making submissives melt

All of us here, in this forum, know how powerful words are. We wouldn't be here if we didn't - we'd be off having coffee someplace or watching TV or doing something that didn't include imbibing the stark visceral power of words on a screen.

But we're here.
We're kinked.
We react to words.

Are there specific words that you react to? Spoken in what manner? Written in what manner? Starkly powerful or wrapped in love or infused by romanticism or...what? How do the words sound that dig into your deepest submissive soul?

I crave being controlled. Whatever words are wrapped around the play between my partner and i, if s/he doesn't have contol leaking from them then i get a little hesitant and feel like the play might be a little unsafe. In this way, control has nothing to do with locks and restraints and everything to do with the juxtaposition of personal power - mine and my partner's.

It's a fine line to walk with me, for me, and i know it. There's a difference between being firmly in control of me, the play, and himself (if my partner is a man, as has been the case in the last handful of years) -and- just being dictatorial or bossy. Real control is an almost tangible emotional component of the energy flow between us during play. It's an immensely reassuring and inherently exciting part of the dynamic.

I crave being controlled but won't hand myself over to just anyone who claims to want that from me; it has be taken, gently, but taken from me nonetheless. It has be earned. It has to be real.

What about you?



The link below is to a page that makes me melt and go all fluttery with every reading. This kind of control is at the pinnacle of fantasies for a play situation...except for me to trust so completely there would have to be an ongoing relationship being built. It couldn't be a one-time event, not with the level of trust being asked of the sub in this writing. (http://www.endorphinresearch.com/)

Hmmmm cymbidia, maybe Iam nuts. But when I click that link I get a place selling furniture, lovely, lovely furniture.
There is a place on it called Johnny's World, I read a couple stories there, but don't think that's what you meant.

Did I miss something????

Forgive me please, my info was incomplete.
(Thank you, Merelan!)


http://www.endorphinresearch.com/

Click on johnny's world.

Click on Invitation.

Gol Dang. Okay, that was worth the wait. Whew.
Ummm... yes. The words speak volumes, the look, the slightest movement meaning so much more. Nevermind. They said it better.

I shall be silent now.

That sure is an evocative invitation.

I love words. Usually more than pictures. Sometimes all it takes is a beautifully written story or letter or poem like that and it sets off my imagination.

Isn't it interesting how one woman's call to pleasure is another's call to battle?

cymbidia melts and gets all mushy.
I felt my hackles rise and that undefinable urge to sink my teeth into him and rend his flesh from his bone.

I think that the words that get me all lathered up and ready to run the horserace of lo-o-o-o-ove would probably have cym more interested in wondering if she left the coffee pot on or not.


I am seriously fascinated by the total dichotomy of womanhood presented here.

Words, along with tone, and facial expressions move me in ways that I find difficult to explain.

I can not help it. Control of my words is intoxicating. Even if I call myself "Your slut" or even "Yours", I tremble. On the flip side, hearing "Yes Ma'am" is wonderfully accepted.

KillerMuffin said:

Isn't it interesting how one woman's call to pleasure is another's call to battle?

cymbidia melts and gets all mushy.
I felt my hackles rise and that undefinable urge to sink my teeth into him and rend his flesh from his bone.

I think that the words that get me all lathered up and ready to run the horserace of lo-o-o-o-ove would probably have cym more interested in wondering if she left the coffee pot on or not.


I am seriously fascinated by the total dichotomy of womanhood presented here.

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and I fall somewhere in between - didn't melt - it wasn't personal and intimate enough for me but my hackels didn't rise either because I could imagine with the right person in the right time and place it could make me melt.

I am melting!

My first name said in an authoritative, commanding (not demanding) tone melts me.

It also makes me tingle and shudder with anxiety, especially if I have been particularly playful or bratty.

My name is all it takes.

When He fists his hand in my hair and pulls my face to his and looking into my eyes, demands... "Who do you belong to?"...

well I melt...

yes that pretty much does it for me...

With Artful's permission

hi to all..very nice thread cymbidia...what makes me 'melt" is when my Master Artful says the words"M'love..or tells me I am precious to Him as He does that alot and it makes me love and wanna serve Him all the more..
as far as the "control' issue goes ,I am the same way..i'd love to be controlled or dominated by my Master and i know he'd be gentle and it WOULD be real..yes the soft gentle words will do it for me, everytime...

I am following and enjoying this thread very much

unsure

I am.......as yet.....a bit unsure.....what the actual thread is here.
but if I remember.....what makes submissives melt???? hmmm.
okee dokee. just did 3 weeks real life real time 24/7 live in.
what would make ME melt???? I do not know,....if there has been a melting point found yet. "I" have zero time in a dungeon so "I" know nothing. "I" have zero experience so far with much of anything. ALL I have experience at is waiting hand and foot on Her, getting coffee, brush out Her hair....etc etc.
"I" have not had any sort of experience to cause a melt-down.
I apologize so much to you folks here. I wish I could say what I felt when. and how. I wish I could add so much to so many threads but I cannot.

see ya all later on down the road....
"happy trails to you........"

mad dog back in iowa

Thank you, cym

A fascinating peek into the clockwork of your mind and heart. i can imagine being moved by such language. i have been "melted" by words, more just lately than ever before in my life.

If i could connect the pleasures promised in the invitation with real-life experiences, i think that it would have a more pronounced effect, but even so, it is very evocative.

i love the way you think.

i'll be thinking about this for quite a while no doubt.

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DRxBlue said:

A fascinating peek into the clockwork of your mind and heart. i can imagine being moved by such language. i have been "melted" by words, more just lately than ever before in my life.

If i could connect the pleasures promised in the invitation with real-life experiences, i think that it would have a more pronounced effect, but even so, it is very evocative.

i love the way you think.

i'll be thinking about this for quite a while no doubt.

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Blue darlin now I am curious - what makes or has made you melt - not that I am attempting to classsify you as a sub but I woudl like to know if you don't mind sharing.

For me it is gestures - beckoning to me is one that always works, touching the back of my neck, or a hand in the small of my back to escort me out of a bar - always works!!

ok, ok, i am a perv.....

ok, here goes... what makes me melt is eye contact.... his being totally expressive as to what he's feeling at the time... i love to see passion burning in my partner's eyes, and knowing that it is for me... yes... that makes me melt.......
ok, so here is the perverse side of me.... i TOTALLY melt when my partner walks up behind me without me knowing he is there, and simply whispers "slut" or "bitch" softly in my ear.... mmmmmmmmmmm

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SierraMoon said:

ok, here goes... what makes me melt is eye contact.... his being totally expressive as to what he's feeling at the time... i love to see passion burning in my partner's eyes, and knowing that it is for me... yes... that makes me melt.......
ok, so here is the perverse side of me.... i TOTALLY melt when my partner walks up behind me without me knowing he is there, and simply whispers "slut" or "bitch" softly in my ear.... mmmmmmmmmmm

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I know,...wrong thread,...I can't help it though.
I need to address a specific here. With some, there is a DEFINITE thrill to the use of specific words, as Sierra mentions in her post. The word 'fuck' has been so commonly used in the Sexually based threads,...I considered it as acceptable in common conversation, as I would in an SRP, with someone I had written alongside of.To explain: In the story thread, I could use ANY wording I chose, and because of the sexual nature of the story, it would NOT be taken as rude ,caustic, or degrading in any way. The story ended abruptly before her and I had gotten sexually involved. I could have made a mistake here, in ASSUMING because of the momentum of the thread, and her postings, she was, as I, more than eager to post, and describe in her own words, how we had sex. In the story, it was a group orgy type swing party, but before we were able to perform,...the thread ended. I jokingly PM'd the lady, and said,"Well,...I am gonna fuck you one way or the other!!!" Thinking we would have another opportunity to get together on ANOTHER SRP thread later on. Her response was very curt, direct, and to the point. Because of me using the word 'fuck' in a PM, it was erroneously taken as a DEGRADING word. The matter was addressed, I did apologise to the lady and neither of us have an axe to grind with the other. The reason I bring this up is to illustrate the differences in settings as to how ANY given words CAN be taken OUT of CONTEXT. I had used the word, but due to the setting, it was taken out of context. Had we actually been involved in describing a sexual experience, I feel sure it would not ONLY been acceptable to the readers,...but to HER also.


As in, "Making the final thrust, my burning seed rushed to bathe her womb,in powerful streams that scalded her over the edge. When I began whispering hard fuck words in her ear, she entered an earth shaking orgasm, that locked her body up in a rigid state of ecstasy."


Yes,
WORDS are AWESOME,...they can cause us to feel emotions, see pictures, inform, communicate, etc.

...and they affect Masters as powerfully as they do subs.

Had to put my 2 cents in!

I'm very much like MissTaken. My name is all it takes.

Another really powerful word to me is girl. He says it with this really low growl thing happening in the back of his throat. I know he's in control and that I belong to him in my entirety at that moment. My breath catches, my clit throbs and I instantly get wet.

Perhaps, for me, it's not so much which words as it is the tone in which the words are wrapped. As others have commented, it's a particular growl or a firm manner permeating the words that makes my heart race.

I ache for the almost palpable control inherent in words of power, my dominant to me, and it doesn't much matter what the words are. Like everyone else, the sound of my name rolling off the lips of one to whom i have submitted is always incredibly powerful. Intimate details of the play, of what is going to happen, of plans not yet realized can make me shiver.

I want words like these in my life again.

Gee, petrel...

petrel said:

Blue darlin now I am curious - what makes or has made you melt - not that I am attempting to classsify you as a sub but I woudl like to know if you don't mind sharing.

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Thank you kindly for your curiosity. i am extremely "meltable", however mostly this has not taken place on a person to person level.

i've told people for many years that my most "erogeous zone" is my ears. Not in the sense that i like to have them played with,(altough if the player is good and gentle, that can be extremely pleasant) but my musician's ears.

Have you ever heard Crystal Gayle sing "Talking In Your Sleep"? That's a good example. From the first bar, the strings and her voice can put me into a space which, for all the world, seems more like the descriptions of "sub-space" than anything else i've ever heard of.

It doesn't have to be a female voice. Cliff Edward, whom most know as "Jiminy Cricket" when he sings "When You Wish Upon A Star" (The Blue National Anthem) does exactly the same thing.

If i'm not disturbed i sink into a place that is far removed from the ordinary world. The "Lullabye" movement in Stravinsky's "Firebird Suite" is proof that an oboe works as well as a human voice.

"Summertime" by George Gershwin can do it too, with or without vocals. So now you know my secrets. Hmmmm, i wonder why you wonder. Any reason you'd want a large glob of molten Blue?

With the wiring i have, it's easy to see how i could have drifted from physical sexuality so far, for so long. Things may be changing a lot though. This has been a most unprecedented Spring.

Thanks for askin' luv

Blue

Wonderful...BUT!

Now I am going to be back to the D/l of My life....Downloading Crystal Gayle....I had completely forgotten how much her voice gets to me as well.

Might I suggest that you consider her rendition of "Blue Bayou" and "Don't It Make My Brown Eyes Blue" as well... Her range is incredible...

Don't be silly cellis!

How could ANYONE embrace just a small part of such a perfect creation?

i think she should be required to carry a license to use her voice though. It could easily be a lethal weapon. i had to disable the radio in my car to keep such tunes from making me drive off roads or into buildings.

i AM a total fan!
(she even LOOKS like she sounds...shiver, melt)

Blue - I'm curious because I am always[\i] curious about people - I like getting to know you all a little better (and thats the only reason I would own up to out here *grin*)

Maybe I should start another thread asking the same thing of people who don't identify as Sub - or maybe we can just get them all to add their own little bits here. Now things that turn me on / wake me up when I'm feeling Domme - thats an entirely different matter - maybe I'll share sometime.

The variety of human rection is amazing, as Muffin pointed out what appeals to one person may turn someone else off completely even if they are both subs.

re: music - sound in general is a big factor for alot of people, strangly although I adore music and have listen and played for many years now It doesn't make me melt. It has very strong effect on me but (so far) not a sexual one. mmm ,maybe this is something I shoudl explore - I can just imagine a situation whereby a Dom/me could send certain tapes to his/her sub and tell them to listen to them but then to wait for the dom/me to call or arrive -mmmmm

music to sooth...? or arouse...?

Music has been a part of my life for as long as I can remember and before then even... I was told I did a mean rendition of "Blue Suede Shoes" as a two year old...

Different kinds of music have different effects on me... arousing? hmmm... the last time I was truly aroused by music was the first time I heard Russell Watson... what a voice!!!