Seniors and the differences

[dave's thing]

This is my go to forum so that is why I am posting here (not that it is a fetish

Over the last couple of years, I have really started to take notice how old age affects Senior’s bodies and mind, and to be honest, I am quite fascinated, as well as aroused, by it. I am 66 and went through a period of about a year not being able to get a hard on, at best what I would call a “semi”. I would still get horny and still got very turned on when the wife and I were playing, mostly oral but I did use toys on her. Over the course of the last couple of years, while my hard ons started to come back (I might also say they are fairly hard but I no longer stick upright and needs to be held up and its thickness and length are a little smaller but not much), her sexual drive started to fall off. It’s difficult to say why it happened but I think the affect of her not getting wet any more was mental then it was physical. Her clit still gets very hard and she does cum when we play, which is few and far between. Her titties have maintained their shape and look but have dropped a bit and her ass has maintained its attractiveness. We are friends with a couple that are completely the opposite. The older we get the more opposite we become. He cannot get hard at all, in fact, whenever I have seen, he is quite small and withdrawn. Her titties have dropped significantly, her nipples have gotten bigger and she gets quite wet very easily. For what its worth her ass seems to be losing its muscle structure as well. Quite different and our exercise, eating and social patterns are not different yest we are completely the opposite.

As a result of her lack of interest is sex, and my growing need for help in order to orgasm, I am permitted to play with other cocks. She knows I am not interested in guys (just their cocks), I only play with friends and she figures her and I are safe in terms of our relationship. So on that front again I find interesting the differences that age has created. Some balls hang unbelievably low, while others don’t hang at all. Some stick outward, some do not. Some are floppy. Some are rigid. The one constant is that most do not cum much anymore. LOL though that is not true of a new member of our group who is over 75 and seems to cum buckets forever but his first time was a couple of weeks ago so we will see if it is normal for him or not.

So I am curious to hear from other Seniors in any observations or experiences from being our age. Feel free to PM if you want to keep it quiet. Maybe later I will post some pics of as to visualize what I am talking about

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I'm almost 74

Due to my wife having a fairly serious procedure, we stopped having sex about 18 months ago. Soon afterwards, I was diagnosed with an enlarge prostate (but no cancer) and I've been on medication to shrink it for some time. The result is reduced libido, ED to an extent and finally, virtually dry orgasms. As Bette Davies said, many years ago, "Old age is no place for sissies".

 

[Stillrandy]

This is what works for me...

https://cdn09.**********/uploads/photos/2019/10/1092892/bdsmlr-1092892-3NVmetH9w2.PNG

The pump achieves the erection, the constriction ring preserves it. Have used one for over ten years -- the older man's friend.

This is a good mechanism because the restriction ring slips off the end of the tube directly onto the base of the penis, no loss of vacuum in the process. Have a variety of ring sizes for various purposes. Be glad to discuss via p.m. for more details.

 

[sgwatts3]

i use silindafil 20mg gets hard as a rock i am 70 andd still cum a good bit that i eat regularly

 

[dave's thing]

i use silindafil 20mg gets hard as a rock i am 70 andd still cum a good bit that i eat regularly

Does it take you a long time to cum?

 

[Islander55]

I am 64 and a woman and have gone through the change. I think the biggest thing for older people is exercise and watch their diet. We are all going to slow down some. We are all going to run into some health issues. I think a big key is to be flexible. Don't worry about what you can not do but think about the things you can do and be willing to experiment. One of the things I have come to realize is that the pussy is like most muscles. You need to exercise it if you want it to function well. I am not sure if it is quite the same for a male but I imagine there is some correlation.

 

[sgwatts3]

Does it take you a long time to cum?

not if the situation is right but sometimes it does

 

[twister947]

I'm 74. Two years ago I began to notice symptoms that would eventually be diagnosed as Parkinson's. That was the end of my libido.

 

[Stillrandy]

@Stillrandy
It looks like your pump pic didn't survive the upgrade. Could you please provide more info either here or via PM? Thanks!

The site from which I sourced the original picture recently banned hotlinking to their site. Here is the picture again from a different source:
View attachment 2132368
The pump achieves the erection, the constriction ring preserves it. Have used one for over ten years -- the older man's friend.

This is a good mechanism because the restriction ring slips off the end of the tube directly onto the base of the penis, no loss of vacuum in the process. Have a variety of ring sizes for various purposes. Be glad to discuss via p.m. for more details.

 

[docisin]

This is my go to forum so that is why I am posting here (not that it is a fetish

Over the last couple of years, I have really started to take notice how old age affects Senior’s bodies and mind, and to be honest, I am quite fascinated, as well as aroused, by it. I am 66 and went through a period of about a year not being able to get a hard on, at best what I would call a “semi”. I would still get horny and still got very turned on when the wife and I were playing, mostly oral but I did use toys on her. Over the course of the last couple of years, while my hard ons started to come back (I might also say they are fairly hard but I no longer stick upright and needs to be held up and its thickness and length are a little smaller but not much), her sexual drive started to fall off. It’s difficult to say why it happened but I think the affect of her not getting wet any more was mental then it was physical. Her clit still gets very hard and she does cum when we play, which is few and far between. Her titties have maintained their shape and look but have dropped a bit and her ass has maintained its attractiveness. We are friends with a couple that are completely the opposite. The older we get the more opposite we become. He cannot get hard at all, in fact, whenever I have seen, he is quite small and withdrawn. Her titties have dropped significantly, her nipples have gotten bigger and she gets quite wet very easily. For what its worth her ass seems to be losing its muscle structure as well. Quite different and our exercise, eating and social patterns are not different yest we are completely the opposite.

As a result of her lack of interest is sex, and my growing need for help in order to orgasm, I am permitted to play with other cocks. She knows I am not interested in guys (just their cocks), I only play with friends and she figures her and I are safe in terms of our relationship. So on that front again I find interesting the differences that age has created. Some balls hang unbelievably low, while others don’t hang at all. Some stick outward, some do not. Some are floppy. Some are rigid. The one constant is that most do not cum much anymore. LOL though that is not true of a new member of our group who is over 75 and seems to cum buckets forever but his first time was a couple of weeks ago so we will see if it is normal for him or not.

So I am curious to hear from other Seniors in any observations or experiences from being our age. Feel free to PM if you want to keep it quiet. Maybe later I will post some pics of as to visualize what I am talking about

Great thread. Glad I discovered it..

 

[drobert44]

The site from which I sourced the original picture recently banned hotlinking to their site. Here is the picture again from a different source:
View attachment 2132368
The pump achieves the erection, the constriction ring preserves it. Have used one for over ten years -- the older man's friend.

This is a good mechanism because the restriction ring slips off the end of the tube directly onto the base of the penis, no loss of vacuum in the process. Have a variety of ring sizes for various purposes. Be glad to discuss via p.m. for more details.

pic not found

 

[docisin]

This is my go to forum so that is why I am posting here (not that it is a fetish

Over the last couple of years, I have really started to take notice how old age affects Senior’s bodies and mind, and to be honest, I am quite fascinated, as well as aroused, by it. I am 66 and went through a period of about a year not being able to get a hard on, at best what I would call a “semi”. I would still get horny and still got very turned on when the wife and I were playing, mostly oral but I did use toys on her. Over the course of the last couple of years, while my hard ons started to come back (I might also say they are fairly hard but I no longer stick upright and needs to be held up and its thickness and length are a little smaller but not much), her sexual drive started to fall off. It’s difficult to say why it happened but I think the affect of her not getting wet any more was mental then it was physical. Her clit still gets very hard and she does cum when we play, which is few and far between. Her titties have maintained their shape and look but have dropped a bit and her ass has maintained its attractiveness. We are friends with a couple that are completely the opposite. The older we get the more opposite we become. He cannot get hard at all, in fact, whenever I have seen, he is quite small and withdrawn. Her titties have dropped significantly, her nipples have gotten bigger and she gets quite wet very easily. For what its worth her ass seems to be losing its muscle structure as well. Quite different and our exercise, eating and social patterns are not different yest we are completely the opposite.

As a result of her lack of interest is sex, and my growing need for help in order to orgasm, I am permitted to play with other cocks. She knows I am not interested in guys (just their cocks), I only play with friends and she figures her and I are safe in terms of our relationship. So on that front again I find interesting the differences that age has created. Some balls hang unbelievably low, while others don’t hang at all. Some stick outward, some do not. Some are floppy. Some are rigid. The one constant is that most do not cum much anymore. LOL though that is not true of a new member of our group who is over 75 and seems to cum buckets forever but his first time was a couple of weeks ago so we will see if it is normal for him or not.

So I am curious to hear from other Seniors in any observations or experiences from being our age. Feel free to PM if you want to keep it quiet. Maybe later I will post some pics of as to visualize what I am talking about

I’m also 66. I’m as horny as I’ve even been, and still get hard and cum a lot….although this may be entirely due to the frustration at not having a partner, or being able to find one, and so have to rely on porn and stroking. I go to a sex club nearby from time to time, and before I go take a Cialis (which really works for me). Usually it’s hot as fuck, but maybe that’s because of the relative newness of it. As a woman has commented above, it’s important to watch your diet, and exercise regularly….that’s great advice….

 

[n8Romantic]

I am 64 and a woman and have gone through the change. I think the biggest thing for older people is exercise and watch their diet. We are all going to slow down some. We are all going to run into some health issues. I think a big key is to be flexible. Don't worry about what you can not do but think about the things you can do and be willing to experiment. One of the things I have come to realize is that the pussy is like most muscles. You need to exercise it if you want it to function well. I am not sure if it is quite the same for a male but I imagine there is some correlation.

70 year old male. Exercise and diet. The affects of a healthy diet cannot be over emphasized. Yoga is incredible for flexibility and can be done by anyone, on a chair even. Yoga also attunes me with my body and I enjoy an incredible feeling of sensuality when I explore poses. Wife and I both go to the gym 4-5 times a week. She is 66 and crushing it. She started weight training with me about a year ago and the changes it has made to her body and confidence is inspiring. We get old, the body breaks down. Facts. Doctors are just mechanics for your body and mind. They can prescribe corrective maintenance, perform repairs, and monitor your health. However, they can't drive the car, your body, that's on you. And you are so right about the sexual muscles needing to be exercised. Case in point, after a lapse of a few months without sex, we had a nice session the other night. However, despite the use of lube, I broke the pussy and she tapped out after about 20 minutes. I had orgasmed once and was still rock hard and ready for round two. But shit happens. Still fun.

 

[Islander55]

70 year old male. Exercise and diet. The affects of a healthy diet cannot be over emphasized. Yoga is incredible for flexibility and can be done by anyone, on a chair even. Yoga also attunes me with my body and I enjoy an incredible feeling of sensuality when I explore poses. Wife and I both go to the gym 4-5 times a week. She is 66 and crushing it. She started weight training with me about a year ago and the changes it has made to her body and confidence is inspiring. We get old, the body breaks down. Facts. Doctors are just mechanics for your body and mind. They can prescribe corrective maintenance, perform repairs, and monitor your health. However, they can't drive the car, your body, that's on you. And you are so right about the sexual muscles needing to be exercised. Case in point, after a lapse of a few months without sex, we had a nice session the other night. However, despite the use of lube, I broke the pussy and she tapped out after about 20 minutes. I had orgasmed once and was still rock hard and ready for round two. But shit happens. Still fun.

I think I would tap out after 20 minutes too. Once we get to the fucking part, I do not need too long and once I have gotten mine, I tend to get sleepy. I try to let guys know where I am at so they can join in or at least be close behind me. Most guys I have been with around my age are content with once and then get it going again later.

 

[crashD]

I certainly don’t cum nearly like I used to, but at the age of 71 I seem to have developed stamina and the ability to recuperate pretty fast.

Part of that is my recovery from some heart problems. 5 stents have greatly improved my blood flow to not only my heart but also my cock.

Combined with 4 months of cardiac rehab and continued exercise, I’m rejuvenated

Went on a beach vacation to celebrate. One long session produced 3 very hot fucks with wifey.

We were both sore the next day.

 

[crashD]

One thing I should add. We use Foria. It’s a female lube that can be bought with THC in it.

Wifey goes wild, gets super wet and cums like crazy.

She does tend to maul my balls when we use it, but I don’t mind.

 

[okiedokey]

I'm a 67 year old male. A little overweight, but generally in good health. I get regular exercise - brisk walking, hiking and weight lifting. My wife is unavailable due to medical issues. I have been limited to masturbation and online sexting for the past year. Also managed a couple of weekend visits to a friend with benefits, but those opportunities are limited due to distance. I'm able get and maintain an erection, but I've started to have dry orgasms. Scheduled a visit with a urologist to check that out.

Getting old is not for sissies!

 

[PermanentlyAroused]

I've bee lurking a long time here.... My first post.

I'm 60 and wife is 62. We are both very fit for our age and she still very attractive... Blonde, blue eyes, slim, small riots but prominent nipples.

A few years ago she was having anxiety issues and went on benzos for a while... This totally took away her sexual inhibitions (a known side effect) and this has changed everything.

It's the opposite of what I was bracing for.

 

[hulmule]

Great thread. Being in my 60's, i feel young at heart but the body is pretty beat up from years of construction physical abuse. Very active and now with spring coming will be outdoors even more. Depends on my stimulation on how hard i get. Some great point and comments. My wife has always had a crazy cycle. Been in menopause for years. Hot flashes all the time. Take some meds so has no interest in sex at all. She very Dry and hurts and havent been inside a woman in years.... Killing my libido cause of this. So in a lot of ways, it affects me and how i react. Nice friends on Lit so that helps to get me thru some HARD times and not so hard times. Stay healthy my friends, exercise when and if you can. Keep a positive mental health, which can be hard at times in Life. And - SMILE IT'S THE SECOND BEST THING YOU CAN DO WITH YOUR LIPS !!

 

[BunniMaddie]

I am not a senior but in general I have always found sex fascinating besides exciting and fun. The study of it is so interesting as you said why people can be so different in reactions, desires, how their bodies work and shape. I've met older men and women who love sex and have huge appetites and I've met people in their late 20s and 30s who are basically done with it and that is fine with them. It's a very interesting science to say the least.

 

[PermanentlyAroused]

I am not a senior but in general I have always found sex fascinating besides exciting and fun. The study of it is so interesting as you said why people can be so different in reactions, desires, how their bodies work and shape. I've met older men and women who love sex and have huge appetites and I've met people in their late 20s and 30s who are basically done with it and that is fine with them. It's a very interesting science to say the least.

It is. The other thing I find interesting is people's boundaries or lack thereof, also something that can work either way as people get older.

 

[BunniMaddie]

It is. The other thing I find interesting is people's boundaries or lack thereof, also something that can work either way as people get older.

Or why something feels amazing to one person and unbearable to another.

 

[PermanentlyAroused]

Or why something feels amazing to one person and unbearable to another.

Oh yes indeed, anal sex being the classic example, but yeah lot's of fetishes and kinks are an absolute turn off for many.

 

[BunniMaddie]

Oh yes indeed, anal sex being the classic example, but yeah lot's of fetishes and kinks are an absolute turn off for many.

Anal is a good example and oral is another one. I know some that love to use their mouths and others that are in no way fans of it.

 

[Stillrandy]

I am not a senior but in general I have always found sex fascinating besides exciting and fun. The study of it is so interesting as you said why people can be so different in reactions, desires, how their bodies work and shape. I've met older men and women who love sex and have huge appetites and I've met people in their late 20s and 30s who are basically done with it and that is fine with them. It's a very interesting science to say the least.

I thought I was 'done with it' also. But a few years ago, my psych doctor weaned me off of a couple of my mental health medications and that unlocked my libido big time.