Hand pushing your head when sucking a cock

Do you like a hand pushing your head down when you are giving a blowjob?

i like having my

head pushed down when im going down on the ladies does that count!!?

bumlicker said:

head pushed down when im going down on the ladies does that count!!?

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No, I'm just wondering if those that suck cock like it (head pushing)- it can be a problem for me, I prefer to set my own pace- just need some advice.

Sometimes I like it, but mostly I like to be in control - I can make his experience last longer if I set the pace, and that is generally what I tell him - you'd be surprised how fast his hand moves away! That said, it can be really hot to have someone take control and move your head at the pace they want just as they are ready to orgasm - it makes me cum too!
For the record, it took over twently years with the same man before I let him take control like that!

help_me_Rhonda said:

No, I'm just wondering if those that suck cock like it (head pushing)- it can be a problem for me, I prefer to set my own pace- just need some advice.

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I've had women tell me that if they feel a hand on their head while they are going down on me that it would be over immediately. I've had other women tell me that they like to feel my hand there as long as there was no pressure. Yet others have told me they enjoy when I push their head down.

I certainly have my preference, but if the choice is blowjob or no blowjob - I'll go with the blowjob every time - even if that means a hands free experience (which has it's own charms to be sure!)

I wouldn't get too hung up on it. If you're uncomfortable with his hand being on your head, tell him "hands off if you want me to put it in my mouth". He'll either let you do your thing without interfering or he'll get used to not getting oral from you. It's your mouth - your rules.

It depends on the mood of the moment, but I do like when he's aggressive. I don't prefer it one particular way, though.

I like letting my man sit back so I can lavish attention and affection on his cock to make him feel adored. I also like when he takes control and satisfies himself with my mouth while I submit to his raw need. And I like the playful back-and-forth of some sucking and some thrusting...of teasing until he can't help but put a firm hand on my head and push deeper until it's my turn again.

Mix it up...no need to give the same blowjob twice

Thanks- this is all very helpful.

I find I can take him deeper when I time my breathing and relax my throat, but when he starts thrusting and pushing my head down, I can't get the proper rhythm.

But when he starts cumming, I don't mind him pushing in as much- I like to feel him in as far as possible at that point.

help_me_Rhonda said:

Thanks- this is all very helpful.

I find I can take him deeper when I time my breathing and relax my throat, but when he starts thrusting and pushing my head down, I can't get the proper rhythm.

But when he starts cumming, I don't mind him pushing in as much- I like to feel him in as far as possible at that point.

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I can relate to this. I can get into perfect rhythm on my own and really get to working his cock. I don't mind when he presses down some, but sometimes he gets a little overly enthusiastic and engages my gag reflex, which makes me have to slow down, relax my breathing and hopefully calm the reflex before he comes so I can swallow. If he can keep his hands to just ruffling my hair, swallowing is so much easier for me.

help_me_Rhonda said:

Thanks- this is all very helpful.

I find I can take him deeper when I time my breathing and relax my throat, but when he starts thrusting and pushing my head down, I can't get the proper rhythm.

But when he starts cumming, I don't mind him pushing in as much- I like to feel him in as far as possible at that point.

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I want the girl to enjoy doing it so I typically let her go at her own pace, except when she is barely keeping the head in... I know she can do better than that

i was never a 'head pusher' until my OL toldme she liked it sometimes, so being the thoughtful OM that i am sometimes i do it. she has ways of letting me know when she doesn't want it.
on the other hand, i love it when she grabs my head and just stuffs her pussy in my face.

just hold my hair back, I can do the rest....

mistletoe1963 said:

just hold my hair back, I can do the rest....

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^^ !!! THIS !!!!^^

TeaforMe said:

I can relate to this. I can get into perfect rhythm on my own and really get to working his cock. I don't mind when he presses down some, but sometimes he gets a little overly enthusiastic and engages my gag reflex, which makes me have to slow down, relax my breathing and hopefully calm the reflex before he comes so I can swallow. If he can keep his hands to just ruffling my hair, swallowing is so much easier for me.

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Thank you- that is it exactly!

mistletoe1963 said:

just hold my hair back, I can do the rest....

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Ok- now I know I'm not alone... I feel much better

I can do that for you

Cookie123 said:

^^ !!! THIS !!!!^^

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I will gladly hold your hair out of the way. The added benefit to this is I can watch how deep you take me .

CJ

CJ/ont said:

I will gladly hold your hair out of the way. The added benefit to this is I can watch how deep you take me .

CJ

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and your other hand on my throat to feel your cock inside.....

Mmmmmm yes! That too xxxx

CJ

positivetension said:

It depends on the mood of the moment, but I do like when he's aggressive. I don't prefer it one particular way, though.

I like letting my man sit back so I can lavish attention and affection on his cock to make him feel adored. I also like when he takes control

Mix it up...no need to give the same blowjob twice

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Have I mentioned that you are one of my favourite human beings on the planet?


Being a male I don't have much to add, other than I default to "holding her hair back" while she finds her rythym and go from there. But I will admit it sometimes becomes very VERY hard not to take two handfuls of that hair and fuck that mouth. HARD.

I do have a funny anecdote...about one of my first blowjobs going back to the summer break between Jr. & Senior High School (grades 8 & 9 for Canuckistanians)

She had gone down on a few other guys before, desperately wanted to give a cock worshipping blowjob...but the wanker chuckleheads before me all grabbed her head and she was NOT cool with that.
Sooooo me even more desperate for a blowjob than she was to give it agreed to be tied up to a kitchen chair so my hands couldn't possibly grab her head. She was a little older, seventeen or so, and I was fourteen, and the only thing we could come up with to tie me up were her nylon stockings.
When the last knot became tight and she finally had a male at her mercy, she flashed a hungry look that at the same time frightened, skeered me shitless, and turned me on at the same time. I was her plaything, and there was nothing I could do about it, and she loved it.

She used me, she abused me, she toyed with me...she loved it.
But eventually...she found her rhythm and wanted to finish me.

It took about 30secs from the time it took her to say "Cum in my mouth" with her hand stroking my shaft, her mouth sucking HARD on the head of my cock before I gave her my answer.........

.......but two heartbeats after I felt my balls clench she took her mouth off, looked at me with big brown eyes and asked "are you close?"....just as I shot the biggest load of my life...straight up her right nostril. I am guessing by the minutes she was convulsing on the floor that snorting cum isn't the best idea.

Still.......it is one of my fav blowjob memories. I have no idea why she never called me back after.

Absolutely not.

Porkwarrior said:

.......but two heartbeats after I felt my balls clench she took her mouth off, looked at me with big brown eyes and asked "are you close?"....just as I shot the biggest load of my life...straight up her right nostril. I am guessing by the minutes she was convulsing on the floor that snorting cum isn't the best idea

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omg, I may have a problem giving him his bj this evening without chuckling from your story....

mistletoe1963 said:

omg, I may have a problem giving him his bj this evening without chuckling from your story....

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hehehe

monkeyman057 said:

I've had women tell me that if they feel a hand on their head while they are going down on me that it would be over immediately. I've had other women tell me that they like to feel my hand there as long as there was no pressure. Yet others have told me they enjoy when I push their head down.

I certainly have my preference, but if the choice is blowjob or no blowjob - I'll go with the blowjob every time - even if that means a hands free experience (which has it's own charms to be sure!)

I wouldn't get too hung up on it. If you're uncomfortable with his hand being on your head, tell him "hands off if you want me to put it in my mouth". He'll either let you do your thing without interfering or he'll get used to not getting oral from you. It's your mouth - your rules.

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I love this post ....

Thank you

generally not as i prefer to do it at my own speed and rhythm and when i am ready to take him deeper then i do nas i dont want to ruin it by gagging

Saucy1980 said:

generally not as i prefer to do it at my own speed and rhythm and when i am ready to take him deeper then i do nas i dont want to ruin it by gagging

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me exactly.

help_me_Rhonda said:

Do you like a hand pushing your head down when you are giving a blowjob?

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If it's getting a little rough and he's into it, sure I don't mind...

For me it's trust. By now I trust Hubby enough. If I'm with someone new I don't think I would until I was comfortable.