Sex With Married Others

I don't really care much if the man I hook up with is in a relationship or not tbh.

I'm willing, he's willing and that's good enough for me.
Especially one night stands.
It's just sex for us. No strings attached.

I grew up in Japan where it's not uncommon for both men and women to have sexual affairs.
They often won't admit or mention it.

In the Netherlands (where I live now), I have a fwb who's married. His wife knows (she even watched sometimes).

So I guess it's no big deal for some.
I'd like to be in thay type of situation but with me being the one who watches.
 
I don't really care much if the man I hook up with is in a relationship or not tbh.

I'm willing, he's willing and that's good enough for me.
Especially one night stands.
It's just sex for us. No strings attached.

I grew up in Japan where it's not uncommon for both men and women to have sexual affairs.
They often won't admit or mention it.

In the Netherlands (where I live now), I have a fwb who's married. His wife knows (she even watched sometimes).

So I guess it's no big deal for some.
I think that is a healthier way of looking at sex - if both have the desires they should act of them. And works well if spouses are ok with it as well.
 
I had a long standing sexual relationship with an ex who was married. She had originally come over for belongings left behind after our breakup, one thing led to another, groping, fingering then straight up fucking her on the sofa.
 
For me, anytime I have an opportunity to fuck a married man there is an additional ego boost that I get out of it. The thought that they are willing to risk their marriage just to fuck me is a huge turn on. I especially like finding out what it is that their wife doesn't give them or do for them, and really indulge them in those aspects. A lot of times, it's really simple things like blowjobs or where they can cum. Sometimes the kinks can be a little bit more extreme, but even then, knowing that they don't get it at home makes me want to fulfill it for them. Likewise, I love it. When a man reminds me what a dirty wife I'm being by cheating on my husband with them.
 
For me, anytime I have an opportunity to fuck a married man there is an additional ego boost that I get out of it. The thought that they are willing to risk their marriage just to fuck me is a huge turn on. I especially like finding out what it is that their wife doesn't give them or do for them, and really indulge them in those aspects. A lot of times, it's really simple things like blowjobs or where they can cum. Sometimes the kinks can be a little bit more extreme, but even then, knowing that they don't get it at home makes me want to fulfill it for them. Likewise, I love it. When a man reminds me what a dirty wife I'm being by cheating on my husband with them.
Cheating is fun no matter if it’s straight or bisexual !
 
For me, anytime I have an opportunity to fuck a married man there is an additional ego boost that I get out of it. The thought that they are willing to risk their marriage just to fuck me is a huge turn on. I especially like finding out what it is that their wife doesn't give them or do for them, and really indulge them in those aspects. A lot of times, it's really simple things like blowjobs or where they can cum. Sometimes the kinks can be a little bit more extreme, but even then, knowing that they don't get it at home makes me want to fulfill it for them. Likewise, I love it. When a man reminds me what a dirty wife I'm being by cheating on my husband with them.
I completely agree! My partner and I got together when he was married (he is in the middle of a divorce). He is sexy AF and the first and only man I’ve been with who can keep up with my appetite. We tried to be good initially and I kept trying to end it but we literally could never stop. His wife would call, text, and email me all the time. I didn’t set out to try to hurt her but truth be told, I hadn’t given her any thought at first, I followed his lead…and when I finally did give it thought, I would ask him what his thoughts were and how he felt and he said he didn’t care. In all fairness, it had gotten to that point over the course of their relationship. But what was consistent (in addition to everything else), was her not meeting his sexual, physical, and emotional needs, that is something that even she admitted she “fell short” in meeting his needs. When she would poke and prod and call me a whore I told her that I am HIS whore, his slut, his cum bucket and I take it in every hole, any way, any time and he loves it and deserves it after so long with her dull and basic ass. And if she were a better wife and woman and learned how to suck his dick and enjoy his dick in her ass then maybe he wouldn’t have had a reason to look elsewhere. I have never reached out to her, it’s always her reaching out to me.


Anyway, he fucked my ass so damn good last night and this morning and then my mouth later in the day and then finished in my pussy.
 
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For me, anytime I have an opportunity to fuck a married man there is an additional ego boost that I get out of it. The thought that they are willing to risk their marriage just to fuck me is a huge turn on. I especially like finding out what it is that their wife doesn't give them or do for them, and really indulge them in those aspects. A lot of times, it's really simple things like blowjobs or where they can cum. Sometimes the kinks can be a little bit more extreme, but even then, knowing that they don't get it at home makes me want to fulfill it for them. Likewise, I love it. When a man reminds me what a dirty wife I'm being by cheating on my husband with them.
Variety!!! ;)
 
There is of course the forbidden fruit appeal for both partners. The risk of getting caught. The occasions of nearly getting caught by "spousal interruptus".

This part is why I did it once and never will again. Quite aside from the threats of personal violence against me when he found out, I did eventually realise that I was being selfish by indulging her need for appreciation but destroying a crucial part of his self-worth as well. Something they needed to sort out without me getting in the way.

The few conversations I had with him (he got hold of my phone number by looking at her phone, she wasn't very good at deceit) would flipflop between outright threats and abject self-pity of the "what are you giving her that I can't?" sort. She had me pussywhipped because she was an epically good fuck and I didn't want it to stop, but looking back it was a fucking mess.

Chalked up to experience. I doubt I'd do anything different given the same circumstances (I was getting divorced as well and had been missing sex and connection), but it was definitely my one and only married woman affair.
 
For me, anytime I have an opportunity to fuck a married man there is an additional ego boost that I get out of it. The thought that they are willing to risk their marriage just to fuck me is a huge turn on. I especially like finding out what it is that their wife doesn't give them or do for them, and really indulge them in those aspects. A lot of times, it's really simple things like blowjobs or where they can cum. Sometimes the kinks can be a little bit more extreme, but even then, knowing that they don't get it at home makes me want to fulfill it for them. Likewise, I love it. When a man reminds me what a dirty wife I'm being by cheating on my husband with them.
Same here with me fucking married women. I’m always surprised to learn there’s something simple they want but can’t get, then I spoil them rotten with it. I want them to spend 20 years looking back fondly at our time together and maybe even using that memory to get themselves off in some way. It’s a huge turn on to have left that kind of mark on a vibrant woman.
 
As a married woman, I’ve had my fair share of online relationships with other men, secretly, with those I know in real life and those I don’t. However, I never take the chance of getting physical, no matter what. I’ve always made my boundaries clear, even if we met in person. I don’t make any compromises on that.
I can respect that. I’m in one of those online relationships now. It’s been unbelievably hot but after two months of knowing it can never go further, I’m already starting to lose interest. I would write her long heated love letters in the first couple weeks but now it’s a struggle to put together a few sentences.

At first, it was fun to wind her up into slut mode and send her off to ravish her disinterested husband. Now, I feel like jetting since I’ll never get anything in return. It’s purely one sided.

I’ve come to believe that ladies who want only an online relationship are simply seeking attention they aren’t getting at home. They want to be desired and nothing more. It reminds me a bit of my high school days of chasing girls who loved to be chased but would never allow you to catch them. I used to quickly lose interest in them too.

Guys like me are happy to play along but there comes a point when it’s not fun anymore. Sort of like looking at a magazine and daydreaming about being with the model in the pages. Eventually, you wake up and recognize it’s not real in the slightest.

The lady I chat with is hot in every way. Simply stunning. Her naked body is pure art. Yet, after only two months , I’ve been trying to form the words to say, “been fun but time for me to go.” I kind of knew this day would come when she said she’s been having online relationships for 14 years.
 
I've been with several , they initiated it but I didn't refuse , and I think they were just looking for something new and fresh . Two of the three were long term and were exceptional in bed .I introduced the two to outdoor sex for an additional layer of excitement .
One of them became part of numerous three and four way arrangements including her husband and my wife so in all fairness everybody won ! As far as I know he never did find out about the two of us .
 
The wife and I were honest in our relationship about sex becoming stale after 20 plus years. We started openly exploring swinging and have both had separate hookups. It returned excitement to our sex life. And the reclaiming sex is amazing for both of us. So the sneaking or secrets isn't a part of the thrill for us, but sharing experiences and details is a turn on by it self. This led us to having a sexual connection with a very close couple. We've always been close. But now having the sexual connection makes us even closer. It's a natural extension of out friendship.
 
For me, anytime I have an opportunity to fuck a married man there is an additional ego boost that I get out of it. The thought that they are willing to risk their marriage just to fuck me is a huge turn on. I especially like finding out what it is that their wife doesn't give them or do for them, and really indulge them in those aspects. A lot of times, it's really simple things like blowjobs or where they can cum. Sometimes the kinks can be a little bit more extreme, but even then, knowing that they don't get it at home makes me want to fulfill it for them. Likewise, I love it. When a man reminds me what a dirty wife I'm being by cheating on my husband with them.
Hottest thing I’ve read in a while!
 
Back when I was married and not getting what I needed at home, I joined an adult dating site. Basically it was a hook up site for married people. As a result I spent quite a few very enjoyable afternoons in hotel rooms. The sex was mostly good or very good, but what made it so much more exciting was the planning, the emails, texts etc before meeting. The sneaking around seemed to add a huge pinch of spice. Do I or did I feel guilty? ...... Nah! If I had been able to get what I needed at home I wouldn't have bothered (probably). As it was on more than one occasion I served my husband his dinner with some other guys jizz oozing out of me into my knickers. I don't think he ever had a clue.
 
Back when I was married and not getting what I needed at home, I joined an adult dating site. Basically it was a hook up site for married people. As a result I spent quite a few very enjoyable afternoons in hotel rooms. The sex was mostly good or very good, but what made it so much more exciting was the planning, the emails, texts etc before meeting. The sneaking around seemed to add a huge pinch of spice. Do I or did I feel guilty? ...... Nah! If I had been able to get what I needed at home I wouldn't have bothered (probably). As it was on more than one occasion I served my husband his dinner with some other guys jizz oozing out of me into my knickers. I don't think he ever had a clue.
You’re right, I have had a similar experience and it’s the messaging before (and after!) that really makes affairs super spicy
 
For me, anytime I have an opportunity to fuck a married man there is an additional ego boost that I get out of it. The thought that they are willing to risk their marriage just to fuck me is a huge turn on. I especially like finding out what it is that their wife doesn't give them or do for them, and really indulge them in those aspects. A lot of times, it's really simple things like blowjobs or where they can cum. Sometimes the kinks can be a little bit more extreme, but even then, knowing that they don't get it at home makes me want to fulfill it for them. Likewise, I love it. When a man reminds me what a dirty wife I'm being by cheating on my husband with them.
Love this
 
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