men who admire cock (married for story drama)

[jeninflorida]

I'm not sure how I want to craft this story but I'm thinking about a couple with a bi-sexual or bi-curious husband. I'm having the fictional characters married to add some drama and guilty feelings...

Now, questions for the men.....
do you consider a guy who likes looking at hard cocks, bi/gay?
do you consider a man who shares (or wants to) his wife with other men bi/gay?
is a blow job bi/gay?
what about going down on the wife after her lover is finished?

guessing I need to get a baseline as to what some men consider normal...bi-sexual...or gay. Hence my Q&A.

I do not see my story turning into the husband turning to the wife and saying, "Baby, I kissed a dude and liked it....."

but a couple that wants to spice things up and talks about fantasies, the end results is both the husband and wife wanting to include a man in their love making....

thoughts....ideas...challenges.....

[chocolatecookie3]

do you consider a guy who likes looking at hard cocks, bi/gay? yes
do you consider a man who shares (or wants to) his wife with other men bi/gay? yes
is a blow job bi/gay? yes
what about going down on the wife after her lover is finished? yes but maybe he just likes cuckolding?

I'm a bi girl who loves bi men, so I wish everyone were gay, but there are my answers! I think many guys who say no to those questions.

Oh yeah, and I wrote a story along the same lines. Husband and wife are missing something, turns out that something is their best (male) friend. I hope you can write it better than I did!

[3xstories]

I don't like to categorize other people as bi/gay or not, but I can tell you how I feel about my own bi side. I've never gotten to do anything with a guy in real life but want to someday for sure. I enjoy looking at hard cocks, have fantasies about sharing my wife (she wants it too), and am curious about what it would be like to jack a guy off and put his cock in my mouth. I have no desire to go down on my wife to eat a cream pie. I would have to be seriously attracted to the guy to consider kissing him.

What exactly do you mean by drama and guilt? Who is attracted to whom?

[jeninflorida]

Originally Posted by chocolatecookie3

do you consider a guy who likes looking at hard cocks, bi/gay? yes
do you consider a man who shares (or wants to) his wife with other men bi/gay? yes
is a blow job bi/gay? yes
what about going down on the wife after her lover is finished? yes but maybe he just likes cuckolding?

I'm a bi girl who loves bi men, so I wish everyone were gay, but there are my answers! I think many guys who say no to those questions.

Oh yeah, and I wrote a story along the same lines. Husband and wife are missing something, turns out that something is their best (male) friend. I hope you can write it better than I did!

Awesome and thank you! being bi does double your changes of getting some! hehe

[Jessie_Pinkman]

Originally Posted by jeninflorida

Awesome and thank you! being bi does double your changes of getting some! hehe

opening up to bisexual experiences has been one of the most exciting experiences of my life.

Love MMF.

[SevenSquared]

I think considering bi/gay a simple yes/no thing is really oversimplifying the complex nature of someone's sexuality. Having said that, generally speaking:

Originally Posted by jeninflorida

do you consider a guy who likes looking at hard cocks, bi/gay?

What do you mean by 'likes' hard cocks? If you mean he is sexually attracted to them then I would probably consider that a form of bi/gay. If you just mean he is fascinated by them or enjoys looking at them in other ways then not necessarily. I mean I have always been open about the fact that I dislike lesbian porn and prefer something with cocks in it, which my friends sometimes joke is a bit gay. But I'm not sexually attracted to men in any way, I just think it makes for a more realistic experience I can relate to better.

do you consider a man who shares (or wants to) his wife with other men bi/gay?

No, not necessarily. For some men it's just the whole 'cuckold' thing that's the turn on.

is a blow job bi/gay?

You mean giving one to or getting one from another guy? I would say yes, generally speaking, although I have heard of plenty of occasions where hetero guys have just gone too far with 'rugby club style' dares and ended up in some weird places.

what about going down on the wife after her lover is finished?

Again, this could be just a cuckold thing, not necessarily gay.

[sirhugs]

Now, questions for the men.....
do you consider a guy who likes looking at hard cocks, bi/gay?maybe a 0.5 on the Kinsey scale?
do you consider a man who shares (or wants to) his wife with other men bi/gay?no
is a blow job bi/gay?definitely a nudge to at least 1 on the Kinsey scale
what about going down on the wife after her lover is finished?I hope not

[BuckyDuckman]

Originally Posted by jeninflorida

Now, questions for the men.....
do you consider a guy who likes looking at hard cocks, bi/gay?
do you consider a man who shares (or wants to) his wife with other men bi/gay?
is a blow job bi/gay?
what about going down on the wife after her lover is finished?
.....

I think it depends more on the couple in the story than the world at-large. Though I started sucking cock at <insert age too young to mention on Lit>, it was a very, very long time before I accepted the idea that I'm "bi." Part of what slowed me down with accepting that label was because of what you described.

1) I love women too much. I could suck all the dick in the world and it would never, ever diminish my interest in pussy.

2) I've never been interested in kissing another man or being "romantic" with another man. Suck him off? Play with his dick? Go down on him after he fucks my wife? Hell yes! Sign me up. But kiss, cuddle and take long, romantic walks with another man... nah.

3) I have met so many men like me, who don't/won't identify themselves as gay/bi, regardless of their sexual activities. I deal with very similar themes as these in many of my stories, quite purposely. I think I'm providing material for men and women who like "manly" men who go both ways and I hope I'm tossing out a virtual life preserver for guys like me.

So, in answer to your questions, maybe the issues you raise are the heart of your story? The couple DO the things you mentioned and wrestle with definitions of what it means until they reach the logical conclusion - labels don't matter, LOVE does!

[Carnevil9]

It's only gay if you cuddle afterwards.

[Robbo2351]

I can relate to the story idea. I once had this type of fantasy happen or almost. I was with
my friend and his wife. I was in between relationships. We liked to party and one night we were all pretty blasted . My friends wife hugged me saying she just loved me. Being a good friend to her I responded in kind. My friend came over and we engaged in a group hug. None of us wanted to stop and we began kissing and rubbing against each other. Could this be happening a threesome I just let it take me where it wanted to go. He and I removed her clothes then ours. I found myself looking at his cock . It was beautiful I thought bigger than mine which I always thought was impressive being nearly eight inches when hard. His was more like ten and very thick. She giggled now you know why I love him. She fell to her knees in front of him and pulled me down with her. We stated kissing each other then she encouraged me to stroke him with her takin turns. He didn't blink so I started to get into it. It was really turning me on. We too turns kissing each other then his cock between both our lips. She guided his cock head to my lips and I opened and started sucking him. When I felt her mouth on my cock I did everything o him that she was doing to me. We all came at the same time his cock filling my mouth with his cum filling it. She came up and we all swapped as we kissed. God it was glorious

[Armphid]

I'm not sure how I want to craft this story but I'm thinking about a couple with a bi-sexual or bi-curious husband. I'm having the fictional characters married to add some drama and guilty feelings...

Now, questions for the men.....
do you consider a guy who likes looking at hard cocks, bi/gay? No, though I think a lot of guys would worry that others would think they were

do you consider a man who shares (or wants to) his wife with other men bi/gay? No, though if he did things with the other men that would push it towards bi

is a blow job bi/gay? Yes. I say this as a bisexual male, I don't think it's derogatory at all but if you go from just looking to actually performing fellatio, a guy has some bi tendencies at least.

what about going down on the wife after her lover is finished? No.

guessing I need to get a baseline as to what some men consider normal...bi-sexual...or gay. Hence my Q&A.

Hope my answers help!

[8inchcuck]

Originally Posted by jeninflorida

I'm not sure how I want to craft this story but I'm thinking about a couple with a bi-sexual or bi-curious husband. I'm having the fictional characters married to add some drama and guilty feelings...

Now, questions for the men.....
do you consider a guy who likes looking at hard cocks, bi/gay?
do you consider a man who shares (or wants to) his wife with other men bi/gay?
is a blow job bi/gay?
what about going down on the wife after her lover is finished?

guessing I need to get a baseline as to what some men consider normal...bi-sexual...or gay. Hence my Q&A.

I do not see my story turning into the husband turning to the wife and saying, "Baby, I kissed a dude and liked it....."

but a couple that wants to spice things up and talks about fantasies, the end results is both the husband and wife wanting to include a man in their love making....

thoughts....ideas...challenges.....

I am new to this forum. I am a cuckold wannabe, I have tried to get my wife to bring men home but she won't do it. From my point of view:
1...No, I do not consider a man that likes to look at hard cocks either bi or gay. Hard cocks are nice to look at.
2...As I said, I want to share my wife and I do not think I am bi or gay, I am unconcerned with being with a naked man or touching his cock. I want very much to suck a guy off.
3...One man giving another man head doesn't make him gay, maybe bi. I want to suck a guy hard and hold his cock as my wife sits down on it and drains his balls.
4. Eating a creampie is a major fantasy of mine.
I like writing cuckold stories, mine usually do not include humiliation of the husband though as I am not into that, just "me" (I always use my name for the husband) watching my wife with other men, usually very well hung men and licking both of them clean.

[Tmmldr]

Originally Posted by jeninflorida

I'm not sure how I want to craft this story but I'm thinking about a couple with a bi-sexual or bi-curious husband. I'm having the fictional characters married to add some drama and guilty feelings...

Now, questions for the men.....
do you consider a guy who likes looking at hard cocks, bi/gay?
do you consider a man who shares (or wants to) his wife with other men bi/gay?
is a blow job bi/gay?
what about going down on the wife after her lover is finished?

guessing I need to get a baseline as to what some men consider normal...bi-sexual...or gay. Hence my Q&A.

I do not see my story turning into the husband turning to the wife and saying, "Baby, I kissed a dude and liked it....."

but a couple that wants to spice things up and talks about fantasies, the end results is both the husband and wife wanting to include a man in their love making....

thoughts....ideas...challenges.....

I'm a guy and sometimes I'll run into a gay who who pretty obviously is looking for a real romantic relationship. Hard to say how you know, but you do know. I do not have the ability to provide that for them, and I feel like if I let them suck me or if I did them, it would be taking advantage of them.

Other guys and other gays, they really do want to just suck cock and get off or get someone off.

Giant difference between these two extremes.