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02-07-2013, 08:52 PM
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youngnlove is offline
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Realistically - How long do you last?
My girlfriend and I who have quite the incredible sex life are wondering what the average time to reach orgasm for both males and females is.
Seems through a quick search the "average" for males is on the quick side.
After foreplay actual penetration time varies for us from 1.5-2.5 hours.
What's your average?
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02-07-2013, 10:11 PM
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milk mama teasecake
thesweetsweetness is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by youngnlove
After foreplay actual penetration time varies for us from 1.5-2.5 hours.
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02-07-2013, 10:19 PM
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caughtbyU is offline
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If your actually serious I think you might own the Guinness record for penetration time most guys would be happy to last 10 minutes and that's generous. You two must be raw bye the time you cum lol
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02-07-2013, 10:53 PM
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Really Experienced
irishblade is offline
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For sure. We last about 15-20 after foreplay. about 3.5 hours with foreplay ;-)
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02-08-2013, 12:39 AM
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Depends sometimes 30 to 45 with a condom without maybe 20.
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02-08-2013, 03:49 AM
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Really Really Experienced
Hans101 is offline
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40 minutes to an hour.
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02-08-2013, 08:39 AM
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Really Experienced
Tomahawk26 is offline
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First, LOL @ thesweetsweetness--that's exactly what I was thinking!
Back when we first started fucking, my husband and I would definitely go for hours. We've now been together almost 8 years, and frankly there's no need for that anymore. We figured out what works.  But I would say we usually spend 45 mins to an hour regularly. Roughly 20-30 mins of that is "penetration time."
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02-08-2013, 09:40 AM
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bps is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Tomahawk26
First, LOL @ thesweetsweetness--that's exactly what I was thinking!
Back when we first started fucking, my husband and I would definitely go for hours. We've now been together almost 8 years, and frankly there's no need for that anymore. We figured out what works.  But I would say we usually spend 45 mins to an hour regularly. Roughly 20-30 mins of that is "penetration time."
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judging from your pics your husband is 1 very lucky guy.
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02-08-2013, 09:49 AM
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8-24 hours...it starts in the brain.
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02-08-2013, 10:48 AM
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Nice guy - dirty mind
englishgent73 is online now
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Probably about 10-20 minutes for penetration although mixing it up with position changes and the like stretches things out a bit.
Never been worried about how long this bit lasts as its all about the build-up for me and I've not had any complaints about my oral skills so the lady is always happy however long it lasts ;-)
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02-08-2013, 02:39 PM
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DarkPleasures is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by youngnlove
After foreplay actual penetration time varies for us from 1.5-2.5 hours.
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Is your girlfriend's pussy that bad that it takes that long before you're able to release?? 
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02-08-2013, 03:35 PM
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This reminds me of a Stephen Wright joke: "24 hour banking! Who has time for THAT!"
To answer the question, it depends on recent history. If it's been awhile since my last orgasm, I'll be lucky to get in five minutes of rumpy-pumpy before releasing the hounds. But if it's the second session of the day, I can pretty much last until I get tired and want to get it over with!
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02-08-2013, 03:38 PM
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sethp is online now
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That varies...I'm good for 5-30 minutes usually...depends on the position, foreplay and a host of other factors. Sometimes I'm good for 1-2 hours also, but most women don't enjoy sex that long. They like multiple short sessions instead as long as they cum.
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02-08-2013, 03:49 PM
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It varies. I find that if it's been a couple days between, the first time will go pretty quickly. However, if I'm having sex on a regular basis, I'll last quite a bit longer.
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02-08-2013, 04:44 PM
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Really Experienced
Tomahawk26 is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by bps
judging from your pics your husband is 1 very lucky guy.
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Thank you! I like to think he is. 
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02-08-2013, 05:17 PM
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Really Experienced
MTBR is offline
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The longest I've ever gone when it was just sex was around 25-30 minutes, which I (and judging by the overall response) my girlfriend at the time we're both happy with.
However, I've gone longer when its been foreplay, up to an hour, though that was broken up between a handjob, oral and tit-wanking, but there were 'breaks' between where she'd stop and I'd take my turn. This was with the same girl, but I'd say the average for me is around half an hour.
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02-08-2013, 05:35 PM
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kjb123 is offline
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20-30 minutes. I could actually go a lot quicker than that but I am going to make sure she gets what she needs first then I try to build mine up for a grand finale. Wait 20 more minutes or watch an episode of Family Guy, then really get with it! Have to get real kinky to get that second one in 20 minutes!
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02-20-2013, 05:41 PM
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Experienced
Writer_32 is offline
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Location: MI
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Too long
I can go for quite a while after foreplay -- at least an hour if I want to. I seem to last much longer when I've been drinking. I mix up the positions and that helps a lot.
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02-20-2013, 08:31 PM
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Really Experienced
Pandora73 is offline
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I just busted out laughing!!
Awesome. Simply awesome.
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02-20-2013, 08:48 PM
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Want to please
Feelfreetotouch is offline
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Wife comes very easily. She comes within the first 2 minutes-- especially if I rub her breasts while I push deep. I can go for as long as I want - if I set my mind to it. If I focus - -then as quickly as I like. But on average-- we go for 20-25 minutes.
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02-20-2013, 10:22 PM
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Really Experienced
JaxRhapsody is offline
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Location: Louisville,KY
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Depends on when/if I've masturbated, how long without/between, who it is and how we fuck. Lately my friend has been riding me out around five minutes. But I can go 10min to 45min. Ofcoarse, she likes it fast and hard. Which is okay cause Im happy to be getting it at all.
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04-12-2013, 06:18 PM
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MrInappropriate is offline
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stick with what works the fastest
I Dont see the point in going so long of Constant Pounding (if That Is What You're Refering to) . Either my dick goes numb and I dont feel a thing (which Only makes Me Go Longer), or her pussy becomes raw (no Matter how wet It Is). We usually average around 30 minutes with foreplay On Nights With No Kinky Stuff. but during that I make Sure she Gets A Good Number of Orgasms In, I limit Myself To 2 Orgasms Before Coming With Strong PC squeezes, Else Ill Go all Night.
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04-12-2013, 06:37 PM
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Really Experienced
Sexyabba is offline
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15-30 minutes is our penetration time
Foreplay is typically up to an hour or so.
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04-12-2013, 06:45 PM
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forearm like Popeye
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30 mins or so after foreplay is our norm, barring any fun and games
foreplay varies wildly, won't guess at an average here
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04-12-2013, 08:49 PM
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Literotica Guru
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Ya, well I am jealous of everyone...any tips and tricks? I don't need half an hour, but more than a minute would be a bonus.
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