A damn good flogging...

Oh, I hope you do!
I've only been flogged a couple of times, but I absolutely loved it, and I am craving more.
When I get a bit more of my strength back Sam and I are going to buy some nice floggers so he can learn to use them.
Have a wonderful time, Foxy!
 
Flogging is incredible. I feel better after a long flogging than after a professional massage. A nice heavy flogger does wonders for beating the tension right out of a person.
 
Dana said:
What's the appeal, Caroline ?

Being flogged, first of all, doesn't feel like a bad pain at all to me, but like the feeling you get from a good deep massage. You know, that hurts so good feeling. And after a while the thumping sensation, the repetitive rhythm, and the state of submitting to it combine into an almost trance like state. I feel at the same time both lost in a dream state and hyper aware of my self, sexually. It's hard to describe if you haven't felt it. One comparison I can make, although it's not perfect, is to really good anal sex. If you have experienced that, perhaps you know that feeling of being completely "in" the act, like it's not just your ass getting fucked, but your whole body. And even without direct genital stimulation, you feel it there anyways. Flogging is like that, I feel each blow not just where it lands, but throughout my body, in my pussy, my breasts, all the way through me. The sensation loses it's focal point and becomes something you feel with your whole self.
I hope that's a good description. As I said, I've only experienced it a few times, perhaps someone with more experience can do a better job of it.
 
Thanks for the description. I'm not a fan of anal but I think I know the feeling you're talking about. I've never been flogged but I'm interested and I'd give it a try.
 
Wolf is on his way over to my house at this very moment.
With his floggers, among other things.
We used mine yesterday - but he prefers his.

You'll excuse me when he arrives, won't you?
:p
 
I have never been flogged - we do not own a flogger.

Wouldn't mind giving it a go, (I think?) ... is there some way we could MAKE one?

Any ideas would be warmly received.
 
i never thought it sounded like fun, but after that description i'm wanting to just run out into my apt. complex and ask my neighbor to flog me. you have a great talent with words, have you written any posts for this site? i'll have to check it out!
 
wetnhorny_slave said:
i never thought it sounded like fun, but after that description i'm wanting to just run out into my apt. complex and ask my neighbor to flog me. you have a great talent with words, have you written any posts for this site? i'll have to check it out!

If you mean me, darlin', my ramblings are all over the place, and you can read my stories by clicking on the WWW below. And if you were not referring to me, you ought to go read 'em anyway;)
 
wetnhorny_slave said:
i was definately reffering to you carolineOh! you stories are GREAT! i just popped over to read one!

Thank you, wetnhorny, for your compliments, here, and through the feedback form. When we write our stories and post them here, the only payment we get is kind words, and they are very much appreciated.
 
foxinsox said:
I'm happy to report that He felt I had indeed been good; I got some wonderful floggings and terrific spankings.

*dreamy sigh*

I firmly believe that what He can't do with a flogger just can't be done :D

:rose:

Yay! Good for you, Foxy!
 
foxinsox said:
I'm happy to report that He felt I had indeed been good; I got some wonderful floggings and terrific spankings.

*dreamy sigh*

I firmly believe that what He can't do with a flogger just can't be done :D

:rose:

It's all in the wrist
 
Rick DeVille said:
It's all in the wrist
It's all in the headspace that exists between the dominant and submissive partner, to my way of thinking. Everything grows from that - or doesn't.

A nice bit of wrist action is good too, though, on occasion.
:cool:
 
Just got up to look at my ass. Yes it is still red with little stripes across it.

I got Himself a new flogger a couple of weeks ago. It wasn't what I thought it would be.

Stiff black leather, braided strands with knots in the ends. It was a totally differently feeling than the suede flogger I have.

He wouldn't use it on me. He said it needed to be softened some first. I told him I did not care. He said he did.

I forgot (hmmm) the leather softner at Wal-Mart. He poured oil over and used it on me today.

Not the dull thud of the suede flogger when it falls, but more of a sharp, slap, sting sensation. Totally new.

I want more!

:p
 
Being really strapped (oh a pun!) for cash right now ... we can't afford to actually buy a flogger.

Howvere, yesterday I saw in a local fashion shop that the hippy-type belts beloved of the 60's and 70's are back in a big way. The type that are woven leather with long fringes. I saw one and wondred ...

If the strands were cut off and bound to a piece of dowel ... might do? What do you all think? The strands were quite thin ... would that mean more of a sting?
 
It's creative to try to make your own, it also means you will never look at anything again without considering how useful it could be in a D/s situation

Howver, I suggest caution and discussion.

A simple thing as getting the wrong type of candle can result in severe burning, tying the wrong type of rope/string to a dowel could result in knots and, therefore, marking in the wrong place.

The Dom has to think this all through as it is the combination of toys with what I call 'head control' that does the wonder.

Discussion and careful experimentation.
 
Willowpuss, it's easy to make a good flogger by yourself.

This type will cause a sexy noise, and will have some sting if the tails are long and the lashes are hard. A version with shorter tails could be quite mild, for some light whipping.

Take the rubber inner tube of a bicycle wheel. Cut of perhaps half a meter (~ two feet) or whatever lenght you prefer. The longer it is, the more pain to the "victim". Cut a number of "tails" of preferred width from one end with a pair of scissors and leave a handle of 15 cm (1/2 feet) in one end. Cut every second tail out. Fill the handle with paper or whatever you have to make it hard.

Ready to go...:devil:
 
oooo.....

while I believe in homemade with love things and while I believe in sadism I also think that it would be hard to reproduce the rewarding, warming yummy effects of the floggings being talked about with the split bicycle tire.

This is one area where, having made a couple of floogers and having bought a bunch and invested, I think the latter is the way to go if at all possible.

If not, great tutorial here, last I checked: www.frugaldomme.com

Look for deersuede and pig suede items at the local thrifts, what was a pimp jacket in the early 80's makes a good flogger today.

If you don't have the patience and wherewithal...

www.leathercellar.com

Brenda's price to quality ratio, is, in my opinion, totally without equal. Get an elk or deer item for the sensations being discussed here.

Then split up that tire for some serious begging. :devil:
 
I've never used a flogger. I was under the impression that the person wielding the flogger could, with practice deliver all ranges of slaps. From the softest, most gentle to ones that will elicit squeals from the submissive. Is this true? Also, how much practice does it take to become at least moderately proficient when using a flogger?
 
MastrJ said:
I've never used a flogger. I was under the impression that the person wielding the flogger could, with practice deliver all ranges of slaps. From the softest, most gentle to ones that will elicit squeals from the submissive. Is this true?


Yes.

Although a deer or elk flogger will probably never elicit squeals of anything but giggles if you are playing with an extreme masochist, for most they are a good all-purpose toy.

Also, how much practice does it take to become at least moderately proficient when using a flogger?

Depends. How good do you want to be? You'll only learn to be *safe* by hitting a pillow or a dress mannequin and knowing how not to hit kidneys spinal cord or face, or too high up on each shoulder (you want to place the blow in the center of each shoulder blade, in the center of each buttock, and environs) You won't become good, better, or excellent, until you have the feedback, excitement and energy of a live target. Attend a demo if you can whatsoever, watch experienced players do their thing. Spend enough on your first flogger to get a piece that *you* enjoy the look, feel, weight and smell of.
 
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