Attention: All subs

As a sub what is it that you wish your Master or Mistress to do with you that hasn't been done yet? What is it that would give you even more chills and thrills that hasn't been done or what would like to be done again?

I rather enjoy the suspense and anxiety accompanied by not knowing what is going to happen or when.

Random phone calls, random directions, random acts of arousal are all very nice.

In terms of specific acts, I would hope that after some discussion and "negotiating", He would know my desires as well as my limits.

what do I want new?

welllllllll, you are reading stuff here from a complete idiot to start with. I have not yet had the opportunity to be with my Mistress in person....and though it will be soon....my one true desire, if it is ever permitted by Her....I have a taste for strapon training I enjoyed some time ago recently and I hunger to try it again.
it was quite a delicious feeling, the first time. I only imagine the next should be even moreso.
that's about it from me...the little inexperienced idiot that I am.

thank you for the chance to "air" this. been dying to tell someone...
drive careful out there,huh?

mad dog in iowa aka garylee
slave 'liz to Mistress Ann
owned/collared/reg.#807385

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iamaddog said:

welllllllll, you are reading stuff here from a complete idiot to start with. I have not yet had the opportunity to be with my Mistress in person....and though it will be soon....my one true desire, if it is ever permitted by Her....I have a taste for strapon training I enjoyed some time ago recently and I hunger to try it again.
it was quite a delicious feeling, the first time. I only imagine the next should be even moreso.
that's about it from me...the little inexperienced idiot that I am.

thank you for the chance to "air" this. been dying to tell someone...
drive careful out there,huh?

mad dog in iowa aka garylee
slave 'liz to Mistress Ann
owned/collared/reg.#807385

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mad dog, i felt i needed to post here.. i am also a "newbie" into this lifestyle, and i don't understand why you are calling yourself an idiot so many times.. you and i are learning, and for that, it is not considered being an idiot, but adding your experiences here, in the hopes of helping the rest of us out here that are feeling and going through the same feelings of inadequacy, and stupidity.. but, how are we to know, unless we ask questions of those that are more experienced, and us "newbies" need to help each other out.. to help us realize that we are not alone in our feelings, and doubts.. please quit being so hard on yourself, and continue to share your experiences with us, i for one, enjoy reading your posts, and wish you all the luck in the world with your new Mistress..... sierra

Well, after having given this thread more thought, a few little things that would "send a chill" might be:

~the leash and collar
~more intensive breast play than I have already experienced
~Perhaps a bit of strap on training? *blushing*
~I am a bit of an exhibitionist, but the details should be left for another time.
~lingerie shopping holds a lot of potential
~exploring the pleasure/pain threshhold is on going.

I am sure I will think of more.

Sierra,
Nice post and very appropriate. Feel free to post away pierced boy, but remember to do so with confidence and pride in who you are and what you need. This is a safe place.

Miss T

MissTaken said:

Sierra,
Nice post and very appropriate. Feel free to post away pierced boy, but remember to do so with confidence and pride in who you are and what you need. This is a safe place.

Miss T

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Thank you Miss T, for your kind words.. i only posted, because i too, felt the way mad dog does, felt i was asking "stupid" questions, and that no one here wanted to hear about my experiences.. but then, after reading some (groan) of the Mother thread, i realize that everyone has been where we are right now, not knowing who to believe, not knowing what questions to ask, and not knowing where to go from here... as i've read someplace (Lord only knows where, with all that i've been reading.. lol) there is no such thing as a stupid question. So, here i am, leaning on you wonderful people, and looking to you for guidance in finding the correct way to enter this exciting world... i thank all of you for being who you are. sierra

*smiles at Sierra*

Some of us are still there.

To all of you

To all of you who have replied . . . there are no "dumb" questions or desires or cravings. A good Mster will understand and try to make those things happen if he/she is truly interested in your needs and not just his. Miss Taken: I am sure that if your Master is reading your postings he will make them come true. To immadog, I am sure that Mistress Ann has some ideas in mind for you, if not have her pm me! The same for you sierramoon!

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fallon2 said:

To all of you who have replied . . . there are no "dumb" questions or desires or cravings. A good Mster will understand and try to make those things happen if he/she is truly interested in your needs and not just his. Miss Taken: I am sure that if your Master is reading your postings he will make them come true. To immadog, I am sure that Mistress Ann has some ideas in mind for you, if not have her pm me! The same for you sierramoon!

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Thank you for that fallon... i think all of us "newbies" are finally starting to realize what you say is true.
As for me, i have yet to be in a D/s scenario.. so, i look forward to all that it has to offer. i have found the right Master, or so i believe, i am just waiting for the time to be right to give myself to Him!! sierra

I don't have a master but some of the stuff I like:

Strap on
Facesitting
Humiliation
Chastisy type stuff

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SierraMoon said:

mad dog, i felt i needed to post here.. i am also a "newbie" into this lifestyle, and i don't understand why you are calling yourself an idiot so many times.. you and i are learning, and for that, it is not considered being an idiot, but adding your experiences here, in the hopes of helping the rest of us out here that are feeling and going through the same feelings of inadequacy, and stupidity.. but, how are we to know, unless we ask questions of those that are more experienced, and us "newbies" need to help each other out.. to help us realize that we are not alone in our feelings, and doubts.. please quit being so hard on yourself, and continue to share your experiences with us, i for one, enjoy reading your posts, and wish you all the luck in the world with your new Mistress..... sierra

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my thoughts on the post are, being a sub or Dom is a never ending learning process. Be it to the newbie or someO/one who has been in the lifestyle for 25 years. It is the same as the world as we know it. You never stop learning. Please, don't be so hard on yourself mad dog.

hard on myself

Please, don't be so hard on yourself mad dog.
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okay okay....you got me. I surrender. I am just trying to remind myself sometimes to try to stay humble. my pride has cost me to fall too many times in 40 some years. I pray for your forgiveness. I did not mean to get you upset at me. it is my reflex action..whenever I am in unfamiliar territory, it is best sometimes if I admit my ignorance than to assume I know more than I do.
it is just my way....so for you alone,....I will attempt to try to find a different way to show my humble side. I really apologize. it was a self-joke. better I put me down than someone else.
I surrender to you. I won't do it again. i promise..

forgive me?????



everyone take care out there....it can be scary in the streets...



searching for my holy grail.....

mad dog---in iowa.
where is this land called el dorado?????

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iamaddog said:

Please, don't be so hard on yourself mad dog.
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okay okay....you got me. I surrender. I am just trying to remind myself sometimes to try to stay humble. my pride has cost me to fall too many times in 40 some years. I pray for your forgiveness. I did not mean to get you upset at me. it is my reflex action..whenever I am in unfamiliar territory, it is best sometimes if I admit my ignorance than to assume I know more than I do.
it is just my way....so for you alone,....I will attempt to try to find a different way to show my humble side. I really apologize. it was a self-joke. better I put me down than someone else.
I surrender to you. I won't do it again. i promise..

forgive me?????



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There is no reason to forgive you. you did nothing wrong. There is also no need to put yourself down either. Don't worry about being too pridefull, or too humble. All that is needed is a little more confidence in yourself.

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Self confidence is vital... with poor self esteem it is easy to get involved with someone who is a bully, not a Dom or Domme. Establish a trusting honest relationship first before jumping into D/s. It can be dangerous or the most fulfilling growth experience ever. Your Dom(me) should know you so well, and negotiations so clear that the experience enhances your esteem, not destroys it... even in a Master /slave situation. The greatest gift you can give is yourself... you should be protected and appreciated for allowing someone else to share your personal power. Had a great experience this weekend... had written fantasies (as poems...soon to be posted)... one being "Airport Sex" and my Master loved them... we made them all cum true... yum yum... have the videos to prove it...





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fallon2 said:

As a sub what is it that you wish your Master or Mistress to do with you that hasn't been done yet? What is it that would give you even more chills and thrills that hasn't been done or what would like to be done again?

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i have been wanting to try knife play. i told my Master this recently. We are into many different forms of edge play and the mind games as well. Knowing my Master the way i do, (the way i never know what He has planned, and how far He will go) i am sure it would be a intense experiance. It is amazing how far He will go, and i never know how far He will go with each scene. The not knowing is such a high and keeps me on edge all the time.

Sadly, I don't have a Mistress, but Being forced to do things I really don't want to do, or even want to do. It's hard to think of one thing since I didn't try many things to go from there. I know this thread is for people who are actually active, but while reading it many of you said there is no dumb comments so I hope mine is not the first one. I'm trying to learn by reading, but I know once I have a Mistress, I'll get the training I need. Thanks.

Remember, litsam

Remember, litsam and others who may be reading this thread that if you do see yourself as a sub WHAT would you enjoy doing or having done to you by your Master or Mistress? If there is a Mistress looking for a sub consider litsam. Now, litsam, let me know if you get pm'd!

fallon2,

Thank you very much for the note. I will let you know. I'm trying to figure out what it the best way of finding a Mistress, or rather a Mistress finding me, and didn't think it was appropriate to post an ad
Mentally, the control is a turn on for me. Even the simplest things that I may do because I'm told to do them are very exciting. Which is funny because in real life I'm not like that at all, quite the opposite. On a physical side, to be teased over a long period, tied, and helpless. But even in person, the control would be a great aspect of it. I guess I get this intense pleasure from doing what I'm told, regardless what that may be. And with as little experience as I have, I really have to wait and try different things to see how I feel about them. I'm sorry, I don't have this clear picture of what exactly I want. And I suspect many didn't at first, I guess you try different things and go from there.

Thanks for letting me say this, I feel much better

To repeat and to try...

I am also new to this board. But not new to the lifestyle. There is so much that I would love to do with my Sir and for my Sir. And so many things that I would love to repeat.

A few things I would love to try and do again are: different types of exhibionist, more forced sex, roleplaying, being pierced while Sir is with me, knife play, collar and lead, more bondage, nipple clamps. But what makes me really excited is when I know that Sir is excited and is telling me what he wants...he sounds so sexy then.

But the main thing that I would love to do...is move more to 24/7. Unfortunately, that will not happen.

Someone controlling what i do is a HUGE turn on for me... even tho i have not practiced BDSM in r/l, i have role played it in the past... and LOVED it.... i have a pretty high pain tolerance (or so i think, amateur that i am), so i think i will enjoy the floggings, whippings, so on.. looking to get my nipples pierced soon, and i can't wait!!! Take care all.... sierra

i would love nipple clamps, collar and leash, public nudity and public displays, being given orders to remove underclothing in public, forced sex, being made to pleasure multple men, to be teased to the point of insanity, mmmm getting excited now and can't think LOL

would thrill me

I am new to this and am not yet fortunate to have a Master or Mistress. I would like either one or both. Here is scene that I pray happens to me someday:

I am stripped naked and taken to the dungeon or playroom. Once there I am either suspended in a harness or bound in some semi-comfortable position with leather cuffs, straps, chains or whatever. I am bound so securely that no matter how hard I struggle, I can't move an inch. This alone would be alot of fun. Next I am blindfolded and gagged with a ball or penis gag, or whatever else is suitable. The position I am in allows easy access by my owner to my cock and sissy butthole. This will be a "tease and denial" type scene. My owner will stroke my cock gently to get me hard. They will use a dildo, buttplug, vibrator or whatever on my butt. Through the stroking and "fucking" I am brought to the very edge of orgasm. Then, cruelly, the stimulation stops and I am left with no way to get off. Some verbal abuse and teasing would be very appropriate at this point. Either way, I am left to cool down before the next session begins. Again, I am brought to the point of climax and then left alone to simmer. My owner may leave the room for lengths of time leaving be wondering and hoping. This tease and denial could go on for hours and hours. If I happen to have a male owner, he may wish to use something very personal on my mouth and bottom. Something a sissy wimp like me truly deserves to have shoved in his mouth and up his ass. There may be sessions of tickling or light flogging or spanking throughout the day, further intensifying my pain, pleasure and shame. The verbal teasing should be creative and relentless. If I should need to pee I would be allowed to go into a bottle that my owner holds for me. When I get thirsty my gag can be removed and I can be given a large gulp of water, and maybe even a small gulp of my pee as well. To spend an entire day, or most of the day, in this predictament I think would be the most wonderfully exquisite torture.

Well, I am getting pretty hot. I better stop here. PM's and EM's welcome.

Originally posted by fallon2
As a sub what is it that you wish your Master or Mistress to do with you that hasn't been done yet? What is it that would give you even more chills and thrills that hasn't been done or what would like to be done again?

I haven't been with a real Master yet, tried to turn my Vanilla partners into Masters.. but if it's not there to start with, it will never be truly there!

What hasn't been done to me yet (and I'd love to experience it):
- Bondage
- Paddling
- Spanking
- Play with wax....
- Leash and collar

What has been done to me (and I'd love to enjoy it again):
- Flogging
- Whipping
- Clamps on my nipples and lower labia
- "Water plays"
- Fisting

I want to be blindfolded.

Alas but my dom likes to see my eyes so that wont happen anytime soon.

Perhaps one day in the future though.

Sometimes I long for my limits to be pushed farther. I have a curiosity about temp piercings and knife play but anything invasive bothers my partner. (weak tummy) I would also love to go to a play party and watch an experienced Dom/me at work.

I have discussed these things with my Honey and it just is not her thing. I guess I should be happy, she finds ways to push me without blood letting. She is very creative. This is just my newest obsession.