Originally Posted by loneranger8921
If I were you I would join fetlife.com and look for a local munch or like minded person to consult with to find a suitable Dom to your needs. Every ones needs are different.
I second that excellent adivce. A local munch normally involves meeting like minded people in a bar in "vanilla" clothes and its a lot less intimadating than a full dress meet.
Ive tried collarme before and found it full of snobs and "professionals"
I wish you well in your search