First Experiences

DustyWolfe

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This week I have had my first ever experiences with BDSM. I have been doing bidding for a very special and lovely and loving Domme. I have truly enjoyed serving her and I have learned alot about myself. I feel very confident right now. Aside from being knelt and doing my bidding I have received a couple of spankings, one for being bad and the other for general purposes. I got waxed and last night I got flogged with a wonderful deer seude flogger. It was heavenly. My whole body was trembling by the time she finished with me.

I must admit that I was really scared about the flogger and didn't think that I would like it, but damn..... I love it hehe. I could live with being flogged or spanked every day.

We have kept in close contact with my gf/Mistress and everything we have done and it has been a wonderful time of growth for me. And for her as well I do believe.
 
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Dustygrrl, you sound thrilled and eager to repeat your newfound closeness. Would that all could have such joyful "first times" with this kind of sexuality. Continued happiness to you and your partner.
:rose:
 
cymbidia said:
Dustygrrl, you sound thrilled and eager to repeat your newfound closeness. Would that all could have such joyful "first times" with this kind of sexuality. Continued happiness to you and your partner.
:rose:

None of it has even been on a sexual level. I couldn't do that without Jen. But yes, I am eager to repeat all of this. I can't wait till August to be with my love in this way. Then it will be on a sexual level.
 
Let me repeat what I think I've understood, to make sure: the lady whom you served was not your more permanent Mistress/partner? I've just now caught on that several couples have play pals for BDSM outside their lifetime relationships, and I'm interested in learning more about it. Dusty, your experience sounds absolutely lovely.

Have many people sought out persons to satisfy their BDSM needs outside their own relationships? Have your experiences been as rewarding as this one?
 
*Stands and applauds*

Dusty, I'm happy for ya....just don't make good on your threat to not come back to Austin, I still have to take ya to the Forum ;) Much fun and happy-makings on your vacation, and tell me EVERYTHING when ya get back!! Pleaseeeeeee!

Kes
 
It sounds as if you had a marvellous BDSM expereince - I hope that many of your furture experiences will match up to or exceed this one.
 
i am SO happy for you Dusty...

It sounds as if you have com a long way since i first met you. i hope that i will be as lucky in my search after some of these other ways of feeling pleasure.

You keep us all posted as you continue to grow, you are beautiful!
 
Dusty... I know how much you have been wanting to have this experience... I am so very happy for you... I know that you are waiting for Jen... and that when you are together it will be even more wonderful...

:rose:
 
Quint said:
Let me repeat what I think I've understood, to make sure: the lady whom you served was not your more permanent Mistress/partner? I've just now caught on that several couples have play pals for BDSM outside their lifetime relationships, and I'm interested in learning more about it. Dusty, your experience sounds absolutely lovely.

Have many people sought out persons to satisfy their BDSM needs outside their own relationships? Have your experiences been as rewarding as this one?

My own Mistress/partner lives really far away from me. I needed a vacation so we both agreed that I should visit a friend. She knew I would be safe with this friend and that she would take good care of me. Our friend is switch and she makes a wonderful Domme. My Mistress only lets me play with this friend because of who she is. And it really has not been sexualized, it's about sensation....
 
Re: *Stands and applauds*

KestralWolfe said:
Dusty, I'm happy for ya....just don't make good on your threat to not come back to Austin, I still have to take ya to the Forum ;) Much fun and happy-makings on your vacation, and tell me EVERYTHING when ya get back!! Pleaseeeeeee!

Kes
*grins* as tempting as it sounds I wont be doing that. I have to find a job and start saving up so I can move to be with Jen...
So I will be leaving Austin eventually, but I will come back to visit since my parents live there :)

The dungeon was soooooooooooooooooooooo cool
 
petrel said:
It sounds as if you had a marvellous BDSM expereince - I hope that many of your furture experiences will match up to or exceed this one.

Oh, I know that the rest of my experiences will be good outside of the occassional times when my body is sensitive and such. I was lucky enough to find Jen early on and she is a very loving Domme. Of course we are equals outside the realm of playing so our relationship will only grow through love and trust.
 
Re: i am SO happy for you Dusty...

DRxBlue said:
It sounds as if you have com a long way since i first met you. i hope that i will be as lucky in my search after some of these other ways of feeling pleasure.
Yes, I definitely have. I'm happy now *grins* and I am safe...
I hope that you will have much luck in your search hon *huggles*



You keep us all posted as you continue to grow, you are beautiful

*blushes* thank you, and I will do just that.
 
cellis said:
Dusty... I know how much you have been wanting to have this experience... I am so very happy for you... I know that you are waiting for Jen... and that when you are together it will be even more wonderful...

:rose:

awwww thank you so much. Yes, I know that being with Jen and sharing this with her will be so awesome. We have shared as much of my experiences with her as possible over the speaker phone... Yes.... I am counting the days till August :)
 
willfulbrat said:
Dusty, it's wonderful that your first experiences were so good for you. I know that things will only get better and better for you.

*grins* so am I... So I am ;)
And yes, things will only get better... Much much better :p
 
Well... Last night was my first dungeon experience. It was truely awesome if not a bit overwhelming. I didn't play last night because Jen thought it to be a bit soon. Though I will probably play next Saturday. My vacation was extended by a week *grins*

The dungeon was awesome. Taking in all the sighs and sounds was awesome sensory overload, I might not have done too well if I was flogged or spanked. As my friend was being tended to I sat back and closed my eyes for a bit and just listened to the sounds of the dungeon, it was really awesome.

I got a flogger, it's made out of really soft and thin deer suede, I can't wait to have it used on me. I know that I will love it. It's just a little softer than the one that was used on me a few nights ago. It should be wonderfully exquisite.

Next Saturday I will be able to go to the fetish flea market too.
Trying to attach a picture of a flogger similar to mine...



http://www.toriwind.com/natural_doe_lg_02_sold.jpg
 
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Yes I've been as involved as possible and I'm just so glad that you are having good experiances with this. Yes I think next Saturday you will be able to play at the Dungeon. Hearing you has been an interesting experiance for me and I know you will find it so when I visit our dear friend and can have the same experiances.
 
JenJ said:
Yes I've been as involved as possible and I'm just so glad that you are having good experiances with this. Yes I think next Saturday you will be able to play at the Dungeon. Hearing you has been an interesting experiance for me and I know you will find it so when I visit our dear friend and can have the same experiances.

Yes, I am glad that you have been able to be involved in everything. Oooooh and I can't wait to play at PEP. I'm going to have 4 floggers completed by Saturday. Two hemp and two suede.

Umm Ummm Ummm.. I just might be here the whole time you are visiting with our dear friend. *grins* I can play with your hair and caress your face and make it that much more enjoyable for you as watch and listen.
 
Dustygrrl said:


Yes, I am glad that you have been able to be involved in everything. Oooooh and I can't wait to play at PEP. I'm going to have 4 floggers completed by Saturday. Two hemp and two suede.

Umm Ummm Ummm.. I just might be here the whole time you are visiting with our dear friend. *grins* I can play with your hair and caress your face and make it that much more enjoyable for you as watch and listen.

That would be amazing you'd be taking care of me as I was having my own first experiances and then we would so thank our dear friend.
 
JenJ said:


That would be amazing you'd be taking care of me as I was having my own first experiances and then we would so thank our dear friend.

Yes love, it would be truly amazing. I think it would make things that much more intense and amazing for you. And yes, we would thank her *evil grin*.
 
Dustygrrl said:


Yes love, it would be truly amazing. I think it would make things that much more intense and amazing for you. And yes, we would thank her *evil grin*.

Yes indeed and that would more intense then what we did last night *evil grin*
 
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