submissives...do you get approaced by Dom/mes online?

If you get approached by Dom/mes online...what is the most pathetic line they use on you?

S'Real reality

I get it all the time...even when they know that I have a Master. And that I would never do anything to risk my relationship with him.

Most are stupid enough to think that I will obey whatever they order me to do...not likely. They do not own me...so why should I do anything that would go against my Master's wishes. I wouldn't...I have much too much respect for my Master.

Sorry but I can't remember one pathetic line...since I delete them from my memory

Too many
Too pathetic

I posted an excerpt from an e mail I recieved yesterday. If I shared the entire message, you would laugh hysterically.

Pathetic?

"lilone

Greetings from Master John. You will send me three photos of your face, pussy and breasts. You will phone me at 555 1234 in 15 minutes.

Your Master."

or

"Hi there

Can I spank you until you cum? You have been a bad girl!"

The second was from a young man with no experience or background. I shared some information and websites and sent him packing.

It's a jungle out there!

Sheesh,I must be doing something wrong.

I only get polite questions involving the lifestyle.

Oh I feel so left out... the first time I was approached was just the other day... He was polite and I told him my situation... and that was that... oh well.. sigh..

I have a beautiful submissive friend that was approached by a Dom online and in the third message He was instructing her to shave her pubic hair and mail it to him...I later heard He had quite a collection of pubic hair. It was his kink.
Luckily she realized that such a request from a Dom she did not belong to was pathetic and self serving.
It appears that the world is full of untrustworthy people on both sides of the D/s world.
Thank you all for participating in this thread.

No.
Never.

But then, i don't go to chat rooms so where would such an opportunity to be so openly propositioned come from? Here? I'm pretty sure anyone coming here would know better pretty quickly...~amused~

I do get some pretty good feedback from my stories, but it's only feedback, not propositions. I did, however, get one bit of feedback that made me aware that i have a standing invitation to some hot anal sex should i ever be in a place i never go and feel like availing myself of such a treat with someone i don't know.

I wish

Well being a Dom I never approach anyone online other than as possible freinds first.

I have found many online subs to be nothing but want a bees

I wish some female sub would approach me

I have been approached here at Lit a couple of times but it has always been done with respect and in the spirit of friendship first.

Desdemona said:

I have been approached here at Lit a couple of times but it has always been done with respect and in the spirit of friendship first.

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This is good to hear.

Some of the people I have PMed
and always with respect
acted like I invited them to be raped

Richard49 said:

This is good to hear.

Some of the people I have PMed
and always with respect
acted like I invited them to be raped

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I can't pretend to understand the responses you have had. That said, you never know what else is going on in someones's life or how that impacts the way they perceive what you have written to them. Perhaps some of them are very new to this and are frightened of the unknown. I remember feeling that way myself.

I only know that I have been treated respectfully and that when I have explained that I was not available, it was received graciously. I also have the security of knowing that I can always call on my Dom to help if I were to encounter someone who is reluctant to believe that I belong to another.

Well, i have been approached by several, thankfully most have been curtious and respectful, but there is always some moron who starts off with "On your knees bitch, you will suck my cock and allow me to watch you masturbate on your web cam" LOL yeah right buddy.

My AOL profile leaves little doubt as to what my kinks are and my level of interrest. It took a lot of tweaking to get it to that point.

Most of the "indications of interrest" that I now get sound as if the guy is a serious SM player and not just some wannabe. Of course, there are a few of them who still manage to filter through.

I am not available and IF (when) I become available, I know who I want. Circumstances simply don't lead me that way currently.

Typically, the greetings I get in IM is a simple hello or a response to something in my profile. If I spent lots of hours logged in as that pseudocharacter though, I am suer I would get lots of wierdos.

I do get lots of requests for my "website". (My profile states that I have piercings and that a picture is posted on the internet. That is here, of course.) I offer them directions that are detailed and failproof for anyone who will actually take the effort. It is a test of sorts. If the person wants to see my pussy rings, he has to make a bit of effort, I won't hand the picture over on a silver platter. (It also protects me, the person accesses the site himself and can't then report me for sending porn pictures.)

If the guy requests that I just send the picture, I tell him to follow the instructions. If he "requests" just the pic again, I tell him to get off his wife's computer and to grow up. Of course, it does depend on my mood and level of bitchiness.

Sheesh, this is too long--rambling here. Sorry folks. It's been a long week already.

getting hit on

Actually, not too much.

I chat in what could be called a "serious" BDSM room. That's not to say that there isn't a LOT of cybersex and public scenes going on, but I seem to have the reputation of being very serious, and thankfully, the trollers recognize that, and pretty much leave me alone. When it DOES occur, I tend to simply smile and decline.

I've been "caught" a couple of times despite my rather high radar scope, however. I tend to really like dealing with people who show their intelligence, and sometimes mistake that with a... mmm... higher level of sincerity -- stupid, I know.

The bad pickup lines that i *see* however, are legion, and easily forgotten.

I'm liking this place -- thanks!

dark whisper

I've been approached by some very kind and honest Dom's online, as well as the "get on your knees and submit to me" kind of Dom's. Those crack me up.

Sex & Diamonds said:

Those crack me up.

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Great attitude!

Though it's got nothing to do with BDSM, I get hit up online all the time. Lot's of email. Mostly it's because of my voice. I've got audio up and some get the notion that because they've heard my voice, they know me, and that I want to meet them.

A change in my profile solved that.

I went for a period of time wherein I had personal ads up at three sites.

Begging the pardon of anyone who feels differently, but bondage.com seemed to have that truck stop mentality. Just because I was there adn single, there was no end to the amusing or innane introductions.

Like KM, changing my profile from what I want to what I can't have solved many problems. In fact, I am seldom approached, gladly so.

My favorite messages were obviously "form letters" and often asked for "applications" of sorts. "Send photo, description of your likes and dislikes and your phone number to MasterAsshole@wannabe.com"

Yes, I have been approached in a very polite and genteel manner by many Dom's as well. I have made some wonderful freinds and gained experience and knowledge from them.

me i have found that a true Dom/me wont hit on a submissive. They know that our submission is a wonderful gift and if They are true to the lifestyle this will be respected and admired. the ones that hit on ya are wannabes and trolls so i just ignore them.
anna

anna_ said:

me i have found that a true Dom/me wont hit on a submissive. They know that our submission is a wonderful gift and if They are true to the lifestyle this will be respected and admired. the ones that hit on ya are wannabes and trolls so i just ignore them.
anna

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I agree !!!!!

I also agree that a true Domme will not approach a submissive in a derogatory manner, valuing the gift they give so honestly.

being hit on

only once...before I was officially collared by Mistress...when I was still in iowa....
but it was partly my fault for sending out a critic report to a storyline I had read through and this Domme wanted to know if I would be with Her...took me a week to get rid of Her...
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otherwise that was it....

ah well...my life never was that interesting...

mad dog/reg.#807385

Yes

I have been PM'd by wannabe Doms who expect that I would do whatever they told me just because they PM'd me. But, never on Lit. They even do it before I get into a chat room<which I don't do much at all>.

It's funny at times, but at other times I feel really uncomfortable even if I know that there is not much chance of them knowing or finding out who I am

Bump

I've gotten several bad, egotistical IMs while on-line and several good polite ones.

Let's see... some memorable ones.

"Let Daddy spank your naughty little ass."

"You will submit!"

And yes, I've gotten the ones that demand a/s/l with a picture. I don't know how they expect to be taken seriously.