How Deeply You Are Known

[Stella_Omega]

Originally Posted by KoPilot

It's how it's said/who's saying it too. There are a number of people I wouldn't mind telling me that I'm predictable.

I knew that about you.


hehehe

[Stag of Oberon]

Originally Posted by Stella_Omega

I knew that about you.

Well that doesn't surprise me at all.

hehehe

*snicker*

[Primalex]

Originally Posted by morefreebound

To be honest... I am a bit frustrated at all this. I am new to this forum,

Yes.

I shouldn't be berated for this, nor my curiosity in learning more.

Why not?



See, you have the wrong point of view, because you didn't get this place. This (literotica) is the place where I can berate you for having a nose and two eyes, if I like to. You seem to assume that you have the privilege to be treated in a nice way, if you are nice. But that's wrong. I have the privilege to write anything I want, as long as I don't violate the forum rules (you did read them, right? No, I guess you didn't...). Your only right is to ignore me, either mentally or technically.

From my point of view, that you feeld bad is your fault. Despite the fact that you a) didn't get this place and b) insist on ignoring the advice to put people who write stuff you don't like on ignore, you also caught my attention, which is obviously your fault, because plenty of other newbies manage to create threads without fueling my urge to reply.

[KoPilot]

Originally Posted by Stag of Oberon

Well that doesn't surprise me at all.

*snicker*

Okay, you got me. I literally laughed out loud.

And smacked myself in the face.

[Stag of Oberon]

Primalex would have you believe he is our resident Hanibal Lecter.

He has mommy issues (or something) and puts out these barbed spines to convince himself that no one wants to hug him because look; barbed spines.

If he is purposefully hurtful then the lack of hugs can't possibly be for some intrinsic reason... can it?

Or maybe I'm just trolling a little too, because I hate to see new comers treated like trash.

[Stella_Omega]

I think Primalex's post is hysterical-- it's such a sincere statement of intent to troll.

Also "It's not my fault I kicked you down the stairs, you made me do it."

I've C&P'd it to my inspirations file.

[Primalex]

Originally Posted by Stag of Oberon

He has mommy issues (or something) and puts out these barbed spines to convince himself that no one wants to hug him because look; barbed spines.

If he is purposefully hurtful then the lack of hugs can't possibly be for some intrinsic reason... can it?

So, an unemployed depressed guy wants to tell me what I'm missing in my life? That's amusing. Hint: Literotica postings don't pay for your car.

Or maybe I'm just trolling a little too, because I hate to see new comers treated like trash.

from the wrong person. You forgot this little disclaimer. You don't mind it if the right persons do it. Or if the newcomer deserves it. Deserves it according to your very own rules of course.

[Stella_Omega]

Originally Posted by Primalex

So, an unemployed depressed guy wants to tell me what I'm missing in my life? That's amusing. Hint: Literotica postings don't pay for your car.



from the wrong person. You forgot this little disclaimer. You don't mind it if the right persons do it. Or if the newcomer deserves it. Deserves it according to your very own rules of course.

In this thread, nobody trolled her except you.

Trolls get called out around here. You aren't so special, snowflake.

[KoPilot]

Originally Posted by Primalex

So, an unemployed depressed guy wants to tell me what I'm missing in my life? That's amusing. Hint: Literotica postings don't pay for your car.

Job-as-measure-of-worth? Check.

Mental-health-as-measure-of-worth? Check.

And subsequently implying that mental health issues are for the weak (read: not strongmanly)? Check.

Mention of car (status symbol) instead of other important drains on income such as rent, health insurance, food, etc.? Check.

My god, he's so manly I've swooned right through the floor and into the kitchen downstairs.

[Primalex]

Originally Posted by Stella_Omega

In this thread, nobody trolled her except you.

So if CM, MrsWinston and you were not trolling, then you must have been deliberately hateful. Wow. Thank god I'm just trolling. I wouldn't want to be a hateful person like you.

[Primalex]

Originally Posted by KoPilot

Job-as-measure-of-worth? Check.

Mental-health-as-measure-of-worth? Check.

And subsequently implying that mental health issues are for the weak (read: not strongmanly)? Check.

Mention of car (status symbol) instead of other important drains on income such as rent, health insurance, food, etc.? Check.

My god, he's so manly I've swooned right through the floor and into the kitchen downstairs.

Great, the next mentally unstable person here decides to join in. A pity I can't charge you per hour for my help.

[Stella_Omega]

Butthurt, Primalex be thy name!

What's wrong, dude? Your reading comprehension is way off.

[Stag of Oberon]

Originally Posted by KoPilot

Job-as-measure-of-worth? Check.

Mental-health-as-measure-of-worth? Check.

And subsequently implying that mental health issues are for the weak (read: not strongmanly)? Check.

Mention of car (status symbol) instead of other important drains on income such as rent, health insurance, food, etc.? Check.

My god, he's so manly I've swooned right through the floor and into the kitchen downstairs.

Its not about car as status symbol. He is displaying his super-literotican powers of perusing my post history to hit me where he thinks it might hurt.

Barbed spines and all that.

One doesn't poke an anemone without expecting a little venom.

Don't worry primalex I wasn't going to offer you hugs in the first place, and not for some innate lack of worthiness on your part.

[Primalex]

Originally Posted by Stella_Omega

Butthurt, Primalex be thy name!

What's wrong, dude? Your reading comprehension is way off.

Maybe I'm not hurt butt _your_ reading comprehension is way off?

No, wait, you wear a white hat, therefore, by international movie laws, everything you do is right. And if you rape her, she deserved it!

[Stag of Oberon]

Originally Posted by Primalex

from the wrong person. You forgot this little disclaimer. You don't mind it if the right persons do it. Or if the newcomer deserves it. Deserves it according to your very own rules of course.

Just because I don't speak up every time doesn't mean I like it all the other times.

On the other hand you just relish being ganged up on like this.... don't you?

Any attention is good attention; right? You prefer to be responded to, just like the rest of us; to feel that you are not ignored. Do you find validation in this as a human being?

[Primalex]

Originally Posted by Stag of Oberon

Its not about car as status symbol. He is displaying his super-literotican powers of perusing my post history to hit me where he thinks it might hurt.

Thanks for telling KoPilot that he is a moron who doesn't get the subtle references in my posts but yet has to write about them, displaying total ignorance without even knowing it. I was really tempted to do it myself, but then thought that he wouldn't be worth the time. An idiot is an idiot, whether I tell him or not.

[Stag of Oberon]

Originally Posted by Primalex

Thanks for telling KoPilot that he...

wait wait... Ko-pilot's a dude?

I knew he/she identified as a-gendered... probably the "husband" had me jumping to old Heteronormative conclusions...

Or do you assume we're all just dudes here on the interwebs?

[Primalex]

Originally Posted by Stag of Oberon

Any attention is good attention; right? You prefer to be responded to, just like the rest of us; to feel that you are not ignored. Do you find validation in this as a human being?

No, I don't prefer to be responded to, unless I ask something in a private message. Believe it or not, I really don't care. I enjoy writing down my point of view. I just like to reply to things. Replies just give me more opportunities, so it might look like I would enjoy it. When Satin Desire put me on ignore, it didn't stop me from replying to her posts - because I enjoyed writing down my point of view about her silly posts.

A few things do irritate me. Prepubescent jokes about mothers and hugs for example. I don't get them. It's like you would have a bar brawl and then suddenly Terrence and Philip from South Park step in and fart - and you are like: How the fuck does this fit in now? Can't you smash a bottle on the counter?
It doesn't hurt me or make me angry (or whatever), I just think it's....sad, that this was the best attempt.

[morefreebound]

Well... this is certainly not where this thread was intended to go...

[Stag of Oberon]

Originally Posted by Primalex

No, I don't prefer to be responded to, unless I ask something in a private message. Believe it or not, I really don't care. I enjoy writing down my point of view. I just like to reply to things. Replies just give me more opportunities, so it might look like I would enjoy it. When Satin Desire put me on ignore, it didn't stop me from replying to her posts - because I enjoyed writing down my point of view about her silly posts.

A few things do irritate me. Prepubescent jokes about mothers and hugs for example. I don't get them. It's like you would have a bar brawl and then suddenly Terrence and Philip from South Park step in and fart - and you are like: How the fuck does this fit in now? Can't you smash a bottle on the counter?
It doesn't hurt me or make me angry (or whatever), I just think it's....sad, that this was the best attempt.

It wasn't meant to be a joke. It wasn't actually aimed at you in fact, I was reassuring amelia that you just had issues, spilled your poison here as a release, and were safe to ignore. Doesn't bother you? this toxic explosion across multiple threads suggests otherwise.

I'm not here to brawl, and "broken bottles" wouldn't be my style if I were.

[Primalex]

Originally Posted by morefreebound

Well... this is certainly not where this thread was intended to go...

It could have been worse. Pages of "Oh, yes, my PYL sees right into my heart and there are angels singing." When you are down from the oxytocin rush, try the next thread.

[Primalex]

But hey, let me add something:

My girl totally hates it that I can complete the sentence before she opens the mouth, that I can always guess what she bought me as gift (she doesn't play the guessing game with me anymore) and the proper reduced price for whatever she bought during sales. She promised me the last 9 years to not talk to me again and never paid-up. By now, when she wants to say something and I'm about to say what she wants to say, she just says "Shut the fuck up, I'm going to say it"...and I listen to her.

[KoPilot]

Primalex, I'm doing nothing but laughing at you. And laughing is some dang good medicine, but I can get that from any schmuck on the street for free.

And mmmm yes pronouns akimbo

Lay em on me, baby

Dude, a TV shrink could tell you you've got problems. (hint: humans generally do, sorry kid)

[Stag of Oberon]

Originally Posted by Primalex

By now, when she wants to say something and I'm about to say what she wants to say, she just says "Shut the fuck up, I'm going to say it"...and I listen to her.

You're saying there's at least one person in this world who can give you the STFU and you LISTEN?

FABRICATION!

I think I crossed my threads, but I am sorry to hear that your wife being out of town grates so hard on you. Mine is working 80 hours a week right now... we sleep in the same bed but don't really see each other, and only talk over the phone. Thank goodness that peak is almost over.

[Stella_Omega]

Originally Posted by morefreebound

Well... this is certainly not where this thread was intended to go...

Come a little further in, join some other conversations. I think this one has been totally hijacked by someone else's issues... It's a problem in forums like this one! And honestly, BDSM is not much for hallmark moments.