The Orgasm Gap

[sr71plt]

Originally Posted by Stella_Omega

Projection, thy name is Pilot.

Focus, Stella. You've chosen to knock this thread off course. Remedial education. The subject is the remedial education you said I needed. You brought it up. Specify. Just going off on personal attacks doesn't answer that question.

[Stella_Omega]

Keep stewing, Stewie.

[Safe_Bet]

Originally Posted by sr71plt

Focus, Stella. You've chosen to knock this thread off course. Remedial education. The subject is the remedial education you said I needed. You brought it up. Specify. Just going off on personal attacks doesn't answer that question.

Do they offer remedial education classes on how not to be such a male chauvinistic, pissy, little douche dribble?

You prolly need to start there, Pilot.

[Stella_Omega]

Originally Posted by Safe_Bet

Do they offer remedial education classes on how not to be such a male chauvinistic, pissy, little douche dribble?

You prolly need to start there, Pilot.

he's not so much a male chauvinist as he is a personal chauvinist. Pilot himself is the scale upon which everyone shall be measured.

Of course the fact that he portrays himself so consistently as a pissy little douche dribble makes that scale pretty laughable to the onlookers.

So, back to orgasms, and the relative ease of having them... My hetero friends, have you never known a man who had trouble coming? I know they exist.

[sr71plt]

And that, friends, is known as sidestepping when you've been caught in misbehavior you can't rationalize or justify.

[Stella_Omega]

I defended you from the charge of sexism, didn't you even notice?

[sr71plt]

No one here ever needs a defense against anything that Safe-bet Usurper chews on their arm about.

[Stella_Omega]

Originally Posted by sr71plt

No one here ever needs a defense against anything that Safe-bet Usurper chews on their arm about.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection

[sr71plt]

Always the Mother Superior--in her own mind. (And always has to define everyone else)

So, since you're going to be a terrier (as always), back to "what remedial education"?

[Stella_Omega]

Originally Posted by sr71plt

Always the Mother Superior--in her own mind. (And always has to define everyone else)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection

[sr71plt]

Umm. I think your needle is stuck. OK, so's mine. What remedial education?--and do you have any more of them thar hypocritical gender bashes you want to lash me with in the hopes I'll collapse into a puddle of tears?

[Handley_Page]

Ye gods !
Pilot; please stop winding them up ? Really: Please?


Stella: Psychological projection:
" . . . where a person subconsciously denies his or her own negative attributes by ascribing them to the outside world instead.". .

Is that what Dyslex may be suffering ?

[sr71plt]

I can't help it. Safe/Dys are (is?) so screamy crazy and Stella is so hypocritically smug.

[Safe_Bet]

Originally Posted by Stella_Omega

he's not so much a male chauvinist as he is a personal chauvinist. Pilot himself is the scale upon which everyone shall be measured.

Of course the fact that he portrays himself so consistently as a pissy little douche dribble makes that scale pretty laughable to the onlookers.

So, back to orgasms, and the relative ease of having them... My hetero friends, have you never known a man who had trouble coming? I know they exist.

I have to disagree. Whenever some dude, no matter how prissy, starts talking crap about "women's agendas" they are chauvinistic and sexist. In Pilot's case he has proven that he is that way again and again and again.

Originally Posted by Handley_Page

Ye gods !
Pilot; please stop winding them up ? Really: Please?


Stella: Psychological projection:
" . . . where a person subconsciously denies his or her own negative attributes by ascribing them to the outside world instead.". .

Is that what Dyslex may be suffering ?

Condescend much, dude?

Other than being ever bit as much of a chauvinistic pig as Pilot, is there a particular reason you felt the need to hurl a pointless and unrelated, random insults?

[lovecraft68]

Originally Posted by Stella_Omega

he's not so much a male chauvinist as he is a personal chauvinist. Pilot himself is the scale upon which everyone shall be measured.

Of course the fact that he portrays himself so consistently as a pissy little douche dribble makes that scale pretty laughable to the onlookers.

So, back to orgasms, and the relative ease of having them... My hetero friends, have you never known a man who had trouble coming? I know they exist.

Short of being drunk out of my mind I've never had a hard time cumming, but there have been a couple of times in that instance I've simply given up because despite what some people think 30 minutes plus of continuous sex starts to be all around unpleasant.

As for wanting my partner to always orgasm(if they choose to because there have been nights the wife has simply said "just fuck me") I'll admit to not being entirely altruistic with that desire.

Back in my single days the way I saw it was if I hooked up with a woman especially if it had all the earmarks of a one nighter or weekend fling I wanted to be remembered fondly.

A week later I didn't want her to be telling her girlfriend "yeah hooked up with this guy last week and it was alright"

I want "Damn we had a hot time!"

So some of that is chalked up to male ego. However I am continually amazed by the amount of men who still don;t care its still get in get off get out like they're till sixteen and just getting laid.

Then again, many men never sexually develop past that age.

[sr71plt]

Originally Posted by lovecraft68

However I am continually amazed by the amount of men who still don;t care its still get in get off get out like they're till sixteen and just getting laid.

Uh, oh. Better hide. When I simply stated that many men in their more-active sex period were like that--and explicitly said that I wasn't speaking for myself--you and a thundering of horde of others started screaming bloody murder on this thread.

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Originally Posted by lovecraft68

Short of being drunk out of my mind I've never had a hard time cumming, but there have been a couple of times in that instance I've simply given up because despite what some people think 30 minutes plus of continuous sex starts to be all around unpleasant.

As for wanting my partner to always orgasm(if they choose to because there have been nights the wife has simply said "just fuck me") I'll admit to not being entirely altruistic with that desire.

Back in my single days the way I saw it was if I hooked up with a woman especially if it had all the earmarks of a one nighter or weekend fling I wanted to be remembered fondly.

A week later I didn't want her to be telling her girlfriend "yeah hooked up with this guy last week and it was alright"

I want "Damn we had a hot time!"

So some of that is chalked up to male ego. However I am continually amazed by the amount of men who still don;t care its still get in get off get out like they're till sixteen and just getting laid.

Then again, many men never sexually develop past that age.

Pussy aint the Pieta, bucko.

[sr71plt]

Originally Posted by JAMESBJOHNSON

Pussy aint the Pieta, bucko.

Pllleeeze. He needed his hourly me, me, me post. (which is OK with me, by the way--just pointing out how two faced he is.)

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Woman is 1/2 chameleon, 1/2 kaleidoscope; pussy is God's incentive to get you to buy.

[sr71plt]

Originally Posted by JAMESBJOHNSON

Woman is 1/2 chameleon, 1/2 kaleidoscope; pussy is God's incentive to get you to buy.

Somehow I knew you had to pay for it.

[jomar]

Originally Posted by Safe_Bet

geez... Is this the new version of "she didn't SAY no! (after I knocked her out and raped her)"???

Since when should it be the woman's responsibility to buy some dumbass, insensitive, self-serving dude a book, "flavor" her pussy or "man'splain" things?

Don't even get me started on your whole bullshit about "faked" orgasms!



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Anyways, to all those women who LIKE to have multiple orgasms without having to "beg", there always is the dark side!

P.S. We cuddle and serve double fudge brownies afterwards.

I was not sure which of the many comments on which to comment, but I do want to let the gentleman know it is "Dining at the Y." Dining, not "eating." To say "eating" is just gauche.

[Stella_Omega]

Originally Posted by jomar

I was not sure which of the many comments on which to comment, but I do want to let the gentleman know it is "Dining at the Y." Dining, not "eating." To say "eating" is just gauche.

You know, this is a very, very good point. Although what I do with my mouth and my lady friend's little whatsit provides me with things that are very important to my well-being, 'eating" tends to refer to the ingestion of nutrients for the body.

Might "Dining" be considered a term that refers to the enjoyment and ritual of eating?