My recent adventure

James Blandings

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I have just recently returned home after spending two weeks in a TPE situation with a good Domme friend of mine. This is someone I have known for about 8 years but never had the chance to play with before. She is a very well respected Domme, well known in the scene nationally.
We discussed this for a long time, and set our terms. For two weeks I would be her complete slave, to use and play with as she sees fit, within the boundaries of our personal limits. I would be expected to do all chores, cooking, cleaning, etc. and be subject to punishment by caning if I disobeyed or failed to please.
We spent the two weeks at a cozy summer house on the eastern shore of Chesapeake bay. It was beautiful, only a short walk from the beach.
Each morning I would get up and make breakfast, to serve her in bed. We spent most of our days either hanging out at the beach or roaming around antique shops.
I did lots of small personal service things for her, which we both enjoyed. I gave her a pedicure, I washed her hair, things like that.
In the evenings I would make dinner (I'm a pretty good cook, and we had fresh seafood almost every night) and after dinner we would watch a movie or TV a little while, and then we would play.
We did a lot of flogging and a lot of CBT stuff, and several times she used her strap-on on me. Most of the scenes ended with me servicing her orally. We had a bedtime ritual that each night I would read her one chapter from the Arabian Nights.
One night, she had a second male sub join us, and had us put on a sexual show for her. The rest of the time it was just the two of us. We spent a lot of time talking, and really got to know each other so much better in every way.
I did get one punishment caning, for putting clothes in the washer and forgetting to dry them.
We had a wonderful time. It was a long time fantasy come true, and I want to give people a message here. I got to live out this fantasy because we took time to know each other, to understand each others desires, and to establish a relationship of trust long before we ever started a scene. There's no way this would have worked out for a first time meeting, in my opinion. So, to you novices, please, learn that if you get to know people as people first, and as "dom" or "sub" second, your chances for a fulfilling experience will increase greatly.
I'd be more than happy to answer any question anyone might have about all this.
 
James Blandings said:
We had a wonderful time. It was a long time fantasy come true, and I want to give people a message here. I got to live out this fantasy because we took time to know each other, to understand each others desires, and to establish a relationship of trust long before we ever started a scene. There's no way this would have worked out for a first time meeting, in my opinion. So, to you novices, please, learn that if you get to know people as people first, and as "dom" or "sub" second, your chances for a fulfilling experience will increase greatly.

No questions, and I think that the above was important enough to pull out just in case anyone's eyes skimmed over it.

Plus, it's why I'm having such a hard time in the relationship department. I take too long to move on with it, and I end up with friends.
 
James.

I am so happy that everything turn out so well for you and that you enjoyed yourself.

I do agree, taking time to get to know each other as people is the utmost importance.

Welcome home, James.
 
Welcome back, JB, I'm glad you had such a wonderful time.




I wouldn't mind hearing more about that two man show;)
 
i'm very happy for you James!! Sounds like everything worked out great... even the punishment :p
i want to be 3rd in line for any pics of the 2 man show!!! hehehe
 
the reaction of you ladies to James' disclosure of a two man show for his Domme is the very reason I'd do the same thing in a heartbeart for my SO, even though I am not attacted to men. To do something that evokes that kind of reaction is what I live for, and seeing her get off like that because of something I am doing for her would make it better than fine for me.

Good show, James.

(Had to say it before Spectre-T did)
 
A 2 man show is definately something i would love to see... in person would be best, but pics are good too.. :D
 
lol, I am curious as to how that would work for subs like yourself and cym.... you would "submit" to watching?

I'd view it as a D/s thing. Maybe it would just be being a fly on the wall watching men to you, with no D/s involved.

SierraMoon said:
A 2 man show is definately something i would love to see... in person would be best, but pics are good too.. :D
 
monster666 said:
lol, I am curious as to how that would work for subs like yourself and cym.... you would "submit" to watching?

I'd view it as a D/s thing. Maybe it would just be being a fly on the wall watching men to you, with no D/s involved.
One Domme, two femsubs and two msubs?
Of course it would be D/s.
How could it not be and everyone be reasonably content?

That said, i find the sight of two men together incredibly erotic.
I have direct experience with all sorts of interactions with men and other women, same sex and mixed, but i can't ever be a part of the very different heat that's generated between two men. I've *seen* it, watched it, fly on the wall stuff, but i can't be a part of it - and so i find it fascinating and alluring and incredibly exciting.

Kinda like most men feel about watching two women together, i think.
:rose:
 
cymbidia said:
One Domme, two femsubs and two msubs?
Of course it would be D/s.
How could it not be and everyone be reasonably content?

That said, i find the sight of two men together incredibly erotic.
I have direct experience with all sorts of interactions with men and other women, same sex and mixed, but i can't ever be a part of the very different heat that's generated between two men. I've *seen* it, watched it, fly on the wall stuff, but i can't be a part of it - and so i find it fascinating and alluring and incredibly exciting.

Kinda like most men feel about watching two women together, i think.
:rose:
Couldn't have said it better myself, cym..... meet you half way across the US, to participate... lol.....
 
Leave it to cym to find a way in a D/s situation to make it all work for everyone.


cymbidia said:
One Domme, two femsubs and two msubs?
Of course it would be D/s.
How could it not be and everyone be reasonably content?

That said, i find the sight of two men together incredibly erotic.
I have direct experience with all sorts of interactions with men and other women, same sex and mixed, but i can't ever be a part of the very different heat that's generated between two men. I've *seen* it, watched it, fly on the wall stuff, but i can't be a part of it - and so i find it fascinating and alluring and incredibly exciting.

Kinda like most men feel about watching two women together, i think.
:rose:
 
Wonderful story, Mr. Blandings

What a great way to start your travels. That is, if i remember your original plan, it seems you have a few more stops before you're all the way back home. Maybe i should look it up.

In any case, the story was wonderful! Quite romantic in our twisted way. The "lesson" at the end is a very important one, i'm so glad you included that.

Good luck wherever you go, and don't lose our address!
 
James, Hi ... you don't know me cos I am relatively new here - but I feel I know you a little from the M thread.

Sounds as if you are having a great holiday ... hope it continues as well as it started!





Errrrrrr ... could I quietly stand in line behind Sierra ... to see the pics? (We Brits are famed for our queues, afterall!)
 
James,
I know you aren't back with us permanently until autumnish, but it's damn fine to see your cyber-face around here again. Sounds like you had a wonderful time; thanks for sharing it, and the wisdom of it, with us. You've been missed.
 
Wow, JB, you really ARE a big perv!
Haha.
Here i am, hope you dont regret inviting me.
 
RisiaSkye said:
James,
I know you aren't back with us permanently until autumnish, but it's damn fine to see your cyber-face around here again. Sounds like you had a wonderful time; thanks for sharing it, and the wisdom of it, with us. You've been missed.

Thank you Risia, and thank you all. I missed you too, the whole gang of you.
 
MzChrista said:
Wow, JB, you really ARE a big perv!
Haha.
Here i am, hope you dont regret inviting me.

If you want to have a who's the bigger perv contest, I'm up for it.
You made anyone use your cat's litter box lately?
 
Sorry ladies, I have no pics from my visit, but I can tell you how it went.
The other man came over for dinner, and after we cleaned up, Mistress P. put us both over the back of the couch side by side and flogged us.
After that she had us sit side by side on the couch and stroke each other's cocks for a while, and then get into a sixty nine position and suck each other, while she watched and used her vibrator on herself. After we both got off, we relaxed a while. Later on, I assisted her while she did some CBT stuff with him, and then she had him fuck me while i went down on her. A splendid time was had by all.:)
 
James Blandings said:
If you want to have a who's the bigger perv contest, I'm up for it.
You made anyone use your cat's litter box lately?
If we're gonna have a pissing contest, i'm in.
:D



And a sincere welcome to you, MzChrista. James mentioned you'd be along. It's good to have another voice with your warm body experience among us.
:rose:
 
Lordy, Lordy.....

James Blandings said:
Sorry ladies, I have no pics from my visit, but I can tell you how it went.
The other man came over for dinner, and after we cleaned up, Mistress P. put us both over the back of the couch side by side and flogged us.
After that she had us sit side by side on the couch and stroke each other's cocks for a while, and then get into a sixty nine position and suck each other, while she watched and used her vibrator on herself. After we both got off, we relaxed a while. Later on, I assisted her while she did some CBT stuff with him, and then she had him fuck me while i went down on her. A splendid time was had by all.:)
Oh my, Mr. Blandings....
(fanning myself)
Does anyone else think that it got mighty warm in here all of a sudden????:p
 
Sooo...what kinda lube did you use, James?
:D



Good story!
Tell us another before bedtime?
Just one more?
Pleasepleasepleaseplease!
 
cymbidia said:


Good story!
Tell us another before bedtime?
Just one more?
Pleasepleasepleaseplease!
i'm with you, cym...
pleasepleasepleaseplease???
(assuming position on knees....)
 
You women are insatiable aren't you.
OK, here is a fond memory you might like. This was many years ago. My master took me to a gay SM party. It was a back room type club. there was a long bar and near one end of the bar there was a metal pole from floor to ceiling. He ordered me to kneel in front of the pole with my back to it. He put cuffs on my wrists and chained them around the pole. Then he hung a sign around my neck that said "Blowjobs 5 cents", set a metal cup on the floor next to me and put a blindfold over my eyes.
I was there for probably an hour. I lost count of how many blowjob I gave, but the sound of a coin clinking in a cup still gives me a hardon.

Ok, cym, it's your turn!;)
 
mmmm, thank you James......
you certainly know how to please us insatiable ladies!! Wonderful stories... thanks again!!:p
gives me something to think about, as i drift off to sleep.....
 
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