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I so love the soft belly body representation!
This is my inspirational thread!

It’s a belated Curvesday for me (Thursday was unhinged) and I’m always so glad to see people here even when I can’t be. Especially people feeling sexy, seen, and safe. I had a - what I’ll call politely - heated conversation with a woman on another platform about women with what are currently unconventionally beautiful bodies vs women who try to celebrate their curves.. (And let’s politely remember that it’s a current beauty standard which are made up and change all the time). Her point was that it made her [upset] to know how much time she spent maintaining a [perfect] body and how much of her brain space the worry of appearing [not thin] took up when there were women who celebrated their curves, soft thighs, asses, and tummies, who didnt spend hours at the gym or the mental labor or calorie counting, and men who craved those bodies no matter what beauty conventions said.

Now, I think all bodies are sexy bodies and we certainly don’t discriminate against our skinny sisters at all but — to be furious that there are pockets of the internet world that celebrate something other than thin bodies is wild to me. And to be angry at the women that certain men prefer over your thin body is mind blowing. And to be angry at the women who prefer larger guys also.

I’m not sure this makes any sense to anyone without the full context but I just wanted to have a vent. I’ve long accepted that I am not everyone’s cup of tea, I’m not even MOST people’s cup of tea but … you can’t expect me not to be SOMEONE'S preference (and by ā€œmeā€ I mean anyone who thinks and looks like me). So, if you are a cure-haver or a curver-lover, these little niches we carve out are important, I think. They edify, support and represent that there is more to desire than the ā€œstandardā€.

XX PLP
 
It’s a belated Curvesday for me (Thursday was unhinged) and I’m always so glad to see people here even when I can’t be. Especially people feeling sexy, seen, and safe. I had a - what I’ll call politely - heated conversation with a woman on another platform about women with what are currently unconventionally beautiful bodies vs women who try to celebrate their curves.. (And let’s politely remember that it’s a current beauty standard which are made up and change all the time). Her point was that it made her [upset] to know how much time she spent maintaining a [perfect] body and how much of her brain space the worry of appearing [not thin] took up when there were women who celebrated their curves, soft thighs, asses, and tummies, who didnt spend hours at the gym or the mental labor or calorie counting, and men who craved those bodies no matter what beauty conventions said.

Now, I think all bodies are sexy bodies and we certainly don’t discriminate against our skinny sisters at all but — to be furious that there are pockets of the internet world that celebrate something other than thin bodies is wild to me. And to be angry at the women that certain men prefer over your thin body is mind blowing. And to be angry at the women who prefer larger guys also.

I’m not sure this makes any sense to anyone without the full context but I just wanted to have a vent. I’ve long accepted that I am not everyone’s cup of tea, I’m not even MOST people’s cup of tea but … you can’t expect me not to be SOMEONE'S preference (and by ā€œmeā€ I mean anyone who thinks and looks like me). So, if you are a cure-haver or a curver-lover, these little niches we carve out are important, I think. They edify, support and represent that there is more to desire than the ā€œstandardā€.

XX PLP
You are definitely ā€˜appreciated’ and desired šŸ¤¤šŸ« ā¤ļø
 
It’s a belated Curvesday for me (Thursday was unhinged) and I’m always so glad to see people here even when I can’t be. Especially people feeling sexy, seen, and safe. I had a - what I’ll call politely - heated conversation with a woman on another platform about women with what are currently unconventionally beautiful bodies vs women who try to celebrate their curves.. (And let’s politely remember that it’s a current beauty standard which are made up and change all the time). Her point was that it made her [upset] to know how much time she spent maintaining a [perfect] body and how much of her brain space the worry of appearing [not thin] took up when there were women who celebrated their curves, soft thighs, asses, and tummies, who didnt spend hours at the gym or the mental labor or calorie counting, and men who craved those bodies no matter what beauty conventions said.

Now, I think all bodies are sexy bodies and we certainly don’t discriminate against our skinny sisters at all but — to be furious that there are pockets of the internet world that celebrate something other than thin bodies is wild to me. And to be angry at the women that certain men prefer over your thin body is mind blowing. And to be angry at the women who prefer larger guys also.

I’m not sure this makes any sense to anyone without the full context but I just wanted to have a vent. I’ve long accepted that I am not everyone’s cup of tea, I’m not even MOST people’s cup of tea but … you can’t expect me not to be SOMEONE'S preference (and by ā€œmeā€ I mean anyone who thinks and looks like me). So, if you are a cure-haver or a curver-lover, these little niches we carve out are important, I think. They edify, support and represent that there is more to desire than the ā€œstandardā€.

XX PLP
Beautiful @PrettyLilPussy19
 
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