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Old 09-06-2017, 06:00 PM   #1
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Threesomes--How fun are they, really?

I've never had a threesome--never had an opportunity present itself, and never been interested enough to seek one out--so I'm a bit in the dark. The talk of the town is that they're the greatest thing since sliced bread, but are they really? An extra person seems like extra work, and it seems like you would cycle through each person being the odd one out. So, for those of you who've won the belt, how do you feel about them?
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Old 09-06-2017, 06:51 PM   #2
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It completely depends on who the three people are and the dynamics between them.
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Old 09-06-2017, 06:55 PM   #3
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I've never had a threesome--never had an opportunity present itself, and never been interested enough to seek one out--so I'm a bit in the dark. The talk of the town is that they're the greatest thing since sliced bread, but are they really? An extra person seems like extra work, and it seems like you would cycle through each person being the odd one out. So, for those of you who've won the belt, how do you feel about them?
Never had a threesome but have had a foursome. It was great! I agree that it does depend on the people you're with. With the right people, it can be as fun as you imagine. With the wrong people, it can turn into a very negative situation.
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Old 09-06-2017, 08:08 PM   #5
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I've been in two, or four if you count weekends as different days. All were a while back, and the first was enough fun that we all decided to repeat the event the next night. The third and fourth were on another visit from the same friend, not as spontaneous because we all knew what was likely to happen, but fun none-the-less.
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Old 09-06-2017, 08:12 PM   #6
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I was in an MFM threesome in my twenties. We were all nervous, and it was rather awkward - more sexy in the memory than the actual event.

These days, however, I have semi-regular MMM sessions with a gay couple I know. They are out of this world!
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Old 09-06-2017, 08:15 PM   #7
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They are a lot of fun. So much so that I hope that during the next one I get to participate and I don't have to be the cameraman.
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Old 09-06-2017, 09:13 PM   #8
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Old 09-06-2017, 09:32 PM   #9
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Threesomes

My first threesome (MFF) was with a girlfriend and her best friend. And it was definitely a lot of fun. Except:

1) there's a lot of balancing and contorting involved. It was like playing Twister on a bed.

2) it does take some extra work to keep everyone involved and actively participating.

3) and apparently your bat shit crazy girlfriend considers it cheating if you have sex with the friend while the girlfriend is asleep.
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Old 09-07-2017, 02:33 AM   #10
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3 somes and more somes are great.
I would imagine if there were feelings (love) between any of the party it could be awkward for some .

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Old 09-07-2017, 02:41 AM   #11
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Threesome, foursome, orgy, gangbang. The number doesn't really matter if all parties know what they're supposed to do. The experience could be enjoyable. Else, it's awkward.
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Old 09-07-2017, 08:27 AM   #12
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I've had two women at the same time, shared my wife with other guys and been with other couples. LIke said above, it depends on the people involved. Most worked themselves out ok. A few just didn't work out.

The ones I like best are another bi guy and a woman. In those, there's none of this "don't touch me" from the other guy and we can all just enjoy each other.

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Old 09-07-2017, 10:59 AM   #13
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Old 09-07-2017, 11:21 AM   #14
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They are fantastic, especially being the middle man in an MMF.
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Old 09-07-2017, 06:52 PM   #15
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It completely depends on who the three people are and the dynamics between them.
This is so true. It doesn't matter if it is a threesome, foursome or moresomes you just have to be able to get on or it is very awkward. We found that we swing with the same two couples and the interplay is very erotic and sexually very satisfying.
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Old 09-08-2017, 02:30 AM   #16
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3) and apparently your bat shit crazy girlfriend considers it cheating if you have sex with the friend while the girlfriend is asleep.
Good to know. You know, just in case.
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Old 09-08-2017, 09:21 AM   #17
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I've never had a threesome--never had an opportunity present itself, and never been interested enough to seek one out--so I'm a bit in the dark. The talk of the town is that they're the greatest thing since sliced bread, but are they really? An extra person seems like extra work, and it seems like you would cycle through each person being the odd one out. So, for those of you who've won the belt, how do you feel about them?
I have never been involved in a threesome, but have fantasized about it a fair bit. To me, it would never be extra 'work', more like extra 'fun'. There may be some logistical issues about who should be where and doing what, to whom, but it would all work out in the end. The biggest issue that I could forsee is that all three would have to be willing to engage the other two.

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Old 09-08-2017, 09:30 AM   #18
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the first time i had a 3 sum....I was with two girls....we were like kids with Tonka trucks...smashing into each other. it was more comedy then sex

further on when I was with two guys then a married cpl...it got better
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Old 09-08-2017, 09:39 AM   #19
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"Never been there, they tell me it's nice."

IDK. As a guy I think the dream is to have two willing ladies. Another couple might be fun. I'm not bi but I have never had a chance to experiment with that concept "in the flesh", either.
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IDK. As a guy I think the dream is to have two willing ladies.
This is my preferred 3-some - another woman and myself and one guy. Having multiple guys on me at one time has always been too distracting to enjoy.
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Old 09-08-2017, 10:11 AM   #21
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Every (straight) guy's fantasy is a threesome with two women. The reality is though is I can't see how this is feasible for all parties involved. The porn industry would have us believe that in this scenario it's basically the two women tripping over each other to pleasure the man. But unless the women are bi, the onus is really on the man to pleasure both women. And that's a pretty tall order. Someone is going to be left wanting. And I doubt it'll be the man.
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Every (straight) guy's fantasy is a threesome with two women. The reality is though is I can't see how this is feasible for all parties involved. The porn industry would have us believe that in this scenario it's basically the two women tripping over each other to pleasure the man. But unless the women are bi, the onus is really on the man to pleasure both women. And that's a pretty tall order. Someone is going to be left wanting. And I doubt it'll be the man.
When it's the right guy, pleasuring the guy is all the fun.
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the first time i had a 3 sum....I was with two girls....we were like kids with Tonka trucks...smashing into each other. it was more comedy then sex

further on when I was with two guys then a married cpl...it got better
The more guys involved the better in my opinion.
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Good to know. You know, just in case.
I should have also pointed out that she is an ex girlfriend. Dodged that bullet.
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I've never had a threesome--never had an opportunity present itself, and never been interested enough to seek one out--so I'm a bit in the dark. The talk of the town is that they're the greatest thing since sliced bread, but are they really? An extra person seems like extra work, and it seems like you would cycle through each person being the odd one out. So, for those of you who've won the belt, how do you feel about them?
On a hotness/eagerness scale of one to ten, being in a threesome with two 1s would be a 1, and being in a threesome with two tens would be near infinity.
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