KaitlynW1993
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- May 12, 2019
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I wish I knew what I know now at that age. I feel as if I have wasted years of a shit sex life and living in a world where I could never just be me
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Agreed. Social expectations are horse shit and I’ve spent a long time trying to live up to them.I wish I knew what I know now at that age. I feel as if I have wasted years of a shit sex life and living in a world where I could never just be me
Same! I missed so many chances. I was a dork, lol.I wish I'd had a better idea what a hot piece of ass I was. A lot of girls obviously threw themselves at me but I didn't always catch on.
I had soooo many insecurities when I was 18 ... sexual, social, needing approval from parents and peers, thinking my entire future depended on doing the right thing all the time......
If I had known then what I know now, my social anxiety might have gone away sooner and I would not have been afraid to suck cock and eat pussy.
I had a pretty nice body back then .... skinny, kind of a twink ... nice ass and legs thanks to my bike .... and nobody got to enjoy it. Not even me.
I had soooo many insecurities when I was 18 ... sexual, social, needing approval from parents and peers, thinking my entire future depended on doing the right thing all the time......
If I had known then what I know now, my social anxiety might have gone away sooner and I would not have been afraid to suck cock and eat pussy.
I had a pretty nice body back then .... skinny, kind of a twink ... nice ass and legs thanks to my bike .... and nobody got to enjoy it. Not even me.
I so agree on what you say about raising kids. I don't think my sisters and I were raised badly - we were just left to learn anything sexual from friends or pre-internet reading materials. My wife was raised by a pack guilt-weilding women (don't touch yourself, don't touch him, definitely don't touch her), so I preferred learning on my own to massive guilt. We raised our kids with real knowledge and support, and I've encouraged my son's to make sure their partners are sexually compatible. There's nothing wrong with premarital exploration but divorce is not fun.I strongly relate to this.
If I would have been less concerned about what my parents thought I would have gone much further into many of my interests - and not just the sexual or gender aspects of life.
My parents were self conflicted and did so much to project their insecurities on me. It took more than half of my life to let it go and feel like I could make my own decisions without their judgment nagging at me.
I got to raise my kids as I would have liked to have been raised. It’s an incredible catharsis but I must admit that I’m a bit jealous of them.
One of the most validating things for me has been how my kids know my parents well enough to understand what I went through. They love their grandparents but all have thanked me for braking away from the attitudes I was raised with.
Buy Apple stock. That may not sound like sex advice, but I bet billionaire me would get laid a lot more, lol.