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BrendaBear said:
This type of thing really confuses me. Not about others, but about me. I hate pain. I don’t find pain sexually exciting even remotely. But when I hear / read something like that, it makes me hot… I don’t understand why. That makes no sense to me. and when I come across this kind of thing, I never for even a millisecond relate to the dom or domme…

No idea what that says about my weird psyche.
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The brain is a wonderful fucked up place.
 
BrendaBear said:
This type of thing really confuses me. Not about others, but about me. I hate pain. I don’t find pain sexually exciting even remotely. But when I hear / read something like that, it makes me hot… I don’t understand why. That makes no sense to me. and when I come across this kind of thing, I never for even a millisecond relate to the dom or domme…

No idea what that says about my weird psyche.
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B, I think have the battle is finding someone to explore said feelings and curiosities with....
Finding the level in which turns you on, may just be that feeling submission and release .... More so than the pain....
 
BrendaBear said:
This type of thing really confuses me. Not about others, but about me. I hate pain. I don’t find pain sexually exciting even remotely. But when I hear / read something like that, it makes me hot… I don’t understand why. That makes no sense to me. and when I come across this kind of thing, I never for even a millisecond relate to the dom or domme…

No idea what that says about my weird psyche.
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simply hypothesizing...you crave a complete loss of control...so much of your life has been a battle that you long for the deafeningly silent release of all control so you can stop fighting and simply exist. and you enjoy the restraints because without them you know you will try to control the situation, but its not what you want at all...not a doctor, no degree, no history or knowledge, simply hypothesizing...
 
dawn_of_night said:
B, I think have the battle is finding someone to explore said feelings and curiosities with....
Finding the level in which turns you on, may just be that feeling submission and release .... More so than the pain....
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excellent point, its also about being able to find someone you trust enough for that level of intimacy and loss of control to both be and feel safe...
 
BrendaBear said:
This type of thing really confuses me. Not about others, but about me. I hate pain. I don’t find pain sexually exciting even remotely. But when I hear / read something like that, it makes me hot… I don’t understand why. That makes no sense to me. and when I come across this kind of thing, I never for even a millisecond relate to the dom or domme…

No idea what that says about my weird psyche.
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I think this falls along the same lines as enjoying watching others have sex and even maybe enjoying sex or orgasming yourself as you watch.

But not wanting to be the one being watched.

You can very much be turned on by something you don’t enjoy yourself.

I wouldn’t spend much thought analyzing why it confuses you or trying to relate to the people partaking. Sometimes the simple explanation is all the brain needs!
 
TXRafe said:
excellent point, its also about being able to find someone you trust enough for that level of intimacy and loss of control to both be and feel safe...
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*Nods* right.
What makes me submissive with one person, may not make me submissive with the next... And in turn may open a level of play I've never explored but would be willing to....
But... All kink texts aside I think that's a solid from being Switch... And I also feel like that lots of people don't understand that either....
 
Sammysub07 said:
Haha Do I hear a voca request in this statement?! 🤪😚🎧

Ummm hello! Feel free to turn this into a Brat House massage spa! I loooove me a massage! Might lift my hips up for you, too! 😘😘

https://i.gifer.com/1ydZ.gif
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im sorry sammy, that massage was strictly for @Chloe_Harper and her very needy butt...if the eagles win then we can discuss it... 🤭
 
BrendaBear said:
This type of thing really confuses me. Not about others, but about me. I hate pain. I don’t find pain sexually exciting even remotely. But when I hear / read something like that, it makes me hot… I don’t understand why. That makes no sense to me. and when I come across this kind of thing, I never for even a millisecond relate to the dom or domme…

No idea what that says about my weird psyche.
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I'm not generally in favor of giving pain, but there is something in the...intensity conferred in it that sometimes sounds more appealing in theory. Perhaps that's it?
 
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