Originally Posted by nearly_astray
I'm here, but obviously I'm not working too hard. (Well, a little hard. I've been reading some of the stories on Lit.)
So you are stealing from your employer?
"A relationship with BDSM is still a relationship. Thinking about it, it's like scuba diving. People have an inherent knowledge about certain parts and dangers of scuba diving ("We are swimming in water. Humans can't breathe under water. There are sharks in the ocean."), but have never touched a scuba tank or wore a diving suit before. And the only way to know how a diving suit feels is to wear one, no matter how many people you ask, how it feels like. You should focus on learning about the next steps you want to do, not try to learn everything there is about scuba diving and manometer calibration." -- Primalex