Cock Talk

[UnquietDreams]

On a scale of 1-10 (10=her own sex dungeon and collection of whips, 1=she may try something other than missionary-maybe) how much of a Dominatrix are you/do you like/have you tried?

5, maybe? I am dominant by nature, though I don't have to be at all. I have a friend who would be a solid 12 on that scale (does it professionally), and she scares the hell out of me.

Are you the more dominant sexual partner, or is it pretty even?

With a partner that wants to be dominated, I can be very dominant. But outside of those games, I am far less so. Regardless, I usually take the lead.

If neither of you is sexually aggressive (interpret that how you will), would you visit a Dominatrix as a couple? Or have you?

As I have said, I have a good friend who is a Domme. I have had no interest in visiting her professionally, and my ex was not interested in doing so either. We had an open invitation, heh.

Would you like to watch your partner ravaged/dominated by someone else? Who?

I would not have been adverse to watcing her being dominated by another woman.

Do you like to be dominated, or do you prefer to be the dominant one?

In those games, I am the dominate one.

Guys: What would be your limit with a Dominatrix (or a dominant partner)?

I do not like being out of control, and I do not like to be bound. However, the most submissive partner I have ever been with decided she wanted to switch one time. The idea of it was such a turn on to her, it turned me on as well, and I was able to give that to her. It wasn't me just doing it for her, or putting up with it, it was something I wanted to gift to her. So I ended up tied over a chair, with her calling me her bitch and pulling my hair as she railed me in the ass with a strap on.

So...that far.

Are you into rope play? Describe your favorite rope scenario?

I was introduced to sexual bondage a year before I was able to legally drive, and it has been with me ever since. My experience is with Western styles, but I think shibari is gorgeous, and I have been to a couple of workshops at a local shibari studio. I haven't had the chance to try it sexually. And... through those workshops I know how much time and skill it takes for a more complex tie, and I am not sure in the moment I would be patient enough. However, I would love to try a flying rig sometime.

Do you engage in sexual Cosplay? Would you? What characters are involved?

A very little -- my ex wanted a professor/student scenario one time (which is funny, as she is now a professor). But in general, no. However, I have written some I have contemplated producing as audios to be published on Lit.

Would you rather submit sexually to a group of horny women, horny men, or a mixed group of horny citizens—assuming they had your best interests in mind and you were attracted to all of them?

Horny women. Not from a sexual attraction standpoint, but because I am more able to trust women sooner. But it takes a lot for me to trust enough to submit to someone. But I think I could. Maybe.

 

[UnquietDreams]

Are you a closet exhibitionist?

Not really, no. I am not built for it, physically or emotionally.

Have you ever been caught naked accidentally?

I was in the theater. I have changed costume while running through a busy back stage. Yes.

Do you and/or your partner take part in any form of exhibitionism?

My ex was turned on by having sex in places we could easily be caught, public and otherwise. I think there was a repressed level of exhibitionism wrapped up in the danger.

Is embarrassment part of your exhibitionism or do you feel empowered by it?

Not mine, but my ex's, probably.

What is your sexiest exhibitionist fantasy?

I don't really have one.

What percentage of your masturbation fantasies include you being “seen”?

By my partner walking in? A few. By the neighbors? None.

What do you think makes exhibitionism sexy (to you or others)? Is it feeling desired?

I am more a voyeur than anything. What makes exhibitionism sexy to me, beyond the forbidden nature of it, is the confidence of the exhibitionist. The freedom and confidence is very powerful.

If you found out your partner was a closet exhibitionist, would you want to help them out, how would you?

Yes, I would. I love to help a partner learn and expand their boundaries. It is a major portion of what I enjoy. How? We would figure out what they wanted and try my best to do it for them.

What sex act would arouse you to perform in front of others?

I have done threeways a few times, and that was fine. And I have done an orgy twice, and that was less so. I felt very self-conscious. So, openly? None.

Sneakily doing things in public without anyone noticing is a whole different thing. (I am still technically 86ed from Disneyland. Hearing "it's a small world after all," is still a turn on, I am sorry to admit. )

What question would you ask a closeted or open exhibitionist?

What needs of yours are you meeting with this, and how does it turn you on?

 

[hotwords229_A]

I have a good friend who is a Domme. I have had no interest in visiting her professionally, and my ex was not interested in doing so either. We had an open invitation, heh.

This is interesting. I wonder what it would be like if you did visit her. Being good friends seems like it would have to change the dynamic no matter how professional she is.

Also, how could you have a friendly conversation over tea and crumpets after that?

 

[AngelicaS1780]

Are you a closet exhibitionist?

No. I'm out of the closet as far as exhibitionism is concerned.

Have you ever been caught naked accidentally?

Never been caught naked, accidentally or otherwise, as far as I can recall.

Do you and/or your partner take part in any form of exhibitionism?

For me, it's primarily sharing pics here. The husband isn't much of an exhibitionist, but he's helped me take some pics recently. Concerns about viewer consent and the possible repercussions of being seen keep me from acting on any desire to be caught, unintentionally or otherwise, naked or engaged in sexual activity.

Is embarrassment part of your exhibitionism or do you feel empowered by it?

Definitely no embarrassment or humiliation component to it for me. I suppose that I find it empowering to a degree. It's helped me to become more comfortable with and confident in my body and my sexiness. But that's partly due to receiving positive feedback. I wouldn't continue sharing my pics here if all I was getting was negative feedback. I wouldn't find anything sexy about that.

What is your sexiest exhibitionist fantasy?

Even in fantasy, it's hard for me to let go of my feelings about consent, so fantasies tend to center around being in an environment such as a sex club or resort where people know that they may see sexual activity when they don't necessarily expect it. If that makes sense. And where photography without consent isn't allowed. Sometimes I want to be the center of attention, sometimes I imagine being somewhere secluded and being discovered.

What percentage of your masturbation fantasies include you being “seen”?

~ 15%

What do you think makes exhibitionism sexy (to you or others)? Is it feeling desired?

Part of it is feeling desired. I also like the idea of inspiring sexual arousal, whether or not I am the sole object of that person's desires. And then there's the idea of making someone else feel liberated enough to discover or share their exhibitionistic and/or voyeuristic tendencies.

If you are an exhibitionist, do you often like being the center of attention normally, or are you a wallflower that wants to be stripped in public?

I'm an introvert who enjoys being the center of attention when I feel like I have a certain degree of control over the situation.

If you found out your partner was a closet exhibitionist, would you want to help them out, how would you?

I would enthusiastically try to help them out. I'd be open to helping them discuss their fantasies, share pics, visit a nude beach, or visit a club.

What sex act would arouse you to perform in front of others?

Well, I've liked all the ones that I have tried... giving and receiving oral and intercourse in missionary position.

What question would you ask a closeted or open exhibitionist?

How do you explore your exhibitionism if your partner isn't interested? For someone who is closeted, what would it take for you to come out of the closet?

 

[Wriggle]

I’m-bare-assed


All questions are about consensual exhibition, including fantasy only—not real life forcing others to be naked or to having to see you naked, ya pervs!

Are you a closet exhibitionist?

No
Fully open exhibitionist - the kink test reckons 97%

Have you ever been caught naked accidentally?

Probably

Do you and/or your partner take part in any form of exhibitionism?

Often.
Nude beaches, open curtains, balcony sex etc.

Is embarrassment part of your exhibitionism or do you feel empowered by it?

No embarrassment
No empowerment

What is your sexiest exhibitionist fantasy?

Naked in a room full of clothed women.

What percentage of your masturbation fantasies include you being “seen”?

17.5%ish
(In summer)

What do you think makes exhibitionism sexy (to you or others)? Is it feeling desired?

Definitely

If you are an exhibitionist, do you often like being the center of attention normally, or are you a wallflower that wants to be stripped in public?

I do both.

If you found out your partner was a closet exhibitionist, would you want to help them out, how would you?

Take them to a place we're we can entertain the crowd

What sex act would arouse you to perform in front of others?

Teaching a class on sexual techniques.

What question would you ask a closeted or open exhibitionist?

Where's your favourite beach?
Where's your favourite sex club?

 

[dawn_of_night]

More info please.

https://www.literotica.com/s/my-pants-please

Tah dah....

 

[hotoldrguy]

https://www.literotica.com/s/my-pants-please

Tah dah....

Damn that is hot!

 

[MindYaBitness]

I think once you pass the one year mark it no longer counts as a “peek”.

Well, it wasn't a daily thing

 

[dawn_of_night]

Damn that is hot!

I would say... You asked for it... But that was @hotwords229_A

Yea both have the same first name... I'm sorry...

 

[hotwords229_A]

I would say... You asked for it... But that was @hotwords229_A

Yea both have the same first name... I'm sorry...

I asked for it for ALL of us. And you delivered, very sexily.
Loved the story.

 

[dawn_of_night]

I asked for it for ALL of us. And you delivered, very sexily.
Loved the story.

Probably not my best work.
But alas.... I'm not writer, and I have more of a hands on approach

 

[peekingone]

https://www.literotica.com/s/my-pants-please

Tah dah....

Ok this is amazing and so dam erotic. Well done.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Probably not my best work.
But alas.... I'm not writer, and I have more of a hands on approach

I would disagree . . . with the not a writer part.

 

[LKincaid42]

Well, it wasn't a daily thing

So you're telling us your neighbor is lazy? I'll bet his yard looks shitty.

 

[hotwords229_A]

So you're telling us your neighbor is lazy? I'll bet his yard looks shitty.

Or with all the cum, his grass is growing at an accelerated rate!

 

[dawn_of_night]

I would disagree . . . with the not a writer part.

Thank you that's kind.

 

[MindYaBitness]

So you're telling us your neighbor is lazy? I'll bet his yard looks shitty.

Because I don't want to break lit guidelines, I can't tell too much, but I will say that yes, his yard did look shitty. While I mowed mine in a teeny, tiny tank top. His mom would bitch to my mom, that I needed to cover up more. My mom, being the wonderful feminist that she is, told his mother that I didn't need to cover up, she needed to teach her sons control their thoughts.

Or with all the cum, his grass is growing at an accelerated rate!

There was no cum in the grass. If there was cum anywhere, it was all over the curtains inside his room, that just happened to be somewhat adjacent to the window to my room

 

[hotoldrguy]

Thank you that's kind.

and true

 

[dawn_of_night]

and true

Happy new year

 

[hotoldrguy]

Happy new year

Happy New Year

 

[hotwords229_A]

If there was cum anywhere, it was all over the curtains inside his room, that just happened to be somewhat adjacent to the window to my room

“Mrs. Bitness you need to tell her to cover up! We’re going through five curtains a day! My husband had to get a second job just to pay for all the curtains and Gatorade!”

 

[Cogan]

I’m-bare-assed
https://64.media.tumblr.com/bd00d71066b14ef1c6d2d1a1d9bd6fe1/0acdd727b34e8b99-d6/s400x600/803f16ce96282937887f4554a582778344475c25.gif

All questions are about consensual exhibition, including fantasy only—not real life forcing others to be naked or to having to see you naked, ya pervs!

Are you a closet exhibitionist?

No, I'm quite open about my exhibitionism. I'm not running around swinging my dick in public but on lit I'll gladly show in private if I'm asked.

Have you ever been caught naked accidentally?

Yes. And it was not sexual at all. Just awkward.

Do you and/or your partner take part in any form of exhibitionism?

Pic exchange on lit for me. My partner is not into that.

Is embarrassment part of your exhibitionism or do you feel empowered by it?

Neither. It's a rush and a turn on.

What is your sexiest exhibitionist fantasy?

I don't have any......but if mutual masturbation counts I have.

What percentage of your masturbation fantasies include you being “seen”?

Zero.

What do you think makes exhibitionism sexy (to you or others)? Is it feeling desired?

I think you are on to something here.....

If you are an exhibitionist, do you often like being the center of attention normally, or are you a wallflower that wants to be stripped in public?

It depends on the situation. At parties it's a bit of both or in the middle.

If you found out your partner was a closet exhibitionist, would you want to help them out, how would you?

N/A

What sex act would arouse you to perform in front of others?

I'm not picky. Any!

What question would you ask a closeted or open exhibitionist?

Picture exchange?

 

[Cogan]

https://www.literotica.com/s/my-pants-please

Tah dah....

Oh my! I think I'll sit here for a while.......

 

[UnquietDreams]

This is interesting. I wonder what it would be like if you did visit her. Being good friends seems like it would have to change the dynamic no matter how professional she is.

Also, how could you have a friendly conversation over tea and crumpets after that?

Now that I am single, I have contemplated it, but she plays in a playground I avoid -- she works with people who need strong impact (or more -- she has a mean hand with a bullwhip).

And as you point out, I am afraid it would change the dynamic too much. I value her too much to cross that line.

 

[dawn_of_night]

Oh my! I think I'll sit here for a while.......

Uh. Is it a rough pill to swallow??