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Old 02-23-2013, 02:52 PM   #26
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I think it's a testosterone thing.
Probably

Women have testosterone too, but far less unless there is some imbalance. A variety of circumstances can change that balance though.

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I really do think it's just hard wired into men.
I disagree.


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I also would have loved to get flowers from a woman, but that's another one sided stereotype.
After being told that the language of flowers is just moronspeak for "lets fuck" by one woman, and chastised for wasting money on flowers by another; I never buy flowers for anyone anymore.

My wife buys flowers for me every now and then, and my kids get to buy her flowers occasionally.
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Old 02-23-2013, 06:12 PM   #27
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Proving you're smarter than the average bear, perhaps.
Some show their power over others in an effort to counter their inferior opinion of themselves. That opinion has nothing to do with sex, it's emotional. But it's power they seek, where ever they can find it. It's similar to bullying. Physically they become adults, but some of their actions never mature.

My thoughts about "changing" a domme into a switch were sexual. She was hot! But, I knew it wouldn't happen and that's why I didn't act on it. Smart? Maybe just sensible.
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Old 02-23-2013, 06:20 PM   #28
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Proving you're smarter than the average bear, perhaps.
wait wait wait...

how did Stella know DVS was a bear?
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Old 02-23-2013, 06:59 PM   #29
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LMAO

i read this the sarcastic/ BDSM way before the "ordinary" version of the double meaning even occurred to me.

nice pun
You saw what I did there.
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Old 02-23-2013, 07:17 PM   #30
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wait wait wait...

how did Stella know DVS was a bear?
Lucky guess?

No, no, wait-- because Stella Knows All. yeah, that's it....

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My thoughts about "changing" a domme into a switch were sexual. She was hot! But, I knew it wouldn't happen and that's why I didn't act on it. Smart? Maybe just sensible.
In what way would you have wanted to do her? Not sarcasm, at all, an interested question.

See, a lot of Dommes do switch-- sexually. or, might if they could be sure it wouldn't drop their status. Women are kind of made to be receptive, it feels real good, and a Domme, after all, would want to feel good.

I have topped Dommes, by offering my service that way. "Instead of your spending all of your energy on me, What can I give you? Would you like someone to do the work for you, maybe while you lay around in bondage?

That's in no way the same as "Women need to be dominated."

Yanno what I'm saying...

And she might say NO anyway, but she won't be pissed off because one more asshole Dom.
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Old 02-23-2013, 11:27 PM   #31
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I just cannot understand why so many people in the L/s seem to forget about common sense and vanilla respect/manners as a basic from which to start their kinky part.

I try to treat everyone with this basic, interhuman respect they deserve as persons, though during scenes this might be different depending upon the consensual agreement.

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