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kyarmyguy said:
Ya know.....I'm not everyone's "type" and I understand that....I'm good with that. I am a nice oerson and come here for interesting chat, to make a few friends (which I have) and to find women that I can please both mentally and physically. Now, I also know that the ratio of men to women is quite high and that when women come here they get bombarded with PMs....I got that too.

What I have a fucking problem with is that when I take the time to see someone online, read their profile, and do a little checking on their previous posts BEFORE I send them a PM and then DO NOT get a response from that person. I'm not just throwing darts at a dartboard when choosing which people to PM.....I do a little research first to find out what the interests of the person are and then make sure that I would be able to converse with them.

My PMs are not just "hey....wanna chat?". I describe myself and my reason for PMing. When the receiver is so fucking stuck on themselves to not feel the need to respond with something, it really irritates me. I'm not expecting a long drawn out bullshit story....a simple " thank you for taking the time to PM me, but I dont think we are compatible" would suffice.

Am I asking for or expecting too much? What the fuck?
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What an entitled little cunt you are.
 
kyarmyguy said:
Ya know.....I'm not everyone's "type" and I understand that....I'm good with that. I am a nice oerson and come here for interesting chat, to make a few friends (which I have) and to find women that I can please both mentally and physically. Now, I also know that the ratio of men to women is quite high and that when women come here they get bombarded with PMs....I got that too.

What I have a fucking problem with is that when I take the time to see someone online, read their profile, and do a little checking on their previous posts BEFORE I send them a PM and then DO NOT get a response from that person. I'm not just throwing darts at a dartboard when choosing which people to PM.....I do a little research first to find out what the interests of the person are and then make sure that I would be able to converse with them.

My PMs are not just "hey....wanna chat?". I describe myself and my reason for PMing. When the receiver is so fucking stuck on themselves to not feel the need to respond with something, it really irritates me. I'm not expecting a long drawn out bullshit story....a simple " thank you for taking the time to PM me, but I dont think we are compatible" would suffice.

Am I asking for or expecting too much? What the fuck?
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I understand the need to rant it is not always easy on forums to get the response you want.

But....have you ever thought the people you have PM'd wanted to be messaged by you?

Did they do some homework and see a post or two from yourself that they didn't like?

Read what you just wrote....would you want to converse with someone who wrote that??? You may have done more harm than good.


Just because you send a message does not mean everyone has to reply and I know it can seem like a thankless task writing time and time again and getting nothing in response but that's forums for you.

No one is entitled to a response and the ones you get count yourself lucky and enjoy yourself.
 
I can see your point. I try my best to reply even if its just a hi or thanks or hello. Even though some messages are so ridiculous for example " what are you wearing?" " Is your pussy wet ?" etc. Obviously I can't speak for other women but I'm also more inclined to reply if the sender has a profile or av pciture and some actual content and detail in their profile rather than almost nothing or the bare minimum.

Just read his profile and he's basically Mr Angry. Ironically there's not much in it either..

kyarmyguy said:
Ya know.....I'm not everyone's "type" and I understand that....I'm good with that. I am a nice oerson and come here for interesting chat, to make a few friends (which I have) and to find women that I can please both mentally and physically. Now, I also know that the ratio of men to women is quite high and that when women come here they get bombarded with PMs....I got that too.

What I have a fucking problem with is that when I take the time to see someone online, read their profile, and do a little checking on their previous posts BEFORE I send them a PM and then DO NOT get a response from that person. I'm not just throwing darts at a dartboard when choosing which people to PM.....I do a little research first to find out what the interests of the person are and then make sure that I would be able to converse with them.

My PMs are not just "hey....wanna chat?". I describe myself and my reason for PMing. When the receiver is so fucking stuck on themselves to not feel the need to respond with something, it really irritates me. I'm not expecting a long drawn out bullshit story....a simple " thank you for taking the time to PM me, but I dont think we are compatible" would suffice.

Am I asking for or expecting too much? What the fuck?
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Very rarely do i make first contact with women. For the simple reason they are probably swamped with messages from other guys. So my advice to you is put up an add, be yourself, be honest, be funny and the women who like what they read will get in touch....
If i for some reason, got numerous pm's everyday i'd probably get tired too. So just put up a nice add, and let the ladies pick :)
 
deskuser said:
I can see your point. I try my best to reply even if its just a hi or thanks or hello. Even though some messages are so ridiculous for example " what are you wearing?" " Is your pussy wet ?" etc. Obviously I can't speak for other women but I'm also more inclined to reply if the sender has a profile or av pciture and some actual content and detail in their profile rather than almost nothing or the bare minimum.

Just read his profile and he's basically Mr Angry. Ironically there's not much in it either..
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I did not even click on his profile until just now...boy oh boy he is really upset by the lack of response....or it's reverse psychology treat them mean keep them keen sort of thing but probably not.
 
Somewhere in the Asshat PM's th'd was a link to a great Jezebel.com article on vapid, entitled, "nice guy", cunts.

I suspect the OP would see himself being described to a T.
 
kyarmyguy said:
Ya know.....I'm not everyone's "type" and I understand that....I'm good with that. I am a nice oerson and come here for interesting chat, to make a few friends (which I have) and to find women that I can please both mentally and physically. Now, I also know that the ratio of men to women is quite high and that when women come here they get bombarded with PMs....I got that too.

What I have a fucking problem with is that when I take the time to see someone online, read their profile, and do a little checking on their previous posts BEFORE I send them a PM and then DO NOT get a response from that person. I'm not just throwing darts at a dartboard when choosing which people to PM.....I do a little research first to find out what the interests of the person are and then make sure that I would be able to converse with them.

My PMs are not just "hey....wanna chat?". I describe myself and my reason for PMing. When the receiver is so fucking stuck on themselves to not feel the need to respond with something, it really irritates me. I'm not expecting a long drawn out bullshit story....a simple " thank you for taking the time to PM me, but I dont think we are compatible" would suffice.

Am I asking for or expecting too much? What the fuck?
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Get an av, even if it is not a picture of you. Make it something comparable to this;

http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTVtRrRjCssS5sAAt4G4tptnbCH4zil6jYfSilRPSclZh9DXX4JDQ

Crop the photo, removing the head. It will appear as though you're some super hot guy on Lit, that is attempting to be incognito.

You'll get more responses than you ever had originally. If, for one second, these women believe that you're hot, they'll be opening their virtual vagina for grotesque banging of all sorts.
 
http://jezebel.com/5972788/no-one-is-entitled-to-sex-why-we-should-mock-the-nice-guys-of-okcupid

...These are young men who were told that if they were nice, then, as Laurie Penny puts it, they feel that women "must be obliged to have sex with them." The subtext of virtually all of their profiles, the mournful and the bilious alike, is that these young men feel cheated. Raised to believe in a perverse social/sexual contract that promised access to women's bodies in exchange for rote expressions of kindness, these boys have at least begun to learn that there is no Magic Sex Fairy. And while they're still hopeful enough to put up a dating profile in the first place, the Nice Guys sabotage their chances of ever getting laid with their inability to conceal their own aggrieved self-righteousness...
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Corbal said:
Get an av, even if it is not a picture of you. Make it something comparable to this;

http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTVtRrRjCssS5sAAt4G4tptnbCH4zil6jYfSilRPSclZh9DXX4JDQ

Crop the photo, removing the head. It will appear as though you're some super hot guy on Lit, that is attempting to be incognito.

You'll get more responses than you ever had originally. If, for one second, these women believe that you're hot, they'll be opening their virtual vagina for grotesque banging of all sorts.
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Wait!!!! People don't use their own faces or physique on their AVs what's next people lying about their sexual proclivities? This could bring literotica to its knees and not in a good way.
 
Ladies, you just have to take his word for it that he's a nice guy. :D

I don't post much anymore, my reasons for being here way back when are gone. I never had a problem making friends, but maybe that's because I didn't spend 98% of the the time in the Amateur Pic thread telling posters what I'd like to do to them like this guy. :rolleyes:
 
Maybe we need to start going easy on this guy.

He has had it rough, got a dose of the true reality of forums and private messaging.

We should be here for him, ready for a group hug and a "hey it is going to be okay"


Then again picking on him is a lot of fun.


I wonder if he is the type who watches porn and thinks that every woman is like that just hiding it from everyone else.
 
DriftWood75 said:
Maybe we need to start going easy on this guy.

He has had it rough, got a dose of the true reality of forums and private messaging.

We should be here for him, ready for a group hug and a "hey it is going to be okay"


Then again picking on him is a lot of fun.


I wonder if he is the type who watches porn and thinks that every woman is like that just hiding it from everyone else.
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omg rofl....you may be right!
 
Many PM's - perhaps the majority - are uninvited. I don't respond to most of these because (a) it would be too time-consuming and (b) I don't want to have to enter into a dialogue of explanation as to why I don't wish to communicate with someone. Frequently I PM someone and don't get a response, and I'm fine with that.
 
Helen46 said:
Many PM's - perhaps the majority - are uninvited. I don't respond to most of these because (a) it would be too time-consuming and (b) I don't want to have to enter into a dialogue of explanation as to why I don't wish to communicate with someone. Frequently I PM someone and don't get a response, and I'm fine with that.
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you can PM me anytime Helen ;)
 
sweetsauce said:
omg rofl....you may be right!
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Glad I can bring a small ray of sunshine your way.

Edited to say: this is best read in an non sarcastic way. Otherwise it makes me out to be a real are which I am not.
 
Porkwarrior said:
Hey I was only slightly depraved in my PM to you, where's my handjob!?!?!

;)
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There is your problem, only SLIGHTLY depraved, you needed to go totally depraved because that's what women want on here!

Not pleasant get to know one another, bit of banter, bit of innuendo chat that NEVER works.
 
Porkwarrior said:
Hey I was only slightly depraved in my PM to you, where's my handjob!?!?!

;)
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Verbally lashing someone in a forum is only slightly as fun as lashing otherwise. Handjob be damned--foreplay better involve blood.

But you're my Lit BFF. You crazy fucking horndog.
 
DriftWood75 said:
Maybe we need to start going easy on this guy.

He has had it rough, got a dose of the true reality of forums and private messaging.

We should be here for him, ready for a group hug and a "hey it is going to be okay"


Then again picking on him is a lot of fun.


I wonder if he is the type who watches porn and thinks that every woman is like that just hiding it from everyone else.
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LMAO! :D

Seriously though, when he's not commenting on pics, he's crying about not getting PMs. Not a whole lot of substance, even by the standards set here. :)
 
DriftWood75 said:
There is your problem, only SLIGHTLY depraved, you needed to go totally depraved because that's what women want on here!

Not pleasant get to know one another, bit of banter, bit of innuendo chat that NEVER works.
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You glib little thing, you. I would have been much more receptive to full on depravity. Cunning ferocity or nothing. It's the empty souls in search of a beaver to fill the void that gross me out.
 
MonCher said:
You glib little thing, you. I would have been much more receptive to full on depravity. Cunning ferocity or nothing. It's the empty souls in search of a beaver to fill the void that gross me out.
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Surely that should be filling the beaver not the void.
 
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