Originally Posted by sweet1428
Thank you all for the kind words and advice. I will not be in contact with that online Dom anymore...for those of you who wanted to know! I really appreciate all the help, I still feel BDSM is something I'd like to learn more about and explore, but it'll probably be a slow learning process!
The mechanics of sex are simple. So simple, even animals get it right. It's not sex itself that makes things difficult, but humans you often need for the sex. When you add humans to anything, you get all the icky human things - jealousy, drama, egoism, insecurity, arrogance, ...
And the same is true for BDSM. What you need to learn about BDSM can be written on a single letter page. Learning about humans though is a learning process that never stops and the speed is more or less determined by the amount of humans you get in touch with.
You don't need to learn BDSM stuff, but the basic stuff about guys and their cock (or whatever they think with). My cents.