Tease, denial, and pleasing girls while horny
After many years of a sexless relationship I am divorced and free to play. I have a few friends with benefits and have been having a great time.
My biggest passion is giving a girl a nice back rub and gentle oral sex. The kinky twist is adding tease and denial to the game. The hornier I am the more intense I seem to be able to please the girl. Trying to stay horny and not masturbate between play sessions is more than a challenge. So enter a chastity cage.
Finding a cage that fit me was a challenge. I am Shrek or Paul Bunyan sized. Now that I am out and playing after the divorce I have discovered that I need a larger cage too. I found a custom cage made of stainless steel at maturemetal.com. It is pretty comfy too.
So how does a date with a go? First she gets a back rub. And when she is ready oral she gets oral. And as she wants she plays with me. She gets me right on the edge of orgasm over and over. With often pauses for me to return to pleasing her. And when she is done playing and ready to snuggle the cage goes on. The next day it starts over again.
We did a few three day runs. And last week we did an 8 day thing. After 8 days on not Cumming and being teased she was having a lot of fun with me. She said I was incredibly intuitive about how I licked her. My orgasm day was a little like a Quaker Oatmeal delivery. Made waiting well worth it. For me the smile of a sated girl is an addiction. The girl seems to really enjoy having the key to my cage. Kind of a little power thing.
Now that I have learned to love this game and giving up my O’s to girl’s control, I am thinking after the friend with benefits moves on how do I find a girl in real life that enjoys this kind of kink? It seems that a web site like match dot com does not have a “ I am kinkier then a cheap garden hose button to check. So I am now wondering how long do you date or converse with a girl before you tell her what I want for a sexual game?
btw I am 53 and live in the North Metro Detroit area.
My stories about Teasing and Orgasm Denial. They show what I would be willing to do to please a lady.
Recently divorced free man ready to play. Please pm me.
Comments about my screen name:
I am the Trombone player.
Bone251 is for trom”Bone” and the 251 musical chord progression.
The name does not refer to my male anatomy.
Now as a Trombonist my tongue and lips are capable of playing four-hour gigs.
And that is useful on the Female anatomy.
Now for all of those ladies that though that the name bone was about my anatomy;
I like how you think.
And for all of those ladies that think strong lips and a strong tongue are a good thing;
I really like how you think.
The best part of sex is the touch of happiness.