One_ping_only
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All great advice and advice I wish I and known from the very first day I hinted to my beloved wife of my perverted, demented desires of watching her being serviced, ravished by another man or men!!!You don't mention how long this sex talk involving others fucking her has been going on. It took my wife 2 years of this type of role playing before she agreed to actually meet other people with a view to real life adventures and then maybe another year before she finally let another guy take her. So prepare for a long term process. Experiment more with different scenarios, find out if she is more turned on by being fucked by random strangers or by guys she knows. Find out if she is turned on more by a single guy or by a gang bang situation. find out how she reacts to an orgy situation. Find out how she reacts to the idea of another a guy watching you and her while he is wanking in front of you, or another couple screwing while you two watch them and they're watching you. She may be open to real life encounters where the other guy/couple are just voyeurs and not actually in physical contact. If she responds well to that then in the couple scenario have the other guy screw her while the wife watches and brings herself off with a toy or something. The more you experiment like this the more she'll reveal of her secret desires. That may help you in moving things forward. One thing is paramount, she has to be the one to make the decision to move to real life encounters. Don't force it.
Unfortunately I didn't know these things or I would and taken a more different route or strategy in sharing said desires, been much more patient and allow her to be in "the driver seat " so to speak . She's frowned upon my kink due to her strict Roman Catholic upbringing which is understandable.
Nowadays I simply keep these dirty thoughts and outrageous scenarios in the dark side of my brain