Biting and getting bit

[GaspingDarkness]

Originally Posted by gypseywolf

I am straight forward in my
Ike's and dislikes, I realize my lovers are usually not mind readers, and I learned a while ago, a closed mouth don't get fed. I usually give a full disclaimer early on and also give them several relationship options, from fwb to open to exclusive relationships, I like to get it out there so there are no nasty surprises later. I do t wanna waist both of our ti e with a relationship if all you want is a good fb...lol and honestly that's what I am looking for for a while is a bedroom partner, but nothing outside of it. And maybe one day soon I will get over my nerves and post some trick pics..lol

I would encourage that highly

[Stag of Oberon]

every time i see the title to this thread I just think *Nom Nom Nom*

[Domesticity]

I love biting and I like being bitten. It's never a premeditated thing for me and I don't always do it but it's usually when everything feels so good and I'm licking, sucking, tonguingm fucking and just need to almost get grounded or brought back to the here and now. I also like to slap, choke and even punch and like to be have it all done back. Not slaps and punches to the face, usually the torso. But, yeah, biting is fucking hot. I am totally orally fixated so I'm sure that plays into it, too.

[Loverskitten]

Originally Posted by Stag of Oberon

every time i see the title to this thread I just think *Nom Nom Nom*

Funny, everytime I see it I think, "isn't it 'bitten'?"

But yes, I love both.

[Stag of Oberon]

Originally Posted by Loverskitten

"isn't it 'bitten'?"

Depends on where you're from.

Southern drawl is a legitimate dialect.

georgian peaches.... mmmmmmm

oh i'm sorry, I was thinking about someone else... what were we talking about?

[Tomahawk26]

Originally Posted by easygoing123go

I had my cock bitten once, and lady was giviing me a blow job and she bite me, it hurt so bad I got left and never saw her again.....

Oh man, whenever I give blow jobs, I usually check beforehand if the dude likes teeth or not--my husband asks that I drag my teeth down his shaft and also bite it hard. I'm kind of in the biting habit.

[ameliajax]

Originally Posted by Loverskitten

Funny, everytime I see it I think, "isn't it 'bitten'?"

But yes, I love both.

Yes, it is "bitten", I think! My bad.

[Stag of Oberon]

I don't remember a girl friend that I never bit.... maybe the first?

I didn't always start with the biting though... I guess it phased in and out with various relationships, and it got me in trouble in some relationships more than others.

I remember one girl though, who bit me while we were goin at it... (or was it "bit me back"?), I held her back by her neck and gave her a teethy grin that she told me later looked like fire and madness. I pushed her off of me without stopping, held her down by the neck and went to town on her neck and breasts, hardly breaking rhythm while leaving bite marks on her collar bone and several hickies above and below. Mild perhaps, but apparently I was her first experience with sadism/ masochism.

We broke up a few months later, but I'm married to her now.

"love making" does tend to be a little teethy, but full on biting is pretty much off limits these days.

[Porkwarrior]

Originally Posted by Domesticity

I love biting and I like being bitten. It's never a premeditated thing for me and I don't always do it but it's usually when everything feels so good and I'm licking, sucking, tonguingm fucking and just need to almost get grounded or brought back to the here and now. I also like to slap, choke and even punch and like to be have it all done back. Not slaps and punches to the face, usually the torso. But, yeah, biting is fucking hot. I am totally orally fixated so I'm sure that plays into it, too.

Fucking HAWT! Grrrrrrrrrrr

[ouchfeelsgood]

Originally Posted by Tomahawk26

Oh man, whenever I give blow jobs, I usually check beforehand if the dude likes teeth or not--my husband asks that I drag my teeth down his shaft and also bite it hard. I'm kind of in the biting habit.

mmmmmm ... I really get aroused by a "teethy" blowjob. While I don't want to be bitten to the point of bleeding, I love the sensation of teeth being dragged along the length of my shaft, combined with an "aggressive" nibbling of my cock head.

[knot_sweet]

I enjoy bite bruises on my inner thighs and ass. Not so much anywhere else, although lighter biting/ nibbling is goooood everywhere else.

I'm intensely oral. If I can touch a body part, I kiss, lick or bite it instead. Once, a partner complained I spent too long orally enjoying his bits and ass.

J doesn't mind if I do the gentle nibble on most parts, but teeth are off limits on his bits. He's a lot sensitive, so I guess it's too intense for him.

[RuReal]

I like to bite, but butting me normally leads to a topy response of some sort. Hair pulling, hitting and so forth.

[Porkwarrior]

Originally Posted by RuReal

I like to bite, but butting me normally leads to a topy response of some sort. Hair pulling, hitting and so forth.

You say that almost as if it's a bad thang? Grrrrrrrrrrr.

You might be on to something there, I am the same way. The biting isn't an end all in itself, but more really gets the blood flowing (figuratively & sometimes literally!). It is the escalation...starting with gentle nips on tender parts, inside an arm, a neck, inside a thigh....until you are moaning around clenched teeth sunk into a shoulder or back, hair pulled back just a touch TOO hard as you descend into a flurry of hot & sweaty slapping flesh, primal noises and raw animal FUCKING...

...but it all starts with that one nip.

[Stag of Oberon]

Originally Posted by Porkwarrior

The biting isn't an end all in itself, ...

Nah.... sometimes I'm just feeling "peckish" and a great big "nip" is all I really wanted.

I used to bite my brother when I was bored.

[RuReal]

Not bad at all, just funny listening to her gasp scream and call me evil, but funny enough she always seems so wet. Strange response for someone that claims they do not enjoy it.

[Domesticity]

Originally Posted by Porkwarrior

You say that almost as if it's a bad thang? Grrrrrrrrrrr.

You might be on to something there, I am the same way. The biting isn't an end all in itself, but more really gets the blood flowing (figuratively & sometimes literally!). It is the escalation...starting with gentle nips on tender parts, inside an arm, a neck, inside a thigh....until you are moaning around clenched teeth sunk into a shoulder or back, hair pulled back just a touch TOO hard as you descend into a flurry of hot & sweaty slapping flesh, primal noises and raw animal FUCKING...

...but it all starts with that one nip.

My turn to growl at you...that sounds delicious!

[SkylarFalling]

He bites me when I've turned into some kind of sex animal 'cause he knows that is when I enjoy it most. He doesn't seem to enjoy it much, but sometimes in the beginning of a blowjob, I will stop and look up and click my teeth at him menacingly and and then grin like a crazy evil person, and sometimes he shivers >

I think he finds the idea of his poor little cock being bitten quite scary, so I am just teasing....for now.

[Riles]

Originally Posted by ameliajax

So, who likes to bite, and who likes being bit? And why? Is it frustration? Passion? A desire to cause or receive pain? Just a nibble? Or much more than that?

Do tell.

I regularly bite my partner during playtime. I do it more to provoke a certain response from him but I also do it to make him aware that a need isn't being met. Sort of a dangerous waters sign if you will.

There's no hidden meaning behind my wanting him to bite me in certain areas. It appeals to a more primal side of me - my want to be claimed, painfully so.

[MellowTone]

Originally Posted by ameliajax

So, who likes to bite, and who likes being bit? And why? Is it frustration? Passion? A desire to cause or receive pain? Just a nibble? Or much more than that?

Do tell.

Oh, I like being bitten SO MUCH. It feels so primal, and insistent. I can't ignore it. It feels good and hurts at the same time. My favorite places to be bitten HARD are my neck/shoulders and back. My legs and bottom prefer a lighter bite. For some reason I really DON'T like being bitten anywhere on my torso.

As for DOING the biting, I'm working on it. My partner likes being bitten at least as much as I do. I am a little inhibited though, because before him I'd never been with anyone who liked pain. I have the instinct to bite during sex, but I've long since taught myself to bite the pillow, not a person. It makes for some fun play, actually, for him to remind me where I should be biting, and to give or withhold permission for me to bite anything else when I'm not in a position where I can reach him.

[twister947]

When she bites me,I just go limp...totally submissive. In that moment, she can do anything to me, and I won't resist. It hasn't yet, but one day, blood will flow. I cannot explain this; I've quit trying.

[ameliajax]

It is hard to explain, sometimes, isn't it. I used to bite for one reason ... frustration, trying to get a dominant reaction out of someone. Now, if I do, it's purely from sexual arousal, wanting to taste that person in a more visceral way that just kissing alone can give you.

[ouchfeelsgood]

Your use of the word "visceral" is what I was looking for when trying to explain the reason I love the use of teeth in sexual play -- with or without an s/m aspect. I suspect there's a primal facet to biting, also. Something that brings out an "animals in heat" type of imagery.

[twister947]

I'm really surprised at how little "vampire porn" there seems to be. Just a smattering, here and there.

[Kinkedroad]

I like when bitten on the ass, lower part of the cheek where the muscle can be reached, hurts like hell at the time, even when in the heat of passion. What I really enjoy though is the reoccurring mild pain I feel over the next couple days, reminder of the hot play!