I'm getting married!

Well..actually remarried to the man I've been with my entire adult life.

The man that fits me perfectly..even while my neurotic, over analyzing self has taken over my body and he is facing a crazy woman whose completely sure she is always right.


Our relationship has gone through so many facets and changes.

We've grown..

Our old vows weren't said to each other by our current selves…
They we said by people who knew that they found the other..
But hadn't yet understood the reasons why.

Resentments build up around mandania..

And we stop knowing the person we are living with, sleeping in the same bed with..
Fucking..

I want to know my soul mate entirely..
Every angle and facet of his soul.
I want to watch him love his life.
I want to watch his soul grow.
I want to be completely honest…even the dirty parts.
I want to strive towards our life knowing that we can be true to ourselves and our set goals.

I want to marry the man he is today.

Our old marriage and with that..our old vows are concluding within our still never ending love story.

So on May 13th (the number of death, rebirth and progression) I'm getting remarried!



Has any one else ever do this?

Congratulations! What a cool thing to do.
Just recently celebrated our third wedding anniversary.
We have had such a tough time since we have
been together and he was quite ill when we married.
I have been thinking about doing this sometime in the future.
Enjoy May 13th and wishing you many many more years
of love and happiness together.

This is wonderful, my friend!

CONGRATULATIONS!

Oh Dhalgren, that is so cool! Congratulations on falling in love with the same man twice!

What a wonderful thing to do! Congrats, Dhalgreen. I hope to do the same one day, though I'm still too new at the marriage thing to contemplate re-taking the vows just yet.

That is such a wonderful thing to do! I wish you all the joy and happiness throughout your life now and after you are remarried!

That is so cool.Congrats!

This is my second proposal in a week. The Board really is infected with Spring Fever.

I'm so happy for you, baby.

Will anybody be there to witness?

Thank you all..
~smiles~

We've been married 14 years this October..
We were hand~fasted then married by the state with only a witness one year later.


This symbolic event is being taken with all seriousness, love and complete awareness…

Though I'm thinking I've got a week now to be single.

WhooHoo!

Now, what exactly do single people do?

They all sit around hoping for what you have, honeybunch. Congratulations!

Dhalgren, i offer my sincerest warm wishes for your continued walk through life - eyes wide open - with your soul's partner.

b.

Single?
So you wanna have a quick roll in the hay with a hung guy before you tie that knot?
PS. Very hot avatar

Awesome, Dhalgren! Congratulations on your wonderful relationship.

Isn't the AV awesome! Betty Paige right?

I'm so happy for you Dhalgren I'm almost jealous. Who am I kidding, of course I'm jealous. Hope to experience what you have someday.

I'm so glad that a handfasted relationship ended in a long-lasting, loving marriage. I wish you continued happiness and enjoy the re-nuptials!

Edited: Really enjoy that honeymoon!!!

congrats on your up coming remarrige.

Congrapulations...

I hope you to continue to change and grow together...

Congratulations!!

That's magic Dhalgren. Maybe all marriages should be renewable contracts; re-drafted ever 10 years or so?

Beautiful, Dhalgren. Congratulations on your continued love and partnership.

I feel da luv!

(And we're registered at Adult Toy Chest <g>...)

Freescorfr has a good point about renewable contracts. Jefferson said the same thing about government. I've always considered it an ironic shame that two of the most important things people ever do - entering a shared life and raising children - are things that require no license, no training, no testing, and come with no job description. Yet as ironic as that is, it's even more ridiculous when you consider that in most cases, these decisions are made by people when they're quite young, with little knowledge of how they, and the world, will change as time goes by. Young people are far too quick to say things like "forever" without having any idea what that means.

How much better the world would be if we could apply the renewable contract idea to *everything* - including our careers, for instance - every ten years or so. It's sad that people generally don't analyze their choices and options unless they're *unhappy* with them. Like the only way people will accept change is if it's to escape a bad situation.

Bottom Line: It's a fact that people change, their needs change, their roles change, and their capacities change. We should face that. We should not deny it. A relationship should be able to adapt as changes occur, to redefine itself, and to "amend the constitution" as changes occur. This "revaluation of all values" (to jack a phrase from Neitzche) allows us to set new goals and make new vows - *adult* ones - for the people we've grown up to become.

- mM

Bright Blessings to you both.

What a wonderful thing to do, Dhalgren. And you express it so eloquently, it's truly touching. Many congratulations to you both, and best wishes for a long and fulfilling life together. ~~!