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I think a lot of it may be that the angle makes it easy for us to imagine we're the one creating your enjoyment. certainly that's part of my focus, perhaps especially because this is my number one choice sexually. I love going down on a woman, even more than I love the reverse function, although of course I love that too. But this is always my first priority. I love how good it makes the woman feel in general and I love the individualism of it. Every woman is different, every woman responds best to different techniques, and even if the communication is there it's largely trial and error to see what works best. I really love the response when I rightly notice something that really trips her triggers and I repeat it! It's a great reward for paying attention, though I am consistently surprised at how often a woman expresses that it's unusual for a man to notice and repeat. My guess is that most guys have a pattern or particular technique they had success with and tend to revert to that and concentrate on it. I also really encourage communication. It's so intimate and interesting. and it can be quite surprising, in a good way.
you should likely come on over to my place tonight...jus sayin
 
Juve sucks in Champions League. Losing to a few Prem League teams is one thing that I can handle, but losing to Benfica, PSV...not even top teams in their own leagues...shameful.
Been a while since they were elite like in 2015 with Buffon, Morata, Tevez, Pogba, Vidal, Bonucci...and an aging Pirlo...sigh
 
Juve sucks in Champions League. Losing to a few Prem League teams is one thing that I can handle, but losing to Benfica, PSV...not even top teams in their own leagues...shameful.
Been a while since they were elite like in 2015 with Buffon, Morata, Tevez, Pogba, Vidal, Bonucci...and an aging Pirlo...sigh
Pogba was never elite:( I’m a Newcastle fan but don’t like the new format - mbappe was insane tonight though.
 
Ok Pogba wasnt ELITE but that team for Juve in 2015 was stacked. Champ LEague finalists that lost to Barca

Im a Buffon fan...and I loved Dybala (also he was hot haha), and Carlos Tevez was THE MAN.
I hate Ronaldo, hated Ronaldo on Juve...but shit he can be (was) amazing. He killed us when he was on Real.
 
That Juve team had one hell of a spine, I don't think Pirlo got the credit he deserved until Pogba went to Utd and people saw he needed a pass to run onto. Then the centre backs

I have to admit to being a Newcastle fan too, since 95 though, I was something of an outcast in school for supporting them in Ireland, everyone was Man United, we have local teams here but no one seems to support them.
 
That Juve team had one hell of a spine, I don't think Pirlo got the credit he deserved until Pogba went to Utd and people saw he needed a pass to run onto. Then the centre backs

I have to admit to being a Newcastle fan too, since 95 though, I was something of an outcast in school for supporting them in Ireland, everyone was Man United, we have local teams here but no one seems to support them.
F Man U :D
 
Could you be any more sexy 😍

Well, these will be hit and miss with the peeps but here goes...

I actively dislike these sports teams:

Inter Milan
AC Milan
Torino
Roma
Man U
Man City
Real Madrid (but actually own one of their kits...it was purple ok?!)
Seattle Sounders
LAFC
San Diego Padres
SF Giants
Arizona Diamondbacks
Philadelphia Phillies
Dallas Cowboys
NE Patriots
SF 49ers
Las Vegas Raiders
Boston Celtics
LA Clippers
Phoenix Suns
USC Trojans
Notre Dame


I prefer Coke to Pepsi haha
 
Well, these will be hit and miss with the peeps but here goes...

I actively dislike these sports teams:

Inter Milan
AC Milan
Torino
Roma
Man U
Man City
Real Madrid (but actually own one of their kits...it was purple ok?!)
Seattle Sounders
LAFC
San Diego Padres
SF Giants
Arizona Diamondbacks
Philadelphia Phillies
Dallas Cowboys
NE Patriots
SF 49ers
Las Vegas Raiders
Boston Celtics
LA Clippers
Phoenix Suns
USC Trojans
Notre Dame


I prefer Coke to Pepsi haha
The joys of supporting a neutral team, I can't say I love or hate any of those, if anyone drops out I'll perv twice as hard to make up for them 😅
 
Well, these will be hit and miss with the peeps but here goes...

I actively dislike these sports teams:

Inter Milan
AC Milan
Torino
Roma
Man U
Man City
Real Madrid (but actually own one of their kits...it was purple ok?!)
Seattle Sounders
LAFC
San Diego Padres
SF Giants
Arizona Diamondbacks
Philadelphia Phillies
Dallas Cowboys
NE Patriots
SF 49ers
Las Vegas Raiders
Boston Celtics
LA Clippers
Phoenix Suns
USC Trojans
Notre Dame


I prefer Coke to Pepsi haha
I don't know anything about any of those sports-ball teams, but you nailed the Coke/Pepsi thing. 🤣
 
Well, these will be hit and miss with the peeps but here goes...

I actively dislike these sports teams:

Inter Milan
AC Milan
Torino
Roma
Man U
Man City
Real Madrid (but actually own one of their kits...it was purple ok?!)
Seattle Sounders
LAFC
San Diego Padres
SF Giants
Arizona Diamondbacks
Philadelphia Phillies
Dallas Cowboys
NE Patriots
SF 49ers
Las Vegas Raiders
Boston Celtics
LA Clippers
Phoenix Suns
USC Trojans
Notre Dame


I prefer Coke to Pepsi haha
Definitely "miss" with me as a lifelong Dallas Cowboys fan. :(
 
we already knew we had opposing likes on baseball teams... but as a former Chargers season ticket holder, I appreciate that you and I share a dislike of the Raiders. I actually covered the Chargers for a couple websites and had field access during fall camp, although I never had locker room access or sideline passes in season. Got to know a few of the guys fairly well, though. The day Junior committed suicide was a very hard day for me and is one of the reasons no one needs to worry about me taking that particular escape from my medical situation. Meanwhile...

you should likely come on over to my place tonight...jus sayin

This totally made me smile. Thank you.
 
A few ppl have asked me recently about my work experiences, what I do, that sort...so Ill elaborate here and if you dont care, no worries...and sorry for making ya read.

I majored in economics in school. I wanted something to do with marketing, project/program management, becoming a VP or tech leader, that sort. Not 100% sure why to be fair. I prefer writing, drawing, things in the creative world...but never took any writing courses or anything for example.

I had a job in college for a bit as an intern a super large tech company that you have all seen commercials for and use daily in some fashion. They then offered me a full-time gig. But I quit after 5-6 months after being hired fulltime because I had read about massive layoffs were coming. Boss was mad when I told him and said I was making a poor decision. A month or so after leaving I found out I would have been cut. Money was very nice as a perm employee but in retorspect it was obviously a wise decision to leave other than my mgr being sad/mad I chose to do it.

I then worked at one of the big accounting firms (Deloitte, PwC, Ernst & Young, KPMG) for a year contract. I was as a project manager. I had a few large projects and I completed a couple of small projects. I was hired knowing it would likely be for one year and then hired full-time as an employee instead of as a contractor. I was told they were cutting it short after about 10 months (and I was MAD AF esp since my manager loved me and said it wouldnt be a propblem to extend another year at the minimum if they couldnt bring me on full-time) and then they extended it another month (so basically 11 months in total). My manager was amazing. His boss was an idiot. I still talk with my former manager a bit. He said it was a power struggle thing, not my performance or even a budget thing, at least from what he knows. Just how many ppl assigned to certain projects and who has the power between creative and leadership and bs like that. So I was then out of work for a couple of months. Too bad because I enjoyed it, even if it was in the financial world and I enjoyed tech perhaps more.

I was then hired at that enormous company we all know and love/hate and you shop at weekly possibly on their website. I was ina division I know NOTHING about. Anyway, they have a yearly audit and needed a project manager to help organize the tasks in order to report successfully yada yada. They were using a new software platform and wanted me to lead on that, and report how to use it better. I set it all up, sent out a survey asking what ppl liked, what they wanted to see more of/less of, and so forth. Wrote up a big findings summary, the audit starts and halfway through they cut the contract short. Right after I turned in my report. And my report was THE BOMB. The manager was not my fave, but not horrible just...not friendly per se, and it was very weird working there to be frank, the money was dope, but I knew nothing about the area I was in and I think they used me to report on best practices for the project management aspect and then washed their hands of me. Supposed to be a 6-12 month contract, it ended up being like 4 months. UGH. I was pretty crushed only because I barely got my feet under me before I was cut. Who can just be amazing from day one in an area they know nothing about? Never got closure if it was me, the budget, the manager, the audit, my report, my contract and payrate, lack of shit to do otherwise, what.

I then took a 6-12 month contract at a consulting company (I am not looking for contracts, I truly do want REAL FTE gigs so I can work somewhere for 2 years, 5 years, 10...but when you are out of work and trying to land something, the first that seems to align and pays well etc...well you gotta take it to pay bills and keep working right?) anyway, hired as a consultant...my project and assignment was an enormous tech company that makes laptops, office-based software and a popular OS that we all know about. So yeah, I have some big names on my resume, most of which have paid me super well (esp for someone my age and experiene!) but not long term employment...very mixed bag right?! Anyway, I was there when I joined Lit. It was going well enough and as you may recall, my assignment was ending and I also had asked off of the team just prior to that and to another assignment at this company because of one or more ppl there (my main co-worker was THE WORST...can expand on if you want to hear, if not, trust me she sucked). My company looked to find the other oppotunities for me (they are good about wanting to place ppl on diff teams and such) and I would have stayed there, but...two things happened.

1. They decided to move me off before finding something. That coworker I disliked didnt like me either...and also said a few choice things about me I found out late but whatever. She put a word in methinks witht he Account Manager and she was hired before me so...yeah. Totally weird in my opinion but I was ok with it since she just made my job and life miserable. Hated her and therefore the project from day one or two actually. She was NOT my manager though. And so once they found two other opportunities for me, I had to be submitted for those but the one I really wanted, someone else got who had prior experience with that team. It would have been pretty ideal however. And the first one never got back to me...it was still in the planning stages I think.

2. I was already negotiating with my current job...another very big name that makes software that some of us have used before for sure.

So my contract ended while they were sourcing other opps for me, they are still open to me coming back, I loved my new manager there, but I took the current one I mentioned which is higher paying and definitely wayyyyy more demanding and overwhelming...so much new stuff, Im pretty lost to be fair. Its a rolling contract. Meaning, its 6 months, but they generally renew. I could easily be out of work in a day, a week, month, when the project ends in about 3-4 or at my 6 month end...if they dont renew. SUCKS.
People are mostly helpful, projects are big and all that, but all the software is new to me and there was NO training time, just jumped right into the project and the new software stuff and am expected to set up tons of shit. Not easy. Overwhelmed. And I am a project manager here.

I def do not want to drop the ball and get axed. I am hoping itll take a few weeks and then I can settle in as long as they are cool with some hand holding a notch to start etc but wow, not going amazing yet. Nor terrible. Just...as I said...overwhelmed!

Anyway, its obviously keeping me super busy, meetings early in the morning, and also saps up some time I was on here...
You've navigated some seriously challenging situations – toxic coworkers, sudden contract terminations, being thrown into the deep end – It sounds like you've consistently landed on your feet, and you're still pushing forward. That takes serious guts and brains. Just keep doing what you're doing, you've clearly got the smarts and the drive to figure it out.
 
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