 |
|
 |
| - Free Speech, No Spam! - |
|
 |
|
 |
 |
02-23-2013, 02:56 PM
|
#76
|
|
No Gentleman
Stella_Omega is offline
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Under the cat
Posts: 37,086
|
Hope everyone is having, or has had, a lovely Saturday morning...
|
|
|
|
|
02-27-2013, 04:11 PM
|
#77
|
|
Really Really Experienced
Dyslexicea is offline
Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Iowa (which just sucks)
Posts: 318
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Stella_Omega
Hope everyone is having, or has had, a lovely Saturday morning...
|
My Saturday morning, nor my afternoon, wasn't lovely at all. I had one of those days where I swear I'll never drink again, at least until the next time. But for the most part I did have a lovely Friday night. 
__________________
"If male homosexuals are called 'gay,' then female homosexuals should be called 'ecstatic!'" - Shelly Roberts
PROUDLY QUEER! HAPPILY LESBIAN!
“Some women can't say the word lesbian...even when their mouth is full of one.” - Kate Clinton
My AH Profile.
|
|
|
|
|
02-27-2013, 04:16 PM
|
#78
|
|
Literotica Guru
txboyalone is offline
Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: Southeast Tx
Posts: 1,093
|
I was wondering does anyone know how to raise a daughter so that she is not so focused on having a man to feel whole. We always raised our girls to be independent and self reliant, but they both always had to have a man and some of them have been real losers. Appreciate anyone thoughts on that subject.  |
|
|
|
|
02-28-2013, 10:08 AM
|
#79
|
|
No she's not back I'm Amy
Safe_Bet is offline
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Earth
Posts: 8,585
|
G'Day, Ladies.
Hope y'all are being haved! 
__________________
.
 Proud lesbian wife and mother!
|
|
|
|
|
02-28-2013, 03:06 PM
|
#80
|
|
No Gentleman
Stella_Omega is offline
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Under the cat
Posts: 37,086
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by txboyalone
I was wondering does anyone know how to raise a daughter so that she is not so focused on having a man to feel whole. We always raised our girls to be independent and self reliant, but they both always had to have a man and some of them have been real losers. Appreciate anyone thoughts on that subject. |
I suspect it's a matter of teaching them the difference between "being horny" and "being in love."
And accepting that "being horny" is a perfectly okay reason to hang out with someone. You don't have to make him the center of your life just because banging him gets you off.
Of course then we get into the whole issue of slut shaming. And you have to help them armour themselves against that. |
|
|
|
|
02-28-2013, 03:28 PM
|
#81
|
|
Really Really Experienced
Dyslexicea is offline
Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Iowa (which just sucks)
Posts: 318
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by txboyalone
I was wondering does anyone know how to raise a daughter so that she is not so focused on having a man to feel whole. We always raised our girls to be independent and self reliant, but they both always had to have a man and some of them have been real losers. Appreciate anyone thoughts on that subject. |
I'm not sure how I can help you. You've really given us very little info. What ages are your daughters, are they in school, are they outgoing, shy, have all their boyfriends been losers, do they do drug or alcohol? What's your family life like, two parent home, single parent home? I just can't give you quality advice if I don't know more.
__________________
"If male homosexuals are called 'gay,' then female homosexuals should be called 'ecstatic!'" - Shelly Roberts
PROUDLY QUEER! HAPPILY LESBIAN!
“Some women can't say the word lesbian...even when their mouth is full of one.” - Kate Clinton
My AH Profile.
|
|
|
|
|
03-01-2013, 09:46 AM
|
#82
|
|
No she's not back I'm Amy
Safe_Bet is offline
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Earth
Posts: 8,585
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Stella_Omega
I suspect it's a matter of teaching them the difference between "being horny" and "being in love."
And accepting that "being horny" is a perfectly okay reason to hang out with someone. You don't have to make him the center of your life just because banging him gets you off.
Of course then we get into the whole issue of slut shaming. And you have to help them armour themselves against that.
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Dyslexicea
I'm not sure how I can help you. You've really given us very little info. What ages are your daughters, are they in school, are they outgoing, shy, have all their boyfriends been losers, do they do drug or alcohol? What's your family life like, two parent home, single parent home? I just can't give you quality advice if I don't know more.
|
You two are SO nice.
My first thoughts were to either blow the guy off (which I sorta did) or tell him to get the hell out because this used to be / IS suppose to be a women's only thread.
Guess I'm just a bitch. Fuck it. Men can invade and do as they please. Why not here too?
__________________
.
Proud lesbian wife and mother!
|
|
|
|
|
03-01-2013, 10:55 AM
|
#83
|
|
Really Really Experienced
Dyslexicea is offline
Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Iowa (which just sucks)
Posts: 318
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Safe_Bet
You two are SO nice.
My first thoughts were to either blow the guy off (which I sorta did) or tell him to get the hell out because this used to be / IS suppose to be a women's only thread.
Guess I'm just a bitch. Fuck it. Men can invade and do as they please. Why not here too?
|
I almost did and if he'd have been asking something about his sons I would have.
OK! I'm so ashamed of myself next time I'll just shoot first ask questions later.
You really should spank me, ya know! 
__________________
"If male homosexuals are called 'gay,' then female homosexuals should be called 'ecstatic!'" - Shelly Roberts
PROUDLY QUEER! HAPPILY LESBIAN!
“Some women can't say the word lesbian...even when their mouth is full of one.” - Kate Clinton
My AH Profile.
|
|
|
|
|
03-01-2013, 11:40 AM
|
#84
|
|
Literotica Guru
txboyalone is offline
Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: Southeast Tx
Posts: 1,093
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Dyslexicea
I almost did and if he'd have been asking something about his sons I would have.
OK! I'm so ashamed of myself next time I'll just shoot first ask questions later.
You really should spank me, ya know! |
Sorry I didn't mean to offend. I really don't care if they loved men or women, I just thought that a lesbian would have a different perspective on the issue that a heterosexual man. I assume that your life experience may be different. I forgot that when you ask a public question of any group you will always find a certain percentage that live life with a permanent chip on their shoulder. Sorry to bother you. |
|
|
|
|
03-01-2013, 11:56 AM
|
#85
|
|
No she's not back I'm Amy
Safe_Bet is offline
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Earth
Posts: 8,585
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by txboyalone
Sorry I didn't mean to offend. I really don't care if they loved men or women, I just thought that a lesbian would have a different perspective on the issue that a heterosexual man. I assume that your life experience may be different. I forgot that when you ask a public question of any group you will always find a certain percentage that live life with a permanent chip on their shoulder. Sorry to bother you. |
Yeah... ^^ THAT ^^ was what I was talking about.
A dude who gets all pissy, insulting and "offended" when I don't want to interact with him, IN SPITE of this having been included on the very first post (that he obviously either didn't read or didn't give a shit).
Quote:
|
I'm starting this thread because I want a place where lesbians, Bi and TG women are free to say, think and be what what they are, without a lot of interaction or posts from men. No offense, guys but sometimes you just want to get away and talk with a sister who "gets it", ya know? (I can't keep you out, but I'd appreciate it if you'd respect the intent of this thread).
|
__________________
.
Proud lesbian wife and mother!
Last edited by Safe_Bet : 03-01-2013 at 11:58 AM.
|
|
|
|
|
03-01-2013, 12:01 PM
|
#86
|
|
Smile..it confuses people
stickygirl is offline
Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: UK
Posts: 6,528
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Dyslexicea
I almost did and if he'd have been asking something about his sons I would have.
OK! I'm so ashamed of myself next time I'll just shoot first ask questions later.
You really should spank me, ya know! |
Nah - shoot first and shoot later then point at SB and say it was her |
|
|
|
|
03-01-2013, 12:09 PM
|
#87
|
|
No she's not back I'm Amy
Safe_Bet is offline
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Earth
Posts: 8,585
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by stickygirl
Nah - shoot first and shoot later then point at SB and say it was her |
The scary part is that most everyone will nod and agree.
__________________
.
Proud lesbian wife and mother!
|
|
|
|
|
03-01-2013, 12:09 PM
|
#88
|
|
Really Really Experienced
Dyslexicea is offline
Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Iowa (which just sucks)
Posts: 318
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by stickygirl
Nah - shoot first and shoot later then point at SB and say it was her |
In Iowa we can carry concealed, so both Amy and I can shoot his ass or wherever. 
__________________
"If male homosexuals are called 'gay,' then female homosexuals should be called 'ecstatic!'" - Shelly Roberts
PROUDLY QUEER! HAPPILY LESBIAN!
“Some women can't say the word lesbian...even when their mouth is full of one.” - Kate Clinton
My AH Profile.
|
|
|
|
|
03-01-2013, 12:11 PM
|
#89
|
|
Really Really Experienced
Dyslexicea is offline
Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Iowa (which just sucks)
Posts: 318
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Safe_Bet
The scary part is that most everyone will nod and agree.
|
No they'll just think you're me or I'm you.
__________________
"If male homosexuals are called 'gay,' then female homosexuals should be called 'ecstatic!'" - Shelly Roberts
PROUDLY QUEER! HAPPILY LESBIAN!
“Some women can't say the word lesbian...even when their mouth is full of one.” - Kate Clinton
My AH Profile.
|
|
|
|
|
03-01-2013, 12:27 PM
|
#90
|
|
No she's not back I'm Amy
Safe_Bet is offline
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Earth
Posts: 8,585
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Dyslexicea
In Iowa we can carry concealed, so both Amy and I can shoot his ass or wherever. |
Nah, I wouldn't use a gun. I've studied Kendo for years! I just bought a new naginata that would be perfect for offended dude fixing!
BTW, I have a jar on my mantle that is full of things that look like long stem pickled mushrooms... quite attractive actually..
__________________
.
Proud lesbian wife and mother!
|
|
|
|
|
03-01-2013, 04:25 PM
|
#91
|
|
Really Really Experienced
Dyslexicea is offline
Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Iowa (which just sucks)
Posts: 318
|
Stickygirl I'm posting this for all of us to read, actually I was going to start a new thread but I think it would get more attention if you'd do so.
It's about the TV show Katie Couric did on "Growing Up Transgender". I think you'll like this article, the author is trans and kickass, but parts of her article did bring tears to my eyes. Her article also includes a link the show's website where you can watch the show as aired.
http://www.autostraddle.com/trapped-...uccess-159359/
__________________
"If male homosexuals are called 'gay,' then female homosexuals should be called 'ecstatic!'" - Shelly Roberts
PROUDLY QUEER! HAPPILY LESBIAN!
“Some women can't say the word lesbian...even when their mouth is full of one.” - Kate Clinton
My AH Profile.
|
|
|
|
|
03-01-2013, 04:46 PM
|
#92
|
|
Smile..it confuses people
stickygirl is offline
Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: UK
Posts: 6,528
|
It is a well written review of the Katie Couric show and it's so important that the focus today is on kids by the media. It is far easier for the public to be sympathetic towards children and realise the harm that can be done by suppressing a child's gender identity. Every parent ones sees in this and other shows, have been exemplary, loving parents who are strong enough to admit to their own confusion and trauma as much as being able to accept and support their child.
Who knows, one day transgender and LGB children might not be politely described as 'different' and 'special' but just as ordinary? I'll post a link in a couple of active threads. Thank you ((hug))
Could you guys have a look at the News item I just posted about a White House Petition? I think its genuine.
News Item
Last edited by stickygirl : 03-01-2013 at 06:41 PM.
|
|
|
|
|
03-01-2013, 04:53 PM
|
#93
|
|
catastrophe
girlsmiley is offline
Join Date: Sep 2010
Posts: 8,338
|
Where is Gia? Gia, get your behind in here, chick!
|
|
|
|
|
03-01-2013, 05:06 PM
|
#94
|
|
No she's not back I'm Amy
Safe_Bet is offline
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Earth
Posts: 8,585
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by stickygirl
Hey thanks - I'll look at that in a moment but first could you guys have a look at the News item I just posted about a White House Petition? I think its genuine.
News Item |
I responded in your News post. I think that is dated info. They passed the Senate version that included LGBT, First Nation and immigrant peoples.
__________________
.
Proud lesbian wife and mother!
|
|
|
|
|
03-02-2013, 10:19 AM
|
#95
|
|
Really Experienced
Romance1600 is offline
Join Date: May 2012
Posts: 283
|
Is there a bikini shop on this island?
|
|
|
|
|
03-02-2013, 01:08 PM
|
#96
|
|
No Gentleman
Stella_Omega is offline
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Under the cat
Posts: 37,086
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Romance1600
Is there a bikini shop on this island?
|
No... Mostly we skinny-dip. |
|
|
|
|
03-02-2013, 02:10 PM
|
#97
|
|
Really Experienced
Romance1600 is offline
Join Date: May 2012
Posts: 283
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Stella_Omega
No... Mostly we skinny-dip. |
Show me where! |
|
|
|
|
03-02-2013, 02:47 PM
|
#98
|
|
No Gentleman
Stella_Omega is offline
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Under the cat
Posts: 37,086
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Romance1600
Show me where!
|
You're already at the beach!
And welcome, by the way-- to our little oasis of flirt-and mind-fuck.
Lemme step behind the tiki bar-- wine, rum, tequila? Chocolate?  |
|
|
|
|
03-02-2013, 02:53 PM
|
#99
|
|
Really Experienced
Romance1600 is offline
Join Date: May 2012
Posts: 283
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Stella_Omega
You're already at the beach!
And welcome, by the way-- to our little oasis of flirt-and mind-fuck.
Lemme step behind the tiki bar-- wine, rum, tequila? Chocolate? |
Thanks.
Rum (and melted chocolate)
Please. |
|
|
|
|
03-02-2013, 03:04 PM
|
#100
|
|
No Gentleman
Stella_Omega is offline
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Under the cat
Posts: 37,086
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by Romance1600
Thanks.
Rum (and melted chocolate)
Please.
|
In the glass-- or over your body?  |
|
|
|
Posting Rules
|
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
HTML code is Off
|
|
|
|
All times are GMT -4. The time now is 10:24 AM. |
|
|
|
|
