Old 02-17-2017, 02:43 PM   #1
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Finding a guy

I'm a married guy who has experimented with a couple of guys now. But those were one off situations. I have been trying to find someone to just be friends with benefits for a while now and I'm striking out.

I'm overly cautious, to a fault. My wife could never understand or know.

My perfect situation would be another married guy who is a little older - like 45-50. Who just wants to get together every. Ow and then.

Anyone have any tips on how I can find someone?

I'm not sure if this belongs here or the personal section. I assumed since I'm asking for advice it goes here. Apologies if I put it in the wrong place...... That's what he said!
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Old 02-17-2017, 03:02 PM   #2
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You'll find there are plenty of guys here who fit the bill... but none local
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Old 02-17-2017, 03:12 PM   #3
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Yep, same here but never local...

unless you're in Houston, there seem to be plenty of guys from Houston on the boards.
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Old 02-17-2017, 03:30 PM   #4
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Sad to say

but the previous two guys are right. Try living on a small island, off a large island, at the arse end of the world!
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Old 02-17-2017, 03:33 PM   #5
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Local isnít always perfect either. I would prefer accessible as opposed to living next door.
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Old 02-17-2017, 05:45 PM   #6
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All I want is someone who I can golf with a few times a year, get some
drinks with and fuck.
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Old 02-17-2017, 05:54 PM   #7
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I'm a married guy who has experimented with a couple of guys now. But those were one off situations. I have been trying to find someone to just be friends with benefits for a while now and I'm striking out.

I'm overly cautious, to a fault. My wife could never understand or know.

My perfect situation would be another married guy who is a little older - like 45-50. Who just wants to get together every. Ow and then.

Anyone have any tips on how I can find someone?

I'm not sure if this belongs here or the personal section. I assumed since I'm asking for advice it goes here. Apologies if I put it in the wrong place...... That's what he said!
I found a nice guy on silverdaddies.com
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Old 02-17-2017, 05:58 PM   #8
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All I want is someone who I can golf with a few times a year, get some
drinks with and fuck.
lol

Do you have an adult book/video store near you that you can get to discreetly?

A met a guy there purely by accident. I was looking at the bi video section. He came over and we just started chatting. Now obviously, we both like bi men, so there was no secret as to what we wanted. Long story short, we exchanged email addresses (we both had a secret email that wives knew nothing about) and started communicating. We eventually decided to meet. We ended up being what they call 'friends with benefits'. Our cover story was that we met at a business function, so there was no question about us getting together for beers now and then.

Probably not going to happen quickly, but worth a shot
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