for yourself, but shaming women is part of how we got into the current mess of society. You do you. Let others do their own thing without judgment. Please and thank you.

 

[SweetSweetLovin]

Indeed. From an article on Naver.
View attachment 2432294

I was just wondering if OP had her permission to post her picture. This is supposed to be a safe place and that wouldn't have been cool at all. Total dick move.

 

[SmokingFap]

Just saw this thread....I had a fiancee for 2 years who regularly banged another guy.

I feel for you, it is complicated. I never felt as devastated -- or as turned on -- as I did back then. Both feelings were overwhelmingly intense.

(Eventually we parted ways, but for unrelated reasons. She also didn't end up with the other guy)

I have told some very close friends on here the story of my first marriage. But I thought I would share on this thread. At least some portions of Lit absolutely celebrate cheating wives. I understand it can be hot in fantasy, but when you're on the losing end in real life, it can be devastating.

My first wife started fucking another man three months into our marriage, or possibly even before the wedding, but I only found out three months in. She confessed to having an affair one morning after she'd been out all night, ostensibly with her girlfriends. All of whom I knew well and knew that they were not out with her.

I had an absolute meltdown. I had suspected for a while, but confirmation nearly ended me. She left after her confession to go tell the other guy that I had taken it fairly well. I went into the bathroom, locked the door, and tried to slit my wrists.

It wasn't that I was THAT in love with her. It's that marrying her had been the first step to the life I had always dreamed of. The American dream of a wife and kids, a nice house with a nice yard. My entire world crumbled around me when I found out my wife was cheating on me. Fortunately, I only had twin blade disposable razors, and she broke into the bathroom before I could go get a kitchen knife.

So for those wives and girlfriends who brag about cheating on their significant others on here, and those who cheer them on, just remember that in real life, someone gets very, very hurt.

 

[SmokingFap]

Can I interject to point out that wanting to fuck doesn't make a woman a slut? Nothing wrong with wanting monogamy for yourself, but shaming women is part of how we got into the current mess of society. You do you. Let others do their own thing without judgment. Please and thank you.

**I** wasn't judging anyone. I merely said that not every man wants a disloyal slut. I can't stop you from doing your own thing, but I can certainly judge you for doing it, especially if you post all about it on a very public forum. So just fuck off. Please and thank you.

 

[SmokingFap]

I was just wondering if OP had her permission to post her picture. This is supposed to be a safe place and that wouldn't have been cool at all. Total dick move.

Let others do their own thing without judgment.

 

[SweetSweetLovin]

I have told some very close friends on here the story of my first marriage. But I thought I would share on this thread. At least some portions of Lit absolutely celebrate cheating wives. I understand it can be hot in fantasy, but when you're on the losing end in real life, it can be devastating.

My first wife started fucking another man three months into our marriage, or possibly even before the wedding, but I only found out three months in. She confessed to having an affair one morning after she'd been out all night, ostensibly with her girlfriends. All of whom I knew well and knew that they were not out with her.

I had an absolute meltdown. I had suspected for a while, but confirmation nearly ended me. She left after her confession to go tell the other guy that I had taken it fairly well. I went into the bathroom, locked the door, and tried to slit my wrists.

It wasn't that I was THAT in love with her. It's that marrying her had been the first step to the life I had always dreamed of. The American dream of a wife and kids, a nice house with a nice yard. My entire world crumbled around me when I found out my wife was cheating on me. Fortunately, I only had twin blade disposable razors, and she broke into the bathroom before I could go get a kitchen knife.

So for those wives and girlfriends who brag about cheating on their significant others on here, and those who cheer them on, just remember that in real life, someone gets very, very hurt.

Sorry to read this. That really sucks and I hope you're in a better place now. Not being sarcastic here.

 

[markchamberlain]

I was just wondering if OP had her permission to post her picture. This is supposed to be a safe place and that wouldn't have been cool at all. Total dick move.

It seems pretty clear the post is fake and used just some random image from the internet. While that is still dickish, it doesn't really reflect anything on the model whose image was randomly misappropriated.

 

[SPARTAN047]

**I** wasn't judging anyone. I merely said that not every man wants a disloyal slut. I can't stop you from doing your own thing, but I can certainly judge you for doing it, especially if you post all about it on a very public forum. So just fuck off. Please and thank you.

Well said. IDC about women or men being polygamous. Everyone who wanted to fuck anyone else already did so. Even our grandmas. Nothing stopped a woman shagging some guy in the bushes long ago. And having his kid. Nothing stopped a guy sleeping with all his friends sisters and then causing a mess just like women could.

But I see this far too often. Desperate guys and all women who want to be cheating sluts start calling you the moral police when you say it's wrong to police women's sexuality.

But let a guy post about his M4M cheating ads and how he chats to or meets women secretly behind his wife's back, sometimes because she doesn't give him anything, and look at all the moral police turning up THEN .

I've seen women who have no business commenting on these posts saying that men shouldn't go behind their wife's backs to eat other pussies or suck cocks, and they should stop ruining these women's lives.

I've never seen these dumbass women post on a cheating slut's thread that she shouldn't waste her husband's time. And men are equally dumbasses when they write how empowered she is and she should take control of her sexuality since her husband doesn't own her. Imagine someone doing that to your wife.

If it's agreed upon swinging, cheating role-playing , and cuckolding or cuckqueaning, we're all adults and can do what we want.

Sneaking around behind your partner's back and hiding it is wrong morally. So is flirting, and looking at others too much to be tempted.

I might talk slutty over here in these forums but I have fairly strong conservative morals when it comes to betrayal and cheating. I don't support it in any gender. Anyone who does it messes up society, women because they can get pregnant and men because they can get someone pregnant. And STDs.

If you don't want your sexuality being policed, don't misuse it and don't stalk your lover's posts, check who's commenting on them just to be suspicious, and tell them how to behave, look at, or treat everyone else like dirt but you like a lady.

 

[Wolf_Song]

First off it looks like you and she haven't talked enough to know each other, relationship status, what each is seeking... etc. Or to know where you stood with each other. With what you shared your relationship with her has been mostly physical.

To get to drunk then pass out when taking her to a party is a huge mistake. As in to many places there are those who would get you drunker to get at her. Plus spending to much time with drinks and not enough with her in a place of strangers to her... not a good idea. As also you are the one who brought her there and should have been also looking out for her and also to more sober better realize her ways to.

Some younger men and women like to be with older ones due to more experience, less inhibitions and even some times more maturity. If you want a real relationship then end things with her and move on to where you can have that with some one special.

 

[Beachsyrf]

It seems pretty clear the post is fake and used just some random image from the internet. While that is still dickish, it doesn't really reflect anything on the model whose image was randomly misappropriated.

Here’s the very first post by this “21 year old sailor in Japan”:

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/md-dc-va-de.1580081/

It’s on his profile and was his first-ever post …. seems this older professional found a way to go back in time, join the Navy and get deployed to Japan.

 

[Deleted member 6873114]

Although in some countries, the choices are being stripped from women regarding their sexual freedoms. So it might swing back the other way sadly, but definitely something more men need to acknowledge about women

Which countries did you have in mind? I do think women in the middle east are being abused in a horrible way due to evil religious influences. Some parts of Africa too. Of course sick social ideas slither around the globe and invade lots of social orders.

 

[ShooterMcGavin001]

Which countries did you have in mind? I do think women in the middle east are being abused in a horrible way due to evil religious influences. Some parts of Africa too. Of course sick social ideas slither around the globe and invade lots of social orders.

Very true

 

[13Fantasies]

Which countries did you have in mind? I do think women in the middle east are being abused in a horrible way due to evil religious influences. Some parts of Africa too. Of course sick social ideas slither around the globe and invade lots of social orders.

Those were my main ones, including some of the more aggressive oppression happening in Afghanistan

 

[Deleted member 6873114]

Those were my main ones, including some of the more aggressive oppression happening in Afghanistan

The human desire to control other humans is sick and horrific. It is at the core of so many social problems.

 

[13Fantasies]

The human desire to control other humans is sick and horrific. It is at the core of so many social problems.

Especially non consensual control

 

[JimmyFlagstaff1964]

I am a 21 year old American sailor stationed in Japan. I have been looking for a place to express myself and my feelings - I hope I've found the right forum.

I met my GF, Akiko, at a concert in Tokyo. For me, it was love at first site. Akiko is a 20 year old college student attending Chiba University. She is beautiful - and dresses very conservatively because of her major and status in school. I live about an hour away from her college, so most of our meetings are planned well ahead of time. Akiko is very sensual - built perfectly - and with the most beautiful skin and dark silky hair you can imagine.

In the past, we've had outstanding nights together. We party, we come home, we fuck. Her body is extremely tight - in every way imaginable. Her conservative demeanor in public really covers her "behind the door" animal behavior. She enjoys getting fucked - plain and simple. I was her second boyfriend that she had sex with - the first was a Japanese guy she was dating when we met. We had a wonderful thing going for about six months - then I made my mistake.

I invited her to a party where many other Americans, many of my coworkers, would be present at a military hotel in Tokyo. I wanted to show her off, because I truly was over my head with this sexual doll. The party is where I made a mistake. I noticed Akiko was getting a LOT of attention by a couple of guys - older men. I wasn't worried too much about it because of their age - as a matter of fact, I laughed it off. Later, I would see her dancing with these guys and even going outside to smoke with them - something I had never seen her do.

I drank too heavily and passed out. When I woke up - I couldn't find her. I kept getting "looks" from my coworkers - smirks even. I later found out from a friend that he saw her get into the elevator with one of the men. At that point - I lost my mind - I was going door to door trying to find her. We were all staying on one floor.

The man she left with had a roommate - the roommate found me in the hallway looking for her. He was brutally honest - he said "Tim - I am sorry, but your girl is with "him" in our room". I went to the door and started banging. Hotel security came and removed me - told me to get in my room or they would call the MP. I went to our room - alone. Around 9am the next day - Akiko made her way back to me.

To say I was heart broken is an understatement. I was crushed - I am in love with her - deeply. The thought of her with another man is more than I could bear. I broke down. To my surprise, she was rather cold hearted about the whole situation. Her response to me was "I am young - I want to enjoy being young". I asked her what this meant for us - she told me that we could remain "friends" and see each other but she also wanted this older man in her life. In other words - she wanted to date both of us.

Currently, I am playing along. I want her to remain in my life and maybe she will come to her senses and understand there is no future for a 20 year old and an almost 50 year old man. Now, when she comes down for the weekend or to visit - she always goes to his apartment first - and if there is time she will drop by and see me. He and I live in the same apartment complex.

There are days when I see them together - coming back to his apartment after he picks her up at the train station. As they disappear into his apartment, I know what he is getting and it hurts. I wait for her to drop by and say hello to me - but we haven't had sex since that night. I lone for her - I want her back. I love and miss her.View attachment 2420742

Dude, If what you’re saying is true. You need to stand up nice and tall and quit being a chump. You can be young and do all kinds of fun things. Just don’t be mean and disrespectful. Move on and try being a little more assertive (confident) when it comes to the new ladies you meet. Treat them with respect at all times. But, you be the captain of the ship you’re sailing!!! Good Luck.

 

[Daddydomtex48]

My other piece of advice is you need to find a little Filipina working girl in Japan (or better yet take a little trip over there) and get yourself some Filipina pussy. You will forget the Japanese girl believe me.

Lbfm

 

[JackStayII]

I am a 21 year old American sailor stationed in Japan. I have been looking for a place to express myself and my feelings - I hope I've found the right forum.

I met my GF, Akiko, at a concert in Tokyo. For me, it was love at first site. Akiko is a 20 year old college student attending Chiba University. She is beautiful - and dresses very conservatively because of her major and status in school. I live about an hour away from her college, so most of our meetings are planned well ahead of time. Akiko is very sensual - built perfectly - and with the most beautiful skin and dark silky hair you can imagine.

In the past, we've had outstanding nights together. We party, we come home, we fuck. Her body is extremely tight - in every way imaginable. Her conservative demeanor in public really covers her "behind the door" animal behavior. She enjoys getting fucked - plain and simple. I was her second boyfriend that she had sex with - the first was a Japanese guy she was dating when we met. We had a wonderful thing going for about six months - then I made my mistake.

I invited her to a party where many other Americans, many of my coworkers, would be present at a military hotel in Tokyo. I wanted to show her off, because I truly was over my head with this sexual doll. The party is where I made a mistake. I noticed Akiko was getting a LOT of attention by a couple of guys - older men. I wasn't worried too much about it because of their age - as a matter of fact, I laughed it off. Later, I would see her dancing with these guys and even going outside to smoke with them - something I had never seen her do.

I drank too heavily and passed out. When I woke up - I couldn't find her. I kept getting "looks" from my coworkers - smirks even. I later found out from a friend that he saw her get into the elevator with one of the men. At that point - I lost my mind - I was going door to door trying to find her. We were all staying on one floor.

The man she left with had a roommate - the roommate found me in the hallway looking for her. He was brutally honest - he said "Tim - I am sorry, but your girl is with "him" in our room". I went to the door and started banging. Hotel security came and removed me - told me to get in my room or they would call the MP. I went to our room - alone. Around 9am the next day - Akiko made her way back to me.

To say I was heart broken is an understatement. I was crushed - I am in love with her - deeply. The thought of her with another man is more than I could bear. I broke down. To my surprise, she was rather cold hearted about the whole situation. Her response to me was "I am young - I want to enjoy being young". I asked her what this meant for us - she told me that we could remain "friends" and see each other but she also wanted this older man in her life. In other words - she wanted to date both of us.

Currently, I am playing along. I want her to remain in my life and maybe she will come to her senses and understand there is no future for a 20 year old and an almost 50 year old man. Now, when she comes down for the weekend or to visit - she always goes to his apartment first - and if there is time she will drop by and see me. He and I live in the same apartment complex.

There are days when I see them together - coming back to his apartment after he picks her up at the train station. As they disappear into his apartment, I know what he is getting and it hurts. I wait for her to drop by and say hello to me - but we haven't had sex since that night. I lone for her - I want her back. I love and miss her.View attachment 2420742

I am a 21 year old American sailor stationed in Japan. I have been looking for a place to express myself and my feelings - I hope I've found the right forum.

I met my GF, Akiko, at a concert in Tokyo. For me, it was love at first site. Akiko is a 20 year old college student attending Chiba University. She is beautiful - and dresses very conservatively because of her major and status in school. I live about an hour away from her college, so most of our meetings are planned well ahead of time. Akiko is very sensual - built perfectly - and with the most beautiful skin and dark silky hair you can imagine.

In the past, we've had outstanding nights together. We party, we come home, we fuck. Her body is extremely tight - in every way imaginable. Her conservative demeanor in public really covers her "behind the door" animal behavior. She enjoys getting fucked - plain and simple. I was her second boyfriend that she had sex with - the first was a Japanese guy she was dating when we met. We had a wonderful thing going for about six months - then I made my mistake.

I invited her to a party where many other Americans, many of my coworkers, would be present at a military hotel in Tokyo. I wanted to show her off, because I truly was over my head with this sexual doll. The party is where I made a mistake. I noticed Akiko was getting a LOT of attention by a couple of guys - older men. I wasn't worried too much about it because of their age - as a matter of fact, I laughed it off. Later, I would see her dancing with these guys and even going outside to smoke with them - something I had never seen her do.

I drank too heavily and passed out. When I woke up - I couldn't find her. I kept getting "looks" from my coworkers - smirks even. I later found out from a friend that he saw her get into the elevator with one of the men. At that point - I lost my mind - I was going door to door trying to find her. We were all staying on one floor.

The man she left with had a roommate - the roommate found me in the hallway looking for her. He was brutally honest - he said "Tim - I am sorry, but your girl is with "him" in our room". I went to the door and started banging. Hotel security came and removed me - told me to get in my room or they would call the MP. I went to our room - alone. Around 9am the next day - Akiko made her way back to me.

To say I was heart broken is an understatement. I was crushed - I am in love with her - deeply. The thought of her with another man is more than I could bear. I broke down. To my surprise, she was rather cold hearted about the whole situation. Her response to me was "I am young - I want to enjoy being young". I asked her what this meant for us - she told me that we could remain "friends" and see each other but she also wanted this older man in her life. In other words - she wanted to date both of us.

Currently, I am playing along. I want her to remain in my life and maybe she will come to her senses and understand there is no future for a 20 year old and an almost 50 year old man. Now, when she comes down for the weekend or to visit - she always goes to his apartment first - and if there is time she will drop by and see me. He and I live in the same apartment complex.

There are days when I see them together - coming back to his apartment after he picks her up at the train station. As they disappear into his apartment, I know what he is getting and it hurts. I wait for her to drop by and say hello to me - but we haven't had sex since that night. I lone for her - I want her back. I love and miss her.View attachment 2420742

I think this old proverb fits here: "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours. If not, it was never meant to be,"

 

[TinaG_2023]

My guy friend shared me last night. I guess you could say it was a MMF fun evening! Did I ever sleep good!

 

[SPARTAN047]

Here’s the very first post by this “21 year old sailor in Japan”:

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/md-dc-va-de.1580081/

It’s on his profile and was his first-ever post …. seems this older professional found a way to go back in time, join the Navy and get deployed to Japan.

I wish I knew the secrets of time travel too. Lucky guy.

 

[Naughtylo]

We enjoy lots of variety in our sex life.
There is a huge difference between love and lust.