Originally Posted by njbiguy
All I want is someone who I can golf with a few times a year, get some
drinks with and fuck.
Do you have an adult book/video store near you that you can get to discreetly?
A met a guy there purely by accident. I was looking at the bi video section. He came over and we just started chatting. Now obviously, we both like bi men, so there was no secret as to what we wanted. Long story short, we exchanged email addresses (we both had a secret email that wives knew nothing about) and started communicating. We eventually decided to meet. We ended up being what they call 'friends with benefits'. Our cover story was that we met at a business function, so there was no question about us getting together for beers now and then.
Probably not going to happen quickly, but worth a shot