"Cumming on empty"

I wanted to post about a conversation my wife and I had about the times that I have been able to cum not only a second time but a third, fourth and even on very rare occasions a fifth time within just a couple of hours time. For me, I find that I have to be really aroused and/or need ALOT of stimulation to achieve any additional orgasms after I cum for the second time but when I do it feels amazing but almost nothing actually comes out.

For me, under normal circumstances when I cum for the first time, a fair amount of cum is produced, and it feels anywhere from good to great and can last varying amounts of time.

I am usually able to get aroused for a second round and its not at all difficult for me to be able to orgasm a second time. For me when I cum a second time I find that much less cum is ejaculated and that my orgasm is shorter and less intense than the first.

However when it come time for the third (and beyond), I find that it really takes a good bit to get me aroused again and it is much more difficult to reach orgasm again, usually requiring quite a bit of stimulation once I am to bring me to orgasm, which takes much, much longer to reach.

Once I am finally able to orgasm for that additional time though I find that the my orgasm lasts longer, often a good bit longer than even the first orgasm of the evening, and the pleasure is almost blindingly intense although almost no cum actually comes out.

So when my wife asked me to describe what it felt like, the best that I could think of was that I was simply "cumming on empty". The muscles, already having had a workout repeatedly, were trying even harder to "Shoot" but nothing was left in the tank.

For lack of a better comparison when trying to explain further, I likened it to having the "Dry Heaves" while sick, which during the few times I've had the misfortune of experiencing them, I've found to be far more intense (and horrible) than even just losing the contents of my stomach as my body was trying so hard to purge something that wasn't even there any longer.

It's very similar for me when I'm "Cumming on Empty", the main difference being that it feels amazingly intense and pleasurable instead of horrible. The times that I've been able to have the third, fourth and fifth orgasms within a relatively short time-frame, they are all about as equally intense and long lasting.

I was curious if anyone else or their spouse/significant other has had similar experiences while "cumming on empty" and how those additional orgasms might be different for others than they are for me. If so, please share!

Regards,
creampieluvr79

cpl, do you know that you are one HELL of a fortunate dude? the physical and emotional well-being you enjoy, together with a woman to die for ... I love it.

Through our twenties and thirties my woman [who I would die for] had 'had enough' once we both, or sometimes just me, had climaxed, so I never got to try my capacity for what you're on about. By the time we were turning 40 she had this whole new zest for follow-on action after her first orgasm, but by then my recovery time for another erection was like 90 minutes at least, so it was 'sex again later' rather than what you're talking about. What has delighted me in more recent years is my ability to hold off cumming at all until after I've taken her through a series of climaxes.

Si

How interesting. The first thing I thought of reading this is, your "dry" orgasms sound like what a woman experiences in her orgasms....that "dry heave" analogy you gave, only feeling pleasure, is apt in this case. Like your sexual parts and feelings and nerves are collapsing in on themselves and then exploding outward with incredible intensity. Multiple orgasms in one "play session" can range from increasingly intense to pleasantly waving, but the ones I have to realllly work for, say maybe orgasm 3 or 4, do tend to be quite explosive like what you're describing. It makes me wonder something that can never be known, and that is how female orgasms differ from male orgasms, and if that holds true for numbers 2, 3, 4 and on down the line.

I look forward to hearing what other guys think about this, because I imagine many men just stop after one, or maybe two, or if they're 19, three. Maybe it's worth it to experiment and see if number 3 or 4, if "cumming on empty", is worth the work to seek, at least part of the time. If it is, I'm putting on my safety glasses and going for it with my guy.

In my thirties I enjoyed a threefer...it was the only time. All wet. Was a big surprise to me. Those years long gone, I can still enjoy several orgasms in a day, just not in one session.

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I've expierenced mulitle orgasm like this many times when younger. When in high school and college I always used a condom with my lovers during the first or second orgasm. After that-I knew I was safe-and pulled the condoms off going barback the rest of the night. I agree with dark lisa-it's orgasming without anything cumming out except a drop of clear semen. Your balls and cock still twitch. It also hurts later if you should get another erection in the afternoon.

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61 m here that likes to jack. once in a while i get a really horny day while reading porn and jack 3-4 times. by the 4th time i cum with only a couple drops left in me. the orgasm feels good but no mess lmao. after the 4th time though it's nap time.

Its an art

I remember reading about an east indian technique, that invloved using the muscles in your croutch, to stop the spunk from shooting. A sort of clenching of the muscles the ones you use when you want to try and stop a pee. I can clench my cock muscles and sort of make my cock go through the motion of sexual enjoyment with out touching it. The more I do it the more I become aroused.

The same technique can be used to stop your spunk from shooting out, you still have an orgasm, but no sperm is released, it goes back ito the sack. Its possible to do this with practise several times. But its not good to store staial sperm inside you, as its unatural. It is also possible to put a finger under your cock, roughly toward yur ass hole and press a place to stop any spunk from shooting, it blocks the tube.

I cant help it, I just like to cum. But now a days it does take a while for me to cum, means I can fuck longer which the "girls" seem to like. Some times when I am am excited after writting or reading some erotica, its difficicult to get a hard on. But with some fast friction I am able to cum when my cock is limp.

I am good for two, but each successive orgasm has less fluid. Usually I dont get to two as the wife has had enough of her own. I usually an happy with one as the sex is far and few between.

suckonsimon said:

cpl, do you know that you are one HELL of a fortunate dude? the physical and emotional well-being you enjoy, together with a woman to die for ... I love it.

Through our twenties and thirties my woman [who I would die for] had 'had enough' once we both, or sometimes just me, had climaxed, so I never got to try my capacity for what you're on about. By the time we were turning 40 she had this whole new zest for follow-on action after her first orgasm, but by then my recovery time for another erection was like 90 minutes at least, so it was 'sex again later' rather than what you're talking about. What has delighted me in more recent years is my ability to hold off cumming at all until after I've taken her through a series of climaxes.

Si

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I try to remind my wife how lucky I am to have found her as often as I can.

I first discovered the ability to cum multiple times in just a few hours time as a teenager while using the "Self service pumps" so to speak, and as is typical for the age, had a quicker recovery time and needed much less stimulation to attain each orgasm, including the additional ones.

These days, being in my early thirties, I'm not able to recover as quickly as I could as a teenager but I can usually be ready for round 2 within about 10-15 minutes of my first orgasm. Getting aroused again for a third and then fourth round usually takes around 15 minutes or possibly a little more, although if my wife is doing anything "special" I can be raring to go a little sooner.

Also, while I can have sex a third or fourth time once I'm aroused, I find that it really takes VERY long time to reach that additional orgasm through vaginal sex. My wife however, can quite easily bring on that additional orgasm either by giving me a BJ or even a hand-job which she will sometimes augment by using her Hitachi Magic Wand on the underside of the tip of my penis while she works her hand on my shaft, a combination which provides MORE than enough stimulation to bring on that next orgasm. All I can say to that combination is WOW, after she did that to me the first time, I can definitely appreciate why she (as well as so many other women) enjoy using a one so much!

Also, sometimes after my wife and I have each cum a couple of times we enjoy masturbating for each other, during which I don't find much difficulty in bringing on that third or fourth orgasm...

DarkLisa said:

How interesting. The first thing I thought of reading this is, your "dry" orgasms sound like what a woman experiences in her orgasms....that "dry heave" analogy you gave, only feeling pleasure, is apt in this case. Like your sexual parts and feelings and nerves are collapsing in on themselves and then exploding outward with incredible intensity. Multiple orgasms in one "play session" can range from increasingly intense to pleasantly waving, but the ones I have to realllly work for, say maybe orgasm 3 or 4, do tend to be quite explosive like what you're describing. It makes me wonder something that can never be known, and that is how female orgasms differ from male orgasms, and if that holds true for numbers 2, 3, 4 and on down the line.

I look forward to hearing what other guys think about this, because I imagine many men just stop after one, or maybe two, or if they're 19, three. Maybe it's worth it to experiment and see if number 3 or 4, if "cumming on empty", is worth the work to seek, at least part of the time. If it is, I'm putting on my safety glasses and going for it with my guy.

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I've honestly never though about the "dry" orgasms possibly being more like what a woman experiences so that was really hot to think about.

My wife typically can have a second and even third orgasm fairly easily after her first, although they are typically less intense but like you described, she can have additional orgasms that we really have to "work for" in order for her to reach. The results of those are often more intense for her than any of her earlier orgasms as well.

I too can't wait to hear from others on this.

p.s. - Best of luck with the safety glasses!

htobeme5 said:

I've expierenced mulitle orgasm like this many times when younger. When in high school and college I always used a condom with my lovers during the first or second orgasm. After that-I knew I was safe-and pulled the condoms off going barback the rest of the night. I agree with dark lisa-it's orgasming without anything cumming out except a drop of clear semen. Your balls and cock still twitch. It also hurts later if you should get another erection in the afternoon.

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I find that when I cum multiple times, especially with a fourth and fifth orgasm, I have lingering muscle soreness, not really painful as you described when getting another erection, merely a pleasant reminder of what caused the soreness... It's like what I consider to be that pleasant soreness you have after having a good workout, the only difference being, it's a different set of muscles that got a good workout!

I sometimes find it extremely difficult to wipe the silly grin off my face the next day while I'm at work as that pleasant soreness provides a steady reminder of the events of the previous evening...

Females have all the luck, they can have multi orgasms, where as us humble males have to wait to recover.
I have to pace my self, but it does take me ages to cum now a days.

One time, I must have nutted like 7-8 times over a 2 day period... The last time I nutted, all that came out was blood.

DarkLisa said:

How interesting. The first thing I thought of reading this is, your "dry" orgasms sound like what a woman experiences in her orgasms....that "dry heave" analogy you gave, only feeling pleasure, is apt in this case. Like your sexual parts and feelings and nerves are collapsing in on themselves and then exploding outward with incredible intensity. Multiple orgasms in one "play session" can range from increasingly intense to pleasantly waving, but the ones I have to realllly work for, say maybe orgasm 3 or 4, do tend to be quite explosive like what you're describing. It makes me wonder something that can never be known, and that is how female orgasms differ from male orgasms, and if that holds true for numbers 2, 3, 4 and on down the line.

I look forward to hearing what other guys think about this, because I imagine many men just stop after one, or maybe two, or if they're 19, three. Maybe it's worth it to experiment and see if number 3 or 4, if "cumming on empty", is worth the work to seek, at least part of the time. If it is, I'm putting on my safety glasses and going for it with my guy.

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I don't think there's much reason to believe male and female orgasms would be that much different. Men and women come from the same set of parts and then get modified a bit by the different levels of androgens and estrogens. It's even possible to be born looking like the wrong sex for your chromosomes if things get fucked up. There's also the whole issue of men and women writing about their orgasms without mentioning their private parts by name. Readers can't guess whether the writer is male or female with any certainty.

As far as multiple orgasms, though, I'm a guy and have had as many as 12 in a day.
From what I've seen they continue to follow the same pattern described by the earlier guys even when you hit the double digits.

Never got past three and I was pretty sore and sensitive by then. Might be work a try to push on through if the orgasms are more intense. In my experience the later orgasms are limited to no cum and diminished pleasure.

Trolltroll420 said:

One time, I must have nutted like 7-8 times over a 2 day period... The last time I nutted, all that came out was blood.

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If that happens you need to see a doctor right away.

infinity706 said:

I don't think there's much reason to believe male and female orgasms would be that much different. Men and women come from the same set of parts and then get modified a bit by the different levels of androgens and estrogens. It's even possible to be born looking like the wrong sex for your chromosomes if things get fucked up. There's also the whole issue of men and women writing about their orgasms without mentioning their private parts by name. Readers can't guess whether the writer is male or female with any certainty.

As far as multiple orgasms, though, I'm a guy and have had as many as 12 in a day.
From what I've seen they continue to follow the same pattern described by the earlier guys even when you hit the double digits.

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I get all that, and I get that at a basic level it's the same process of engorgement, etc. but I have to believe that having those different body parts affects how the orgasm actually happens at some level. Perhaps someone who has a penis and a vagina who orgasms with both could tell us. JMO.

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I get all that, and I get that at a basic level it's the same process of engorgement, etc. but I have to believe that having those different body parts affects how the orgasm actually happens at some level. Perhaps someone who has a penis and a vagina who orgasms with both could tell us. JMO.

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The hormones likely have more to do with it. From what I've been told by the limited number of transexuals I've talked to about it, the main differences are that it's easier to cum with the male hormones and female to males tend to become squirters since the squirting parts would develop more. Of course, it also helps that orgasms are more the result of the release of endorphins into the blood and pelvic floor muscle contractions, not any part that changes a lot between men and women. (well, pelvic floor muscles do change during pregnancy, but I've never heard any woman comment that her orgasms are much different when she's pregnant)

As far as a penis and a vagina, that would be almost everyone. Women just have the world's smallest cocks and guys have their vaginas inside the ball sacks. It's even called a tunica vaginalis. It divides in two and keeps those balls all nice and moist and it grows and shrinks with blood flow and pressure just like in women.

I plan on at least 3 tonight. The better half has made me promise not to cum . Its been 5 days and she has stroked me and teased me for about a hour every night. I get right to the point of cumming and she just stops and walks away.

The teasing has been fun. She has me to the point i smell a womens perfume or hear a high heel clicking i get hard.

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I plan on at least 3 tonight. The better half has made me promise not to cum . Its been 5 days and she has stroked me and teased me for about a hour every night. I get right to the point of cumming and she just stops and walks away.

The teasing has been fun. She has me to the point i smell a womens perfume or hear a high heel clicking i get hard.

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That is some edge to be on! At the right moment tonight then ... Enjoy big time.

I knowshe did this before for 8 days. She is hot and dresses sexy for the office so every night she would come home kick her heels off and ruber her nylon feeet on my cock till i was ready to cum.

I cant desribed how i feel other than on the brink of exploding in my pants.

Vermontguy said:

I knowshe did this before for 8 days. She is hot and dresses sexy for the office so every night she would come home kick her heels off and ruber her nylon feeet on my cock till i was ready to cum.

I cant desribed how i feel other than on the brink of exploding in my pants.

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I tell you, that hot lass must be gagging for the explosion. I'd say she owes it to you that it's exactly where and how you want it. In London we have pearly queens you know. Tonight, Vermont.