James Blandings
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I have just recently returned home after spending two weeks in a TPE situation with a good Domme friend of mine. This is someone I have known for about 8 years but never had the chance to play with before. She is a very well respected Domme, well known in the scene nationally.
We discussed this for a long time, and set our terms. For two weeks I would be her complete slave, to use and play with as she sees fit, within the boundaries of our personal limits. I would be expected to do all chores, cooking, cleaning, etc. and be subject to punishment by caning if I disobeyed or failed to please.
We spent the two weeks at a cozy summer house on the eastern shore of Chesapeake bay. It was beautiful, only a short walk from the beach.
Each morning I would get up and make breakfast, to serve her in bed. We spent most of our days either hanging out at the beach or roaming around antique shops.
I did lots of small personal service things for her, which we both enjoyed. I gave her a pedicure, I washed her hair, things like that.
In the evenings I would make dinner (I'm a pretty good cook, and we had fresh seafood almost every night) and after dinner we would watch a movie or TV a little while, and then we would play.
We did a lot of flogging and a lot of CBT stuff, and several times she used her strap-on on me. Most of the scenes ended with me servicing her orally. We had a bedtime ritual that each night I would read her one chapter from the Arabian Nights.
One night, she had a second male sub join us, and had us put on a sexual show for her. The rest of the time it was just the two of us. We spent a lot of time talking, and really got to know each other so much better in every way.
I did get one punishment caning, for putting clothes in the washer and forgetting to dry them.
We had a wonderful time. It was a long time fantasy come true, and I want to give people a message here. I got to live out this fantasy because we took time to know each other, to understand each others desires, and to establish a relationship of trust long before we ever started a scene. There's no way this would have worked out for a first time meeting, in my opinion. So, to you novices, please, learn that if you get to know people as people first, and as "dom" or "sub" second, your chances for a fulfilling experience will increase greatly.
I'd be more than happy to answer any question anyone might have about all this.
We discussed this for a long time, and set our terms. For two weeks I would be her complete slave, to use and play with as she sees fit, within the boundaries of our personal limits. I would be expected to do all chores, cooking, cleaning, etc. and be subject to punishment by caning if I disobeyed or failed to please.
We spent the two weeks at a cozy summer house on the eastern shore of Chesapeake bay. It was beautiful, only a short walk from the beach.
Each morning I would get up and make breakfast, to serve her in bed. We spent most of our days either hanging out at the beach or roaming around antique shops.
I did lots of small personal service things for her, which we both enjoyed. I gave her a pedicure, I washed her hair, things like that.
In the evenings I would make dinner (I'm a pretty good cook, and we had fresh seafood almost every night) and after dinner we would watch a movie or TV a little while, and then we would play.
We did a lot of flogging and a lot of CBT stuff, and several times she used her strap-on on me. Most of the scenes ended with me servicing her orally. We had a bedtime ritual that each night I would read her one chapter from the Arabian Nights.
One night, she had a second male sub join us, and had us put on a sexual show for her. The rest of the time it was just the two of us. We spent a lot of time talking, and really got to know each other so much better in every way.
I did get one punishment caning, for putting clothes in the washer and forgetting to dry them.
We had a wonderful time. It was a long time fantasy come true, and I want to give people a message here. I got to live out this fantasy because we took time to know each other, to understand each others desires, and to establish a relationship of trust long before we ever started a scene. There's no way this would have worked out for a first time meeting, in my opinion. So, to you novices, please, learn that if you get to know people as people first, and as "dom" or "sub" second, your chances for a fulfilling experience will increase greatly.
I'd be more than happy to answer any question anyone might have about all this.