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03-03-2013, 05:55 AM
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Doubledribble is offline
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the last straw
After 30 years of marriage tonight was the last straw.
I took a shower (her soap,..she thinks mine smells "off ") shaved. Crawled in bed and just tried to hold her. She just informed me that we are not going to have sex....I asked her now or forever. No answer.it has been 5 years without intamacy.
I am done with this. Life is too short.
Sorry for the rant.
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03-03-2013, 06:01 AM
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Really Really Experienced
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Well, literotica is a good outlet, i wish you the best
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03-03-2013, 06:14 AM
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Still in the light of day
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Doubledribble
After 30 years of marriage tonight was the last straw.
I took a shower (her soap,..she thinks mine smells "off ") shaved. Crawled in bed and just tried to hold her. She just informed me that we are not going to have sex....I asked her now or forever. No answer.it has been 5 years without intamacy.
I am done with this. Life is too short.
Sorry for the rant.
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 I'm sorry....going without any kind of touching can be brutal.
Cyber hug (((((((((((doubledribble)))))))))))  |
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03-03-2013, 06:20 AM
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A Hedonistic Allurist
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Doubledribble
After 30 years of marriage tonight was the last straw.
I took a shower (her soap,..she thinks mine smells "off ") shaved. Crawled in bed and just tried to hold her. She just informed me that we are not going to have sex....I asked her now or forever. No answer.it has been 5 years without intamacy.
I am done with this. Life is too short.
Sorry for the rant.
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I totally understand, do you still love her?
It happened to me 15 years ago, I still honestly love her, shes the woman I married, she just went off sex. I thought all sorts of things. Has she found another man, aonther woman, am I a loosy lover. Then her best friend said to me, shes a stupid woman, and she told me that she had always fancied me.
so we became lovers. Since then we meet when we can, and I troll the internet looking for others who want to please me , or let me please them and fullfill their desires. |
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03-03-2013, 07:11 AM
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I do but enough is enough. Time to try finding happiness for me.
Thank you all for the kind words
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03-03-2013, 07:35 AM
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So after 5 years of not having sex, you thought changing soaps would do the trick? Now that is a positive attitude!  |
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03-03-2013, 08:14 AM
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Originally Posted by zimy
So after 5 years of not having sex, you thought changing soaps would do the trick? Now that is a positive attitude! |
You are pretty dense if you think that is all there is to it..
You deserve a sexless marriage. |
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03-03-2013, 10:07 AM
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Originally Posted by talikat
I'm sorry....going without any kind of touching can be brutal.
Cyber hug (((((((((((doubledribble))))))))))) |
i can relate,i was married for 6 yrs to a black gal,a preacher daughter and we had sex 2 times a yr,mt birthday and hers. the sad thing i dident know ant better till after i had seen my first porn movies and wanted to try oral,then the divorce lol |
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03-03-2013, 10:26 AM
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DD, I am sorry for what you're going through and totally understand your rant. I hope you'll talk to her before making any permanent decisions. Try to find out if something else is going on, if she has physical reasons or depression, etc...Be completely honest that at this point the lack of intimacy is a deal breaker. If after that, and perhaps some time trying to work on it, things don't improve, you won't have to feel guilty or wonder if you should have tried harder before moving on.
P.S. You're so right, life is way too short .... even with the deepest love sometimes it's not enough and you have to try to find more for yourself..... Hang in there.
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03-03-2013, 11:09 AM
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Since you decided to air it out here, what is the full story
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03-03-2013, 12:37 PM
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Originally Posted by DarkLisa
DD, I am sorry for what you're going through and totally understand your rant. I hope you'll talk to her before making any permanent decisions. Try to find out if something else is going on, if she has physical reasons or depression, etc...Be completely honest that at this point the lack of intimacy is a deal breaker. If after that, and perhaps some time trying to work on it, things don't improve, you won't have to feel guilty or wonder if you should have tried harder before moving on.
P.S. You're so right, life is way too short .... even with the deepest love sometimes it's not enough and you have to try to find more for yourself..... Hang in there. |
Thank you Lisa
We have been down that road. I almost left her about 7 years ago over the same issue. I have done what I can and it is over.
She is planning to movve out as of this morning. Just need to finalize this and get on with my life. |
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03-03-2013, 12:47 PM
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Experimental experimentor
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Originally Posted by Doubledribble
Thank you Lisa
We have been down that road. I almost left her about 7 years ago over the same issue. I have done what I can and it is over.
She is planning to movve out as of this morning. Just need to finalize this and get on with my life.
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Sorry to hear, I hope you both find happiness wherever life takes you x |
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03-03-2013, 01:12 PM
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Sorry to hear, I hope you both find happiness wherever life takes you x
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Thank you.
I am sure my happiness will be found again.
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03-03-2013, 03:13 PM
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Literotica Guru
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Good luck honey. You deserve more. I hope you find it.
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03-03-2013, 03:29 PM
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Best of luck to you. May tomorrow be DAY 1 of the new you in your new life  |
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03-03-2013, 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Doubledribble
You are pretty dense if you think that is all there is to it..
You deserve a sexless marriage.
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A lot of men go through this with Menopausal Women. I think it is grounds for divorce here if there is no medical reason for it |
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03-03-2013, 04:16 PM
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Best of luck to you. May tomorrow be DAY 1 of the new you in your new life |
I'll second that. Good luck for your future. |
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03-03-2013, 04:50 PM
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* der Weisheit
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Doubledribble
After 30 years of marriage tonight was the last straw.
I took a shower (her soap,..she thinks mine smells "off ") shaved. Crawled in bed and just tried to hold her. She just informed me that we are not going to have sex....I asked her now or forever. No answer.it has been 5 years without intamacy.
I am done with this. Life is too short.
Sorry for the rant.
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Don't be sorry for the rant. Rant as much as you want (and need).
I am sorry for you and hope you find luck again.
*huggs you*
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03-03-2013, 04:50 PM
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Squeaky clean!
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I wish you all the best - I know what it's like.
Life isn't a rehearsal. I hope you find happiness.
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03-03-2013, 05:01 PM
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Nice guy - dirty mind
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Don't look back with regret and just embrace the whole new world of opportunity ahead of you!
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03-03-2013, 05:08 PM
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Literotica Guru
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Don't look back with regret and just embrace the whole new world of opportunity ahead of you!
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Sounds like the voice of experience there! Good advice! |
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03-03-2013, 05:42 PM
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Originally Posted by dutchrain
Don't be sorry for the rant. Rant as much as you want (and need).
I am sorry for you and hope you find luck again.
*huggs you*
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What are you waiting for....a gold plated invitation?
Last bumreal
This is for real. If llyou want real pm me
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03-03-2013, 10:45 PM
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Little Red Riding Boobs
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*edit* my point is made, and apologies to those who thought I was judging people in general.
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03-03-2013, 11:06 PM
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Awww. Isn't that awful? Yes, let's hear about the WHOLE story. How many online affairs, played out in public? How many women have you told "as soon as I find the right woman, I'll leave my wife?" How many personal ads have been placed? Your story sounds VERY familiar. I wonder why?  |
A very wise lady indeed.
It does take two to create a confrontation, so as stated, I am sure there are many unstated circumstances.
If "couple" would not be so quick to place blame on the other, there would be much more amicable departures.
Always remember, there was a reason for the marriage in the firsts place, things change, people change but blame should be shared in most cases.
Just my meandering thoughts.
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03-04-2013, 04:27 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by JennyNo1
Awww. Isn't that awful? Yes, let's hear about the WHOLE story. How many online affairs, played out in public? How many women have you told "as soon as I find the right woman, I'll leave my wife?" How many personal ads have been placed? Your story sounds VERY familiar. I wonder why? |
I will admit that this has been coming for some time. I would not be so cynical as you. An old story. Lol.
It is new to me. You are really destined to be alone forever. Roll your eyes somewhere else. |
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