Novice Sub, how to translate to Relationship?
I've known that I'm a sub for a couple of years, but I haven't had the opportunity to bring it out of my fantasies and preferred pages on Literotica and into an actual relationship. I'm attracted to dominant, strong men... But still...
I have no idea how to bring this up to my partner. I would like verbal and some physical abuse, but I'm kind of shy about it.
Any tips, advice?
Ultimately, I want a lifestyle Dom/sub relationship, not just in the bedroom. Is it too ambitious to want that from someone who isn't already involved in it?