Question for the Bisexual Guys

[Queen_Vicki]

Why does it matter if women, specifically speaking straight women, find you attractive or not?I mean does it really matter at the end of the day?Especially since there are more options for you in the dating world: Such as shemales, and other men?

I mean I would really like to know

[klippert]

I mean....what's your question...

[Stella_Omega]

Why does it matter to you, Queen Vicki?

[Queen_Vicki]

Originally Posted by Stella_Omega

Why does it matter to you, Queen Vicki?

I just asked a simple question. It seems like it's very important for bi guys to seek validation from women.

[YoungMNGuy]

Um, because they want to be attractive to people that they may be attracted to?

[PleasePeesMe]

Originally Posted by Queen_Vicki

I just asked a simple question. It seems like it's very important for bi guys to seek validation from women.

That statement seems to indicate that you think bi guys are gay guys in a slightly different form. Bi guys "seek validation" from women because they want to have sex with them. Bi = 2, geddit?

[tndeerhunter80]

Well for me, I want to be with someone who can love me for who I am, all of who I am, my bi sexuality included. I have no desire to date men, I just like cock. Like to suck it and like to fuck it....and I want a woman that is turned on by that and wants to watch and participate with me. Hope that helped. That’s just my perspective though; don’t know what other men may feel on the question.

[TomBoner]

I guess when you're queen you don't need any validation from people ...

... nor do you have to care if anybody thinks your attractive or not.

Awwwww ... must be nice to be royalty.

[drummer34]

For me, sex and love are two different things. I love my wife and have before i met her been in love with a couple of other women, i have never been in love with a man and never will. BUT i crave sex in all forms. More than my wife will give me so i seek all kinds of adventures and some of them is conducted with other men. I love to be attractive to women (i am a musician ) i dont care if i'm attractive to other men as long as i can "play" with them.

Confusing? well perhaps but it works..

[Hitchiker69]

I see it as a matter of playing the odds. What are the odds that I'll meet an available tranny? About zero. An available gay guy? 5 or 10% at best. An available woman? 50% or more.
If I want to get laid I need to play the odds...go for the available woman first.

[Queen_Vicki]

Originally Posted by Hitchiker69

I see it as a matter of playing the odds. What are the odds that I'll meet an available tranny? About zero. An available gay guy? 5 or 10% at best. An available woman? 50% or more.
If I want to get laid I need to play the odds...go for the available woman first.

It sounds like you only go for women by default. If women are not your true preference, then maybe you be involved in the LBGT community more

[TheLM]

Because I wouldn't date or be involved monogamously with a man.

My attraction to phallic objects serves to enhance my pleasure, but will not replace my hetero sex life.

[Stella_Omega]

Originally Posted by Queen_Vicki

I just asked a simple question. It seems like it's very important for bi guys to seek validation from women.

No, I asked why YOU are so bothered by this that you have to ask over and over again.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=788277
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=822458
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=829208

[Queen_Vicki]

Originally Posted by Stella_Omega

No, I asked why YOU are so bothered by this that you have to ask over and over again.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=788277
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=822458
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=829208

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_me...omw3o1_500.gif

SSOOOOOOO?????And you Sure in the hell went though a lot of trouble getting those posts, and you seem to be so damn concern about the things that concern me,but it's whatever.

Thanks to those responded.

[Missouribiguy]

I agree with Stella, why do you seem to have a problem with this? It shouldn't be that big of deall.

[Jessie_Pinkman]

Originally Posted by Stella_Omega

No, I asked why YOU are so bothered by this that you have to ask over and over again.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=788277
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=822458
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=829208

oh, snap , Stella!

[TheLM]

Originally Posted by Queen_Vicki

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_me...omw3o1_500.gif

SSOOOOOOO?????And you Sure in the hell went though a lot of trouble getting those posts, and you seem to be so damn concern about the things that concern me,but it's whatever.

Thanks to those responded.

Sure in the hell?

[joelafayette]

QV,
You've asked similar questions a lot, and the answers you are getting are consistent and straightfoward. Why don't you say what's really on your mind? if there's a different question you want to ask, then ask. if there's something that's happened in your personal life you want to vent about, then go for it. Perhaps if we had more info to go on here...

[bigwarwood]

I got married because I loved her. But I came to the relationship with a history I wasn't going to deny to myself or her. She had a history too and we got together from opposite polarity so to speak. She never had a pussy flash before her face that she didn't want to lick. We enjoyed and permitted each other to indulge. She participated and enjoyed that aspect of our relationship. We stayed together for as long as that commitment to each other was viable. We always approached everything together but at times, you just have to go it solo if something is going to happen. You'd be surprised how freaked out some people get when you suggest a partner just wants to sit and watch, such is life. Yet we never took any of this to the level of "preference". We always saw it as too big a pie to settle for just one slice. We usually ended up swimming in it!

[rockslyde]

Originally Posted by Queen_Vicki

I just asked a simple question. It seems like it's very important for bi guys to seek validation from women.

Vadidation,...In Choctaw....means "pussy"

[EroticElectric]

Well I probably would not date a shemale unless she looked like an actual beautiful woman, that said I like my men manly and my women girly/womanly. That said I prefer women a little. Options are nice, but it can also be confusing based on your values. Some bis can just go out and have sex a lot (mostly with other guys since they are the slut gender), but some of us genuinely like both sexes and see them as more than just orifices and protuding body parts that arouse us.

[Queen_Vicki]

Originally Posted by EroticElectric

Well I probably would not date a shemale unless she looked like an actual beautiful woman, that said I like my men manly and my women girly/womanly. That said I prefer women a little. Options are nice, but it can also be confusing based on your values. Some bis can just go out and have sex a lot (mostly with other guys since they are the slut gender), but some of us genuinely like both sexes and see them as more than just orifices and protuding body parts that arouse us.

LOL.The slut gender.Haahahaha

[dougsan]

Very few of the women I have fucked/eaten knew I was bi. It never came up. One that did is kind of funny.

I was in Sydney on a five week business trip. The company set me up in an apartment rather than a hotel to save money and they thought I would be more comfortable over the long run. The apartment was in the middle of a gay section, three blocks (if I remember correctly) from Kings Cross. It was also a druggie area. So from day one I had access to lots of cocks and enough coke to make me strong.

At an office party I picked up a female youngster (22 or so). We made it back to my apartment, bumping into a group of gays most of whom I had done. She was, like all the Aussies I met, very understanding and curious. I took a while to adjust to her knowing.

Long story shorter, Meg and I were in a staged sex act in the Cross togther. Did I love Sydney.

[haurni]

Originally Posted by YoungMNGuy

Um, because they want to be attractive to people that they may be attracted to?

I think this pretty much says it all. I interact with both sexes, so I like to be seen as attractive by both sexes. Why would someone be interested in me if I weren't attractive (in some way) to them?

[lustatopia]

Of course there are as many kinds of bisexuality as there are bisexuals. Everyone is a unique individual.

That said the definition of a bisexual is some one who is roughly equally aroused by both genders (we'll stick with the two main ones to keep it simple.)

It's also true that bisexuals can be bi-polar in a sexual way. That is a bisexual person might live part of his or her life as a gay person and then decide to switch sides. And then later on back again. The time lapse between oscillations between gay and straight can be as little as hours to a much as decades.

But for myself, as an artist trying to define the ultimate bisexual fantasy, I see bisexuality as being able to fully appreciate the erotic potential inherent in the full spectrum of human physical beauty from the erectly masculine to the deeply feminine.

For me the ultimate bisexual fantasy is to be with both man and woman together and join with them in the most intimate sexual communions.

There are actually certain sexual acts which - by definition - can only be called bisexual, because they are both gay and straight at the same time.

For instance, coitalingus, the act of orally licking and guided a man's erection in a woman's vagina or ass is by definition a solely bisexual sexual exchange. So is a third partner making out with a man and a woman at the same time. So is the act of giving double head to a man or woman. So is the act of double penetration of a woman, regardless of how porn has defined it.

These are the kind of bisexual sexual acts that define the ultimate bisexual fantasy for at least bisexuals who follow the logic of bisexuality to its ultimate end - the bisexual threesome.

Naturally, people who find no pleasure in the erotic potential of the opposite sex (those who are totally gay) or are repulsed by the idea of same sex sex (those who are totally straight) tend to see bisexuality as transgressive of both the sexual norms of the straight and gay worlds and so are the ultimate "other."

However, deeply bisexual people understand that bisexual is actually the overlapping subset where gay and straightness mix and contrast... and thus bisexuality is the most pure distillation of sexual inclusiveness -- erotic lusting for the whole human form regardless of, yet divinely sensitive to, gender.