BDSM fetish wear

vogueboy

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I'm going to a fetish club next week. What can I wear that will be appropriate in a place mixed with singles, and partners? No collar I understand? Not thinking leather, but role play wear that speaks male sub.

Thanks in advance.
 
vogueboy said:
I'm going to a fetish club next week. What can I wear that will be appropriate in a place mixed with singles, and partners? No collar I understand? Not thinking leather, but role play wear that speaks male sub.

Thanks in advance.

It depends on what club you are going to... there will often be a lesser door charge for those dressed in "fetish attire" - male door charges may run much steeper than female... see club rules in what best to wear if you are concerned about following them.

P.S. If the fetish club is a public munch, probably best to dress down.
 
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lark sparrow said:
It depends on what club you are going to... there will often be a lesser door charge for those dressed in "fetish attire" - male door charges may run much steeper than female... see club rules in what best to wear if you are concerned about following them.

P.S. If the fetish club is a public munch, probably best to dress down.

Yes, I understand the cover-charge. And yes I understand the 'Strict Dress Code'.

My question is 'What type of fetish wear will denote me as a sub, as opposed to a dom? ie; a cop uniform usually denotes a dom. A nurse uniform is usually associated with a sub. Any suggestions will be helpful.

And unfortunatly, I don't own any leather/vinyl/PVC wear, at least for the moment.

Thanks again.
 
lark sparrow said:
I don't think it will be too hard.... try a collar with fishnets. ;)

MMmmmm, sounds interesting, even looks interesting when I picture it......

Thanks lark sparrow,

:rose:
 
Vogueboy, I am so glad you brought this up. I have been planning on going to a fetish club and was wondering what I could wear that would be appropriate. I mean, what do top's wear?

As usual, I can only answer for this top, but I am constantly attracted to dark black, hard lines and chrome accents.

Here's a picture of an outfit that makes me feel very dommish.

http://pic17.picturetrail.com/VOL785/2803812/5632597/78200628.jpg

Ironically enough, the girl in the picture continually tries to dominate me. I'm not sure if she just likes to rile me up or has genuine top tendencies, but putting down her little rebellions has become a fun game.
 
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You guys wouldnt believe how far I take that black and chrome thing, I'll put together a collage one day. Maybe I'll put it together with my pic thread.
 
Marquis, anything black and chrome and hard good archtitectural lines...well that would be a welcome sight for sore eyes in any fetish environment. And to me it suggests Top or extremely high-functioning alpha sub/switch types.
 
Good to hear. I've read on their website that "all black street clothes do not count as fetish wear".

Well damn, where the fuck am I supposed to shop? I'm not going in dressed like something out of 8mm.
 
Marquis said:
Good to hear. I've read on their website that "all black street clothes do not count as fetish wear".

Well damn, where the fuck am I supposed to shop? I'm not going in dressed like something out of 8mm.

This store is in FL too, Marquis. :)

Fetish Factory

Suitable for You Marquis, or you vogueboy. They cater to either E/end. ;)
 
Actually, this is minutes from where I live. I'll have to check it out one of these days.
 
Marquis said:
Good to hear. I've read on their website that "all black street clothes do not count as fetish wear".

Well damn, where the fuck am I supposed to shop? I'm not going in dressed like something out of 8mm.

This is addressed to the legions of weekend warriors who slide into a black polo and faded black dockers and think this cuts it. I am sorry you must suffer for their sins. You may have to cave in and get leather pants or a leather jacket. *sigh* Sometimes the best policy is to just show up and see what the door staff do.
 
Leather pants in South Florida!

Linens will have to cut it or I'll just have to get my kink elsewhere.
 
Marquis said:
Leather pants in South Florida!

Linens will have to cut it or I'll just have to get my kink elsewhere.

Hey, as a fashionista I agree! It's wrong!

As a fetishist, I say, sweat makes you strong. Rubber in Arizona!
 
Fishnet top makes it much cooler... Get vented pvc or vinyl pants. They make em.
 
I don't even like to wear polyester or rayon blends. I'll try to keep an open mind, but I really don't see myself in this stuff.
 
LadyNatasha said:
This store is in FL too, Marquis. :)

Fetish Factory

Suitable for You Marquis, or you vogueboy. They cater to either E/end. ;)

awesome link!!!!
I found a few things for M and I to look at :)


as far as denoting you as a free M sub, hm about about soft colors instead of dark? There is a "story of O ring" sells for about 15-22 depending on what site you look at, most of the bondage/kink friendly sites ship in a couple of days... can put that on your person somehow not on your left hand maybe?

A pink feather boa ? (j/k)
 
Marquis said:
I don't even like to wear polyester or rayon blends. I'll try to keep an open mind, but I really don't see myself in this stuff.


This may sound a touch odd ...*grin* But go by your local "Western Wear" outlet....
Though most of the stuff they have...No real cowboy would have been caught dead in..You might be surprised at some of the results you can attain..
One of my favorite shirts came from there...Black, long sleeve, with pearl snaps..Looks good with my leather pants and a set of good boots..
 
I feel pretty confident about my ability to put an outfit together. If they won't take me as the Versace Dom, they won't have me.
 
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