How to find an extra

[lifeonend]

My girl and I are in for the long haul, but have decided that it may be fun to try out an extra girl in the mix before marriage and kids and everything gets too serious to have that kind of fun lol.
I was wondering if anyone had tips on approaching someone to be our "player to be named later" all advice accepted!

[NightL]

Originally Posted by lifeonend

ICT I feel hard for a beautiful friend of mine, and as I did she decided that she couldnt care any less. And, that I have no idea how to move past it all

so is this why you are looking for advice? Why don't you just get your girlfriend to talk to her - you know - before marriage and kids and everything gets too serious...

[NightL]

So the guy who started the "IL fuck buddies - Post your screenname and location if you live in IL. (souther part or anywhere in IL for that matter)" thread and your offering your details indicatess you are into guys as well.
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=606361

Maybe you should ditch the idea of finding an extra girl - just go with the guy since he is already asking - maybe your girl would like that even better? You know - watch you boys hit it off together first.

[dougsan]

How I would go about finding THAT second female: ask all my previous first females. If they were with me for any time then they open to the concept.

Otherwise, just ask people you and your girl KNOW YOU CAN TRUST. I would not connect with a stranger. Too much risk today.