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Old 07-19-2014, 12:07 PM   #1
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She's never had an orgasm.

A friend recently confessed that his girlfriend has never had an orgasm. Not just not with him, but ever. He said she likes sex just fine, she just hasn't climaxed. Not through masturbation. Not through manual manipulation by others. Not with toys. Not with oral. Not with penetration. I just can't imagine. I sort of want to anonymously start sending her new toys, because surely she just hasn't found the right one yet. Right?
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Old 07-19-2014, 12:14 PM   #2
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She doesn't know what an orgasm is or refuses to admit she's had one for psychological or religious reasons, thats why she says that.

This isn't an uncommon thing.
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Old 07-19-2014, 12:17 PM   #3
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Unless there is a medical reason, like having the female orgasmic disorder, I am not buying she cant get herself off.
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Old 07-19-2014, 12:22 PM   #4
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Unless there is a medical reason, like having the female orgasmic disorder, I am not buying she cant get herself off.
My thought, too. He didn't divulge many details, and I don't know her well enough to start peppering her with questions, but he mentioned that she doesn't masturbate, as she doesn't get much pleasure from it. Sort of a self-fulfilling prophecy at this point.

I made him promise to buy her a Hitachi Magic Wand, and use it on her.
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Old 07-19-2014, 12:23 PM   #5
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I'm an accomplished sex surrogate who is very sensitive to the needs of my clients.

Have her contact me.

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Old 07-19-2014, 12:33 PM   #6
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I'm a creepy old weirdo who is very insensitive to the needs of my clients.

Have her contact me.
Fixed it for you.
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Old 07-19-2014, 12:54 PM   #7
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Fixed it for you.
What's really creepy is having almost a quarter of a million posts.

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Old 07-19-2014, 12:57 PM   #8
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Like your good pal AJ?
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Old 07-19-2014, 12:59 PM   #9
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there are meds that stop O as a side effect.
just before my period I can't O (which is a handy warning, actually).
some women cum from a pinched nip or a kiss,
others need a vibe like a sledgehammer and three hours alone.

personally, I think it's all much ado about nothing.
Os are grand, but I could happily live without.
hell, I sometimes forget to wank for months.

treating the woman like an issue is wrong.
and him turning it into an issue might kill her desire for sex.
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Old 07-19-2014, 01:05 PM   #10
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A friend recently confessed that his girlfriend has never had an orgasm. Not just not with him, but ever. He said she likes sex just fine, she just hasn't climaxed. Not through masturbation. Not through manual manipulation by others. Not with toys. Not with oral. Not with penetration. I just can't imagine. I sort of want to anonymously start sending her new toys, because surely she just hasn't found the right one yet. Right?

I have an ex like that. High sex drive, always up for sex, blowjobs in the back of cabs, creampies on my desk in the office, you name it. But nary an orgasm. Every few years she convinces herself to go see a therapist, but it has yet to help.

It's made her rather jaded because guys tend to leave her after awhile. Something about the male ego just won't let them accept the fact that their penis can't make any woman cum.
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Old 07-19-2014, 01:22 PM   #11
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A friend recently confessed that his girlfriend has never had an orgasm. Not just not with him, but ever. He said she likes sex just fine, she just hasn't climaxed. Not through masturbation. Not through manual manipulation by others. Not with toys. Not with oral. Not with penetration. I just can't imagine. I sort of want to anonymously start sending her new toys, because surely she just hasn't found the right one yet. Right?
Which is just a variation on the "she hasn't found the right man, yet."

There are women and men like this. The men are much less apparent because it's never likely to come up in conversation. There are women who don't have whatever it takes to get started. Something feels good and a little more feels better, until it gets real good and then it's over for a while

If you don't have the first feel good, there's nothing to push to the end. Some are aware they are missing something and don't really mind, other overcompensate by becoming enthusiastic lovers who concentrate on their partner's pleasure.
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I have an ex like that. High sex drive, always up for sex, blowjobs in the back of cabs, creampies on my desk in the office, you name it. But nary an orgasm. Every few years she convinces herself to go see a therapist, but it has yet to help.

It's made her rather jaded because guys tend to leave her after awhile. Something about the male ego just won't let them accept the fact that their penis can't make any woman cum.
They leave her for other reasons. She justifies their leaving her and blames it on her psycho no orgasm issues. Most men couldn't give two shits if a woman cums or not.

Why did you leave her?
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They leave her for other reasons. She justifies their leaving her and blames it on her psycho no orgasm issues. Most men couldn't give two shits if a woman cums or not.

Why did you leave her?

That's fucked up. You should have had better male role models growing up.
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That's fucked up. You should have had better male role models growing up.
Well...of course I wasn't talking about you Mr. Perfect. Ya know, the orgasm producing machine that you are.

Fuck off skezix.
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They leave her for other reasons. She justifies their leaving her and blames it on her psycho no orgasm issues. Most men couldn't give two shits if a woman cums or not.

Why did you leave her?
is this like when you said most men think about fucking 12y/o girls?
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Old 07-19-2014, 01:34 PM   #16
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is this like when you said most men think about fucking 12y/o girls?
I never once said that. I said something else about 12 year old girls that you objected too....1000 times already but it wasn't that.
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Well...of course I wasn't talking about you Mr. Perfect. Ya know, the orgasm producing machine that you are.

Fuck off skezix.

Go pop another viagra, grandpa. Guaranteed that's the only way you can get it up in your advanced age.
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I never once said that. I said something else about 12 year old girls that you objected too....1000 times already but it wasn't that.
actually, you did. whilst defending your other, even more vile, comment you voiced several interesting opinions. like that all pubescent girls think about is boys & cock.
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Most men not worth shit, probably.
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Old 07-19-2014, 01:41 PM   #20
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Old 07-19-2014, 01:42 PM   #21
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actually, you did. whilst defending your other, even more vile, comment you voiced several interesting opinions. like that all pubescent girls think about is boys & cock.
And I stand by that comment and in my opinion it is getting worse every day.
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Most men not worth shit, probably.
A man would have to have a lot of experience with other men, to make such an observation. I have no idea what he's talking about.
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And I stand by that comment and in my opinion it is getting worse every day.
it went nicely with this opinion.

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Of course the man will always be guilty when a couple 12 year old whores claim someone touched them.

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But you know as well as I do that every girl 12 to 17 has only one thing on their minds.

Boys, and Dick.
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Well I stand by that too sorry to say but thats the world we live in.

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Well I stand by that too sorry to say but thats the world we live in.

Aren't you glad I came back for a spell?

I would be glad if you died. moreso were it painful.
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