"Hurt me with it"
I just thought I'd share this experience, hoping some of you might have suggestions on how to explore this further.
I've been trying to push the limits with my wife a bit, introducing light bondage and alpha behaviors to see how she reacts.
I tied her hands up and took her orally to completion. While waiting to recover, I grabbed a jackrabbit (dildo) and started working her over with it. I untied her hands so she could flip over into a reverse table position (face up, holding herself up off the ground with her hands and bent legs.) In this position, she really got into the dildo and wanted me to basically pound the hell out of her with it. At one point she whispered "hurt me with it" and I did what I could to comply (within reason.) After her orgasm, I was ready again so dumped the dildo, and pounded her over the table to the point she had bruises on her thighs.
I've rarely seen her get into something so much, and never had a request to hurt her before. If she likes it, I have no problem pounding the hell out of her.
Sorry for the naivete here, but is this a kink or a thing? Or do pretty much all women just love to get completely nailed from time to time?
I found ramming the dildo into her to be a little awkward because it wasn't designed to be manhandled as forcefully as I was. I'm thinking of trying to find a larger one with some kind of handle. Any suggestions?
Also, any thoughts on the "hurt me with it" comment?